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Think You Know WHY Your Woman Is Having Sex With You?

Nellioness — Sat, 12 Mar 2011 12:44:19 +0000

Think you know why your girlfriend or wife is having sex with you? Can you imagine that sometimes her reason for sex with you doesn’t even involve YOU? Sorry guys for making you confused – but that’s true, whether you believe it or not.

There are lots of reasons why women have sex – some are very misleading, some are very serious, and some can be very, very, VERY SURPRISING. The hardest fact is that women’s reason and desire for sex is not necessarily a desire to really have sex and experience a pure physical pleasure. The Texas University psychologists, Cindy Meston and David Buss, conducted a fascinating study (2006-2009) and interviewed 1,000 different women to find out why they really have sex. In their book “Why Women Have Sex” (2009), Meston and Buss identified more than 200 unexpected reasons and diverse sexual motives!

Some women have sex to keep their loved one, whereas other women have sex to trap a new partner or get rid of an unwanted one. Some ladies do not know how to say ‘‘no’’ and feel like it’s easier to ‘‘go all the way’’ than to say no. Some feel sorry for a person, others feel guilty or make a special favor to someone. Among female reasons for sex there are – revenge, boredom, profit, losing weight, boosting self-esteem, curing a headache, relieving menstrual cramps, making her partner to forget about his problems and keeping the peace at home. The list is long, and love and pleasure are not at the top of it…

Ah, ladies. Why do we always tend to be so confusing and inscrutable to men? It may be time to be more open about some things ;)

So, why women really have sex? Get ready to have your minds blown with lots of surprising, funny and crazy things. It seems like that well-known quote “women need a reason to have sex, men just need a place” sounds like a true story, right?

I was ‘‘in the heat of the moment.’’
It just happened.
I was bored.
It just seemed like ‘‘the thing to do.’’
Someone dared me.
I wanted to feel closer to God.
I wanted to make up after a fight.
I wanted to get rid of aggression.
I wanted to have something to tell my friends.
I wanted to express my love for the person.
I wanted to experience the physical pleasure.
I felt like I owed it to the person.
I was attracted to the person.
I was sexually aroused and wanted the release.
My friends were having sex and I wanted to fit in.
It feels good.
My partner kept insisting.
The person was famous and I wanted to be able to say I had sex with him/her.
I was physically forced to.
I was verbally coerced into it.
I wanted the person to love me.
I wanted to have a child.
I wanted to make someone else jealous.
I wanted to have more sex than my friends.
I was married and you’re supposed to.
I wanted to feel loved.
I was feeling lonely.
Everyone else was having sex.
It was easier to ‘‘go all the way’’ than to stop.
I wanted to ensure the relationship was “committed.”
I was competing with someone else to ‘‘get the person.’’
I wanted to ‘‘gain control’’ of the person.
I was curious about what the person was like in bed.
I was curious about sex.
I wanted to feel attractive.
I wanted to please my partner.
I wanted to display submission.
I wanted to release anxiety/stress.
I didn’t know how to say ‘‘no.’’
I felt like it was my duty.
I wanted to end the relationship.
My friends pressured me into it.
I wanted the adventure/excitement.
I wanted to get even with someone.
I wanted to act out a fantasy.
I hadn’t had sex for a while.
The person was ‘‘available.’’
I didn’t want to ‘‘lose’’ the person.
I thought it would help ‘‘trap’’ a new partner.
I felt sorry for the person.
I wanted to ‘‘possess’’ the person.
I wanted to feel good about myself.
I was slumming.
I felt rebellious.
I wanted to intensify my relationship.
It seemed like the natural next step.
I wanted to be nice.
I wanted to feel young.
I wanted to manipulate him/her into doing something for me.
I wanted him/her to stop bugging me about sex.
I didn’t want to disappoint the person.
I was trying to ‘‘get over’’ an earlier person/relationship.
I wanted to reaffirm my sexual orientation.
I wanted to try out new sexual techniques or positions.
I felt guilty.
It was the only way my partner would spend time with me.
It became a habit.
I wanted to keep my partner happy.
I wanted to communicate at a deeper level.
I was afraid my partner would have an affair if I didn’t have sex with him/her.
I wanted a ‘‘spiritual’’ experience.
It was just part of the relationship ‘‘routine’’.
I wanted to lose my inhibitions.
I got ‘‘carried away.’’
I wanted to increase the number of sex partners I had experienced.
The person was too ‘‘hot’’ (sexy) to resist.
I thought it would relax me.
I thought it would make me feel healthy.
I wanted to see what it would be like to have sex with another person.
I thought it would help me to fall asleep.
I could brag to other people about my sexual experience.
It would allow me to ‘‘get sex out of my system’’ so that I could focus on other things.
I wanted to decrease my partner’s desire to have sex with someone else.
It would damage my reputation if I said ‘‘no.’’
I wanted to celebrate something.
I was seduced.
I was mad at my “partner,” so I had sex with someone else.
I wanted to fulfill a previous promise to my partner.
It was expected of me.
I wanted to keep my partner from straying.
I wanted the pure pleasure.
I’m addicted to sex.
I wanted to be used or degraded.
Someone offered me money to do it.
I was drunk.
It seemed like good exercise.
I was pressured into doing it.
It was a romantic setting.
I felt insecure.
My regular partner is “boring,” so I had sex with someone else.
I was on the ‘‘rebound’’ from another relationship.
Because of a bet.
I wanted to get back at my partner for having cheated on me.
I wanted to break up a rival’s relationship by having sex with his/her partner.
I wanted to stop my partners’ nagging.
I wanted to achieve an orgasm.
I wanted to get a job.
I wanted to get a promotion.
I wanted to satisfy a compulsion.
I wanted to change the topic of conversation.
I wanted to get out of doing something.
I wanted to test my compatibility with a new partner.
I wanted to put the passion back into my relationship.
I wanted to prevent a breakup.
I wanted to become one with another person.
I wanted to give someone else a sexually transmitted disease
I wanted to breakup another’s relationship.
I wanted to avoid hurting someone’s feelings.
I wanted to get rid of a headache.
I was afraid to say ‘‘no’’ due to the possibility of physical harm.
I wanted to burn calories.
I wanted to even the score with a cheating partner.
I wanted to feel older.
I wanted to become more focused on work – sexual thoughts are distracting.
I wanted to say ‘‘I’ve missed you.’’
I wanted to say ‘‘I’m sorry.’’
I wanted to return a favor.
I wanted to say ‘‘Thank you.’’
I wanted to say ‘‘goodbye.’’
I wanted to relieve menstrual cramps.
I wanted to get the most out of life.
I wanted to see what all the fuss is about.
The person was a good dancer.
Someone had told me that this person was good in bed.
The person had beautiful eyes.
The person made me feel sexy.
An erotic movie had turned me on.
The person had taken me out for an expensive dinner.
The person was a good kisser.
The person had bought me jewelry.
The person had a great sense of humor.
The person really desired me.
The person was really desired by others.
I wanted to gain access to that person’s friend.
I wanted to see if I could get the other person into bed.
The person smelled nice.
The person had an attractive face.
I saw the person naked and could not resist.
I was turned on by the sexual conversation.
The person was intelligent.
The person caressed me.
The person wore revealing clothes.
The person had too much to drink and I was able to take advantage of them.
The person was mysterious.
I realized I was in love.
I wanted to forget about my problems.
I wanted my partner to notice me.
I wanted to help my partner forget about their problems.
I wanted to lift my partner’s spirits.
I wanted to make my partner feel powerful.

Whatever your reason for having sex – do not forget about YOUR OWN PLEASURE. I hope it is always the first on your “sex reasons” list. Let the world wait and enjoy!

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How To Read Woman’s Sexual Body Language: The Signs Of Pleasure

Nellioness — Tue, 25 Jan 2011 14:30:58 +0000

Sometimes she moans. Sometimes she is too silent. Sometimes she meets your thrusts. Sometimes she pushes you away. And you know what? Sometimes she herself doesn’t understand her own body signals and the “mechanism” of her sexual arousal. Therefore, it comes as no surprise that it can be quite hard for a man to read a woman’s sexual body language and understand if he is pleasing her in the right way.

So, how to tell what’s going on with your lady when you make love? You are about to find out some nonverbal signs of female sexual pleasure and excitement. Sure, these body language signs aren’t 100% definite and accurate for each woman. But, my guess is that these signals of female arousal will help you interpret the hints of what your woman is feeling during lovemaking. Learn to read a woman’s body language and pay careful attention to your woman’s body response when you keep on kissing and caressing her.

She is moaning, groaning and screaming

Being vocal and noisy in the heat of passion is one of the most visible and evident signs of her sexual arousal. But, you have to tell if your woman is moaning and screaming in pleasure, not in pain. Her moans usually mean she feels relaxed and comfortable with you. Her screaming during sex is often an indication of approaching (or experiencing) the peak of sexual pleasure.

She is breathing fast and deep

Don’t panic when she starts breathing heavily. When she gets turned on, it takes her breath away and may look like she is panting. So, if you can hear her holding her breath, it probably means you are doing it right and great.

She is moving her hips to meet your hips

If your lady rhythmically moves her hips to meet your thrusts, then she is enjoying what you’re doing right now.

She grasps you tightly and her muscles become tense

When her pleasure is rising, her body becomes tense. She is grasping you everywhere and pushing against you. At the peak of orgasm, her entire body may become beautifully strong.

She gets all wet and you can feel her pussy juices

Increased sweating, sensitive clitoris and intense vaginal lubrication are definite signs of her sexual pleasure and excitement. Due to increased blood flow to the skin, she can have a sex flush and a reddening of the body skin. Her clitoris retracts under the clitoral hood, and her pussy lips become darker (due to blood swell). Pay attention to what is going on inside of your lady’s love hole. Enter her, and you will feel multiple and rhythmic contractions in her pussy.

She touches herself and tends to embrace you tightly

She tends to embrace you tightly and touch you everywhere. She can also touch herself to help you to arouse her body. But if she’s covering herself, getting shy of her body and holding her hands close to her – it means she is not relaxed and enjoying. Therefore, pay attention to what she is doing with her hands during lovemaking.

She is experiencing strong muscle contractions

As her pleasure increases and orgasm becomes imminent, she is experiencing powerful muscle contractions. This is one more evident and definite body sign of her sexual pleasure. Those muscle spasms may look like she is, well, in pain. But, be sure, those muscle contractions prove that she is feeling great and at the edge of an amazing orgasm.

She sheds a tear after an intense orgasm

At first, it seems that tears have nothing to do with female sexual pleasure. But, believe it or not, tears are sometimes a body sign of great emotional and physical satisfaction. If you are having an emotionally deep sex, it can trigger some tears of pleasure (in a sensitive and emotional woman). The thing is that her sexual ecstasy can be intense and powerful enough to make her have occasional tears near orgasm or immediately after it. Orgasms release hormones (endorphins) that cause energy boost and emotional highs, leading to tears. Tears are her body response to the pleasant stress. So, if you notice her shed a tear, you won’t go wrong if you talk to your lady to figure out the reason of her tears.

Reading your woman’s sexual body language is a huge step to increased pleasure for both of you. The responses a woman’s body reveals at the peak of pleasure are different and often misleading. The thing is that the female excitement takes a long time to build up. The more slowly you allow her arousal to build up, the stronger her pleasure will be.

Only a lover with a slow hand and careful attention can lead a woman to sexual pleasure. Learning how, when and where to touch a woman takes time and patience. Remember that female orgasm is not a push-button response. Many women have difficulty achieving orgasm. As every man, each woman is unique and what works for one girl, it won’t necessarily work for another. Explore her body’s sensual alternatives. Kiss, lick, suck, nibble, massage, compliment her and finger your woman to discover her body’s most sensual places. Try to build a strong emotional connection with your woman, and keep in mind: the way to a woman’s body lies through her heart and soul.

Lessons for men to learn for the rest of their sex life:

Read her sexual body language to achieve maximum pleasure for both of you
Pay attention to your woman’s sexual feedback to the different touches
The longer you sexually please her, the stronger her pleasure will be
What works for one woman, won’t necessarily work for another
Build with her an emotional connection first, physical second
Emotionally deep sex can trigger woman’s tears of pleasure
Female orgasm and arousal is not a push-button response
The path to a woman’s bed lies through her head
The way to a woman’s body is through her soul

Dear women reading this, help your men to satisfy you. Don’t simply lie there and wait for him to do wonders with your body. Show him how to read your sexual body language, and then you’ll enjoy the orgasmic fruits of your… errm… *his* labor ;)

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Woman About Sex 2010 Roundup Of Articles!

Nellioness — Sun, 26 Dec 2010 12:16:06 +0000

New Year 2011 is knocking at the door. And it’s a perfect time to glance through my articles and pick up most popular posts I’ve published on WomanAboutSex.Com in 2010. I am happy to announce that it’s been more than four years now since I started my blog in 2006. Thank you so much for being with me all year long. Thank you for your kind words, wishes and e-mails! I hope to see you soon in 2011, and I wish you all a very, very, very Happy New Year and all the best in your sex life!

I haven’t blogged that much this year, anyways there are articles which got your feedback, comments and page views. If you have your favorite posts on my blog – please let me know by placing a link or mentioning the post title in the comments section. And, take a minute to tell me what you would like to learn about in 2011!

Female Body Shapes and Types – Fruit Classification!

“Women, as fruits, come in all shapes, types and sizes. Each one is unique, appealing and delicious. Each one has her best body parts that men love most.”

No doubt, every woman is unique, so is every woman’s body. In this article, I take a look at the similarity between women’s figures and fruit shapes! I also suggest some sexual positions that may help to improve each body type. So, what fruit shape most closely resembles your body?

Woman’s Figure and Body Shape: The Hourglass Figure – Sexy Or Not?

“Whatever your figure and assets – do believe that you are the most beautiful and sexiest woman alive. Self-confidence, “feminine” behavior and a well-timed smile give you true beauty.”

This post was inspired by reader question. A man reader asked my opinion on complimenting a woman’s figure and body image. The thing is that he met a beautiful lady who was blessed with an hourglass body shape. He complimented on her body and… got slapped in the face. So, this article is dedicated to women with hourglass figure!

12 Famous Women With Houglass Figure!

“An hourglass figure is mostly about the body shape and contours, not the weight. A woman can be big and hourglass-shaped, and she can be small and thin and hourglass-shaped.”

This is one of the sexiest posts I have published in 2010. In this post you will take a look at figure-related quotes and 12 gorgeous celebrity women with appetite forms and perfect hourglass figure: Gina Lollobrigida, Sofia Loren, Marilyn Monro, Diana Dors, Jane Mansfield, Raquel Welch, Kelly Brook, Dita Von Teese, Beyonce Knowles, Jennifer Lopez, Kim Kardashian, and curvaceous model/singer Mayra Veronica. Enjoy!

Ben Wa Balls Types And Tips

“Although the pleasure-inducing properties of Ben Wa Balls are very disputable, one thing is for sure: Ben Wa Balls are great for exercising PC muscles and exploring a woman’s sensual side.”

The title says it all. I describe some popular types of Ben Wa Balls and point out tips, ideas and safety instructions! Strengthening pelvic floor muscles is very beneficial for women in many aspects. Stronger, tighter and sensitive vagina leads to more intense orgasms and better sex life overall. Take care of your sexual health and have fun!

Ben Wa Balls – What They Are And How They Work

“The larger the balls – the larger and more pronounced the whole sensation, stimulation and effect. It is kind of naive to think that Ben Wa Balls can provide an immediate orgasm.”

Ben Wa balls – also known as Pleasure Balls, Orgasm Balls, Love Balls, Duotone Balls, Kegel Balls and Smart Balls – are surrounded by hype and myths. This article tells about my experience and gives tips on how to use Ben Wa Balls.

Kegel Exercises For Men And Women – Helpful Tips & Simple Techniques

“Anyone can learn how to do Kegel exercises. The most fantastic thing about Kegels is that they are very easy to do.”

Almost every adult, whether a man or a woman, has heard of Kegel exercises. However, not everyone knows what Kegel exercises really are. In this post I discuss the benefits of Kegel exercises for male and female health. You will understand the importance of Kegel Exercise for PC muscle. Learn to do Kegels! Try out Kegel Exercise Techniques! And much more!

High Heels & Sexuality – Any Connection?

“Why do so many men love high heels on women? Just one big reason is that high heels add to female attractiveness and sexiness. When a woman is in heels, she’s more vulnerable and she can’t run away from a man.”

Most of women love wearing high heels and most men love high heels on women. High heels are an amazing “weapon” in the female’s arsenal. Therefore, I’ve decided to find out more about the connection between wearing high heels and sexuality. Why women love wearing high heels? Why do so many men love high heels on women? Is there anything good about wearing high heels? Find out top reasons and benefits!

Anal Lovemaking: Top 5 Anal Sex Toys!

“Although anal sex is still making some people blush, millions of men and women engage in anal lovemaking and play with anal sex toys.”

I describe top 5 anal sex toys designed to enhance anal pleasure. This post is for those ladies and gentlemen who just start (or, are ready to start) their journey into the naughty and “forbidden” world of anal sex.

Vaginal and Anal Bleaching – Safe Or Not?

“When it comes to making your privates prettier by using bleaching creams, there are risks that may outweigh the benefits. Just look in the mirror, and you may discover how beautiful and naturally sexy your sexual parts are.”

Everyone wants to look their best when it comes to things sexual and erotic. That is why anal and vaginal bleaching is becoming so popular nowadays. But, how safe is bleaching? How do bleaching creams work and what are the active ingredients? Here is some info to think about before bleaching your lovely things between the legs.

Sex Toys And Adult Gifts For 2011 – Rabbit Vibrators & Rabbit Sex Toys!

Nellioness — Sun, 19 Dec 2010 15:02:54 +0000

Hello there each and every one on WomanAboutSex.Com! Very soon we’ll be celebrating the most enigmatic holiday of the year. The ferocious year of the Metal Tiger is almost over, while the long-awaited year 2011 is just around the corner. According to the Chinese Zodiac – 2011 is the year of the Rabbit! And, I just want you to pamper yourself with Rabbit Vibrators and Rabbit Sex Toys!

I’ve manually selected an exciting range of legendary rabbit vibrators that are ready to please you 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, 365 days a year! The choice is based on my personal experience and my friends’ experience. Each sex toy is a true work of art, a real feast for the eyes and a pure pleasure for female most sensitive places. Here you have them – sex toys for the year 2011!

Waterproof Jack Rabbit Vibrator

Rotating shaft with rotating metal beads inside
Gives “full” feeling with 5″ insertable and 1.5″ diameter
Rabbit shaped clit stimulator with 3 contact points
3 speeds of vibration, 3 speeds of rotation
Reverse rotation button for the beads
Firm yet soft jelly rubber
Waterproof

Waterproof Jack Rabbit is one of the most popular sex toys in the world. This Cal Exotics rabbit vibrator has rotating shaft with metal beads that perfectly tickle the vaginal walls and rotate whichever way you want at the push of the reverse rotation button. The shaft is large enough to give that exciting feeling of fullness. Fun in and out of the water, Waterproof Jack Rabbit knows how to pleasure a woman ;)

Platinum Jack Rabbit Vibrator

7 vibration functions for the rabbit
6 speeds of shaft rotation
Non-jamming metal beads
Automatic off button
Waterproof
Body-safe

Platinum Jack Rabbit Vibrator is a precious masterpiece by California Exotics. This rabbit vibrator has everything to win a woman’s love and appreciation. Multi-speed and multi-functional, Platinum Jack Rabbit is blessed with 6 speeds of shaft rotation and 7 vibration types for the rabbit! Platinum Jack Rabbit is skin-safe, phthalates-free, and waterproof for fun in the bath or shower. Dedicated to simultaneous vaginal and clitoral pleasure, Platinum Jack Rabbit is great for everyone – whether you’re a beginner or experienced. Choose silver or gold Platinum Jack Rabbit and enjoy its sexual power at the push of a button!

Decadent Indulgence 3 Rabbit Vibrator

Vibrating, rotating, escalating, pulsating action
Tri-point elephant-shaped clitoral stimulator
5 levels and patterns of vibration and escalation
3 clitoral vibration patterns, each with 10 speeds
10 speeds of shaft rotation
Glow in the dark controls
Phthalates free, hypo-allergenic
100% satisfaction is guaranteed

Decadent Indulgence 3 is a part of California Exotic Decadent Indulgence Rabbit Vibrators collection: the original Decadent Indulgence, Decadent Indulgence 2 and Ultimate Decadent Indulgence. Decadent Indulgence 3 is a fabulous rabbit vibrator that never fails to please to the fullest. If you have a hard time achieving the big “O”, give a try to Decadent Indulgence 3. A truly amazing sex toy that is equipped with multiple functions and various speeds for you to experiment with sensations. Decadent Indulgence 3 is too good for words – it’s just a must have rabbit vibrator for every lady out there. 100% clitoral, g-spot and vaginal satisfaction is guaranteed.

Total Ecstasy Triple Stimulator Vibrator

Vaginal, clitoral and anal stimulation at once
5 vibration speeds, 5 rotation speeds
Vibrating slim 3″ anal stimulator
Multi-speed powerful vibration
Rabbit shaped clitoral stimulator
Penis head with ribbed neck

Total Ecstasy Triple Stimulator – as the name suggests this Pipedream rabbit vibrator is dedicated to bring you triple stimulation: vaginal, clitoral and anal pleasure at once! Swirled anal stimulator and clitoral rabbit are waiting to excite and tease your hottest spots. Packed with great functions and blessed with stunning look, Total Ecstasy Triple Stimulator is an all-in-one vibrator sex toy that is both physical and visual fun. Works well for the more experienced.

Orgasmic Foreplay Vibrator Kit 1

Multi-speed rotating rabbit vibrator
Multi-use slender probe sleeve
Removable bullet with handheld speed controls
Pleasure beads rotate clockwise or counter-clockwise
Penis shaped head with ridged neck
Multi-purpose and feminine vibrator kit

Orgasmic Foreplay Kit 1 is an awesome kit that contains a multi-speed rotating rabbit vibrator, multi-use probe sleeve and removable micro-bullet. This Cal Exotics vibrator kit can perfectly spice up your lovemaking and any sexual activity. Good size of each item and feminine look make the kit a very nice choice for beginners. You can also check out Orgasmic foreplay kit 2, which is designed for more experienced users. Have fun!

Merry Christmas & Happy New Year 2011! It’s a perfect time for giving and receiving gifts. Pamper yourself and your loved ones with SEX TOY GIFTS! See you soon with end of year round-up post!

Sex Toys For Halloween: Spooky Enough To Excite!

Nellioness — Thu, 28 Oct 2010 13:11:10 +0000

It’s been over four months since my last update on Womanaboutsex.com. Oh.My.God. Time sometimes flies like a bird. Well – hello there all my sweet friends! Thank you so much for sending kind emails and still coming to my little corner in this big, big world. Yes, Womanaboutsex.com is NOT dead, and Nellioness is still alive and excited about all things sensual & sexual.

Life has been so busy lately. I’ve been working on other things and had lots of personal challenges that kept me away from the blogging. Now, I consider myself the happiest woman ever, because nothing tastes as delicious as being back to what I love with all my heart – I mean – updating my site and staying in touch with you.

I am back just in time for Halloween. Halloween is the perfect chance to try out the weirdest, artistic and enjoyably scary things. So, this post is for those who want to stay home for Halloween 2010 and get a little more adventurous in bed. I’ve handpicked sex toys that look, say, not-so-sexy and spooky enough… to excite! Take a look below and try them… if you dare ;)

BANDITO strap-on dildo

The Bandito is a work of art by Fun Factory. The Bandito is blessed with artistic and mysterious design that makes this black dildo a great addition to your Halloween masquerade and lovemaking. Highest quality dildo, ideal for harness play!

FLEXI FELIX anal beads

Flexi Felix is a great sex toy to add spice to your Halloween celebration. Sure, Flexi Felix is NOT a spooky creature. It is a delightfully cute caterpillar with friendly face designed for anal fun. However, having The Flexi Felix smiling and looking out of your ass on the Halloween night – it may look quite frightening from the outside ;)

PUNISHMENT PLUG butt plug

Let your inner animal out this Halloween with another awesome sex toy that can greatly contribute to the Halloween arsenal or sexy animal costume. This is a BDSM butt plug with the 6″ long flogger tail! Imagine this black tail sticking out of your (your partner’s) butt on the Halloween night. Horrifically sexy!

THE SCREW butt plug

Halloween is a fantastic time to glow in the dark with The Screw! The Screw is a premium quality butt plug that is available in black and glow-in-the-dark white!

VAMP dildo

The pale and bloodless look of The Vamp makes this dildo a fantastic addition to a vampire themed Halloween party. The Vamp is a beautiful, undead cock created by Tantus. Please take time to enjoy the Vamp dildo review written by EdenFantasys advanced reviewer: The Twilick Saga: Breaking Dong. The greatest review I have ever read.

SUCCU DRY masturbator

No Halloween fun is complete without a vampire. So what about getting a vampire blowjob? Succu dry is a vampire mouth masturbator from Fleshlight. Great inner texture and stunning vampire fangs!

So, here you have some “spooky” additions to your sexy Halloween 2010! Have an exciting, jaw dropping, eye-popping, hair-raising, mind-boggling, breathtaking and sex-filled time ;) Whatever you choose to do this Halloween – be sure it is safe. Happy Halloween, everyone!

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Anal Lovemaking: Top 5 Anal Sex Toys!

Nellioness — Sun, 27 Jun 2010 14:46:17 +0000

Although anal sex is still making some people blush, millions of men and women often engage in anal lovemaking and are actively involved with anal sex toys. Today let me describe top five anal sex toys designed to enhance your anal pleasure and help you break this sexual ‘taboo’, if you have not done so already ;) This post is for those ladies and gentlemen who just start, or are ready to start, their journey into the naughty and “forbidden” world of anal sex. Here we go – top 5 anal sex toys for your anal joys!

BUTT PLUGS

A butt plug is one of the most popular anal sex toys even known to the world. The butt plug is a dildo-shaped sex toy with a flared end, designed to be used for anal stimulation. Butt plugs come in a variety of colors, materials, shapes, sizes, and textures. Generally, there are penis-shaped butt plugs, ribbed butt plugs, and vibrating butt plugs. Some butt plugs are designed for men to stimulate the prostate. Some butt plugs include a tail attached to the base of the plug. The most important idea of the butt plug design is the flared base that prevents the sex toy from getting stuck or lost in you. Butt plugs are used by both sexes and all sexual orientations.

ANAL BEADS

Anal beads are cute and sexy and look like a necklace. This is the anal sex toy consisting of several small balls attached together by a piece of nylon cord or other type of strong rope-like material. Anal beads are used by inserting bead by bead into the anal canal. Anal beads are commonly made of silicone, plastic, rubber, glass or metal. This anal sex toy ends with a ring or similar handle designed for easy pulling. The other purpose of this ring is to prevent the sex toy from becoming fully lodged in the rectum. Some people enjoy having sex with anal beads inside. Anal beads are great to use by both men and women, and all sexual orientations.

ANAL VIBRATORS

You can choose to explore your anal potential with anal vibrators. Anal vibrators, as the name suggests, are vibrators designed to be used for anal penetration. The average size of the anal vibrator may vary from 4-6″ long and about 1 inch wide. Anal vibrators may pulsate, rotate, and vibrate in different speeds and levels. As well as anal beads and butt plugs, anal vibrators may be used by both men and women of all sexual orientations.

ANAL PROBES

Anal probes can be a lot of visual and physical fun. Anal probes are long anal sex toys. Anal probes are great choice for those who are able to insert lengthy things in the butt. Anal probes provide the delicious sensation of fullness. There are anal probes made of glass, jelly, rubber silicone, wood and the highest quality medical-grade steel (which is completely hypoallergenic, heavy and durable). There are curvy and flexible anal probes that are easier to insert and are the great choice for anal sex toy beginners.

PROSTATE MASSAGERS

Prostate massage is one of the most pleasurable activities for men. Prostate massagers are meant for massage of the male prostate gland for sexual stimulation and medical purposes. Prostate massage can be done solo and with partner’s help. This sensual and erotic massage leads to deeper orgasmic pleasure for a man. The prostate gland is located on the front wall of the anal canal and is called the male G-Spot. The prostate is responsible for a man’s erection and ejaculation. Prostate massagers come in a wide range of types. For example, Nexus offers the finest range of prostate massagers of different size, form and functionality. Whether you are new to prostate massage or experienced, Nexus has something for everyone.

Explore your back door with anal sex toys and do not forget to use loooots of lubrication! ;)

Vaginal and Anal Bleaching – Safe Or Not?

Nellioness — Thu, 24 Jun 2010 15:19:54 +0000

Anal and vaginal bleaching is becoming more and more popular nowadays. Although anal and vaginal bleaching is mainly performed by strippers, bodybuilders, models, celebrities and those ladies and gentlemen in the porn industry, more and more ordinary women (and some men) turn to this procedure because almost everyone wants to look their best when it comes to things sexual and erotic.

Anal bleaching refers to the lightening, in other words, bleaching of skin around the anus to get rid of dark pigmentation, for enhancing the beauty of that sensual and sensitive anal area. Vaginal bleaching, as the name suggests, refers to the lightening of the skin around the vagina, for cosmetic purposes as well.

Bleaching creams active ingredients

Most of the bleaching creams contain hydroquinone and other chemicals that can lead to skin reactions. Some bleaching creams contain somewhat “safe” ingredients such as Niacinamide (Vitamin B3), Mulberry Extract, Bearberry Extract, Lemon Juice Extract, Lactic Acid.

Hydroquinone is an ingredient, found in most of the bleaching creams. Hydroquinone, or benzene-1,4-diol and quinol, is an organic compound which is a type of phenol. Hydroquinone may cause severe side effects in our body such as, for example, liver damage and thyroid disorder. Any skin-lightening product containing hydroquinone must be avoided. Hydroquinone is also used in photo processing and rubber manufacturing, by the way.

Meladerm is the latest skin-lightener and pigment reducing complex. Meladern is used on the face and body to remove unwanted age spots, birthmarks, tans, dark elbows, underarms, etc. Meladern includes Vitamin B3, Mulberry Extract, bearberry extract, lemon juice, emblica powder, lactic acid and glycolic acid. Meladern does not contain Hydroquinone.

How anal bleaching creams work

Our body naturally produces the substance that gives our skin and hair the color. The substance is called Melanin. The more melanin is produced in the body, the darker the skin. Also, Melanin provides a natural protection against the harmful effects of ultraviolet rays of the sun. The thing is that Hydroquinone and other lightening chemicals inhibit the skin’s production of melanin, lightening the applied skin area. Bleaching agents temporarily lighten skin color, and exposure to sunlight may create a darker appearance than before. This is why you should not come to the sunlight after the skin bleaching procedure.

Is anal and vaginal bleaching safe?

Although some beauty salons advertise safety of the procedure, anal and vaginal bleaching is NOT safe. The bleaching procedure is done by the application of a bleaching cream to that sensual intimate skin. The active ingredients in the bleaching creams contain harmful chemicals that can lead to serious side effects. By the way, anal bleaching is banned in some countries.

Be very, very, very careful and extra cautious if you decide to perform anal and vaginal bleaching. In fact, beatifying your ass can become the pain in the ass. Although most bleaching creams advertise safety, think twice before using them. When it comes to making your privates prettier by using bleaching creams, there are risks that may outweigh the benefits.

Just look in the mirror and you may discover how beautiful and naturally sexy your privates are. Look in the mirror and say – Damn I’m sexy! ;)

Sex Glossary: Sexual Definitions Every Adult Should Know – Letter N!

Nellioness — Fri, 28 May 2010 07:11:07 +0000

Hello there, my sexy friends. How are you? I have been absent in the blog world for too long. It’s been a very busy time lately so I apologize for my long absence and not updating the site. My health problems and family matters have completely taken over my life, so I just really had no time and no inspiration for blogging, unfortunately.

But now I am back :) And I am back with a new sex glossary. I know, I know, you are tired from all those sex terms, but still let me finish my sex glossary series. Want it or not, but today you have sexual words and terms beginning with lovely letter N. Guess why “N” is my favorite letter? ;))

In my previous sex glossary post, I’ve offered a list of sexual words starting with letter M. Today’s glossary contains nine definitions of sexual practices, nipple devices, and more. Although most of the words are well known, still let me hope that someone will find something new to learn and try out. As usually, for my first-time readers, let me point out that most definitions are simplified and described briefly. All my glossaries are intended for general audience and for general information purposes only.

Increase your sexual vocabulary and do not forget to check out my previous lists, including the latest list of letter-M definitions. I’m always open to your suggestions, corrections and sexy comments. If you have any other terms to add to my lists – feel free to post them in the comment section! So here we go!

Sexicon for lovers and others: LETTER N

NIPPLE CLAMPS: A nipple clamp is a clamp used to stimulate the nipples by applying varying degrees of pressure. The basic principle of nipple clamping is the restriction of blood flow to the nipple in order to heighten the nipple sensitivity. There are adjustable and non-adjustable, non-vibrating and vibrating nipple clamps; tweezer nipple clamps, clover nipple clamps, beaded nipple clamps, bell nipple clamps, etc. Although nipple clamps are often used in BDSM sexuality, in fact, nipple clamps can be also used by anybody who enjoys having their nipples stimulated. Nipple clamps come in a variety of styles and types. When it comes to wearing nipple clamps, it is very important to find a personal balance between the amount of pain and pleasure. For pleasurable application, it is advisable that nipple clamp beginners should not use clamps longer than 10 minutes at a time. During the nipple clamping watch carefully for skin discoloration and temperature change. Remove at once if they cause prolonged discomfort, swelling, or discoloration of the skin. Play safe!

NIPPLE HUGGERS: Nipple huggers are adjustable non-piercing nipple shields made from copper based wire. Nipple huggers are applied with pressure and held on by tension. These sensual beauties can be shaped to fit the contours of almost any type of nipple, however, preferably, your nipples should not be inverted or flat. Nipple huggers not only look sexy, they provide pleasurable sensation to the nipple and areola!

NIPPLE CLIPS: Nipple clips are delicate non piercing nipple arousers that are suitable for all types of female nipples because nipple clips can open and close to accommodate a range of nipple sizes. Nipple clips come in various designs, but the main idea of a nipple clip is stimulating the nipple via pinching pressure. Nipple clips are especially comfortable for the ladies with small or inverted nipples. These lovely things make the nipple more pronounced. To place the clips, open the clip slightly and slide in your nipple until it is at the top of the U-shaped piece of metal. Adjust for a comfortable secure fit and enjoy!

NIPPLE PASTIES: Nipple pasties are adhesive coverings applied to cover a woman’s nipples. To place a pastie you have to peel of the backing and simply paste onto the nipple! Fun and cute, these nipple covers are ideal for a private dance, or as an alternative to sexy swimwear. They also work great with sexy lingerie or under a thin figure-hugging dress! Sexy nipple pasties are available in a variety of styles and shapes such as star-shaped nipple pasties, x-shaped, heart-shaped nipple pasties, etc. There are also nipple tassels, pasties that feature tassels which hang from the center. In fact, all types of nipple pasties are very, very fun!

NIPPLE ERECTION: Nipple Erection is the protruding of the nipples in both women and men as a result of sexual stimulation and arousal.

NOCTURNAL EMISSION: Nocturnal emission (also known as a “wet dream”) is when a man ejaculates in his sleep :)

NOONER: Nooner is a quickie during the lunchtime or midday, especially, that one taking place at the office environment

NECROPHILIA: Necrophilia, also referred to as necrolagnia, is the desire to have sex with dead people, in other words, it is a sexual attraction to corpses. The word is derived from Ancient Greek: nekros (”dead”), and philia (”friendship”).

NYMPHOMANIA: The word is used to describe a female psychological disorder characterized by an obsession with sex and hyperactive sex drive and desire. A woman who is sexually obsessed is referred as a “nymphomaniac”, “nympho” or “sex addict”. In men, this disorder is known as Satyriasis.

Finally, let me mention one more sexy word starting with letter N: Nellioness ;) See you ladies and gentlemen!

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Related articles:
Ten Ways To Arouse Your Woman Via Her Delicious Breasts And Nipples! – Want to know how to treat female breasts properly? Read on to see what pleasure techniques you can use on her!
The Breast Orgasm: Not Common, But Certainly Possible!
Nipple Clamps: Enjoyable Stimulation and Sexy Decoration For Women’s Breasts!

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Sex Glossary: Sexual Definitions Every Adult Should Know – Letter Mmmm!

Nellioness — Sun, 18 Apr 2010 14:49:51 +0000

Want it or not, I keep posting my glossaries of sexual definitions ;) Today we have sexual words and terms beginning with Mmmmm…

Just think of the words starting with this ‘orgasmic’ letter – Mutual Masturbation, Making out, Multiple orgasms. My list below offers over 10 letter-M words including slang words, vagina and penis nicknames, sexual practices, and much more. Although many words are well known, there’s a chance that someone will find here new ideas and expressions to be learned or even tried out tonight. As usually, for my first time readers, let me point out that most definitions are described briefly and simplified. All my glossaries are intended for general audience and for general information purposes only.

To be a good lover, we should be sexually aware and sexually intelligent, right? So, we have to know who’s who and what’s what in the world of love and sex. The primary idea behind my glossaries is that good sex is inspired by love and guided by sexual knowledge. Increase your sexual vocabulary and let me hope that my glossaries are somewhat helpful ;) I’m always open to your suggestions and corrections. Do not forget to check out my previous lists, including the latest list of letter-L definitions. Help me improve my glossaries by letting me know if there is something to add (word/term/phrase, etc)! Enjoy!

Sexicon for lovers and others: LETTER M

MASTURBATION: Masturbation… Masturbation is one of the most popular sexual acts performed to achieve arousal and receive sexual pleasure. The word is believed to derive from the Latin word ‘manus’ (hand) and ‘turbare’ (to disturb). Masturbation is stimulating, caressing and touching your own body (or your lover’s body) for arousal and sexual pleasure. Masturbation is the self-stimulation of your body’s most sensual parts and erogenous zones such as breasts, thighs, lips, buttocks, anus, penis, clitoris. It is exploring your own body and discovering your sexual potential.

People masturbate in lots of different ways. The masturbation can be performed manually. Many masturbate by rubbing against an object, such as a pillow. Some use various sex toys and vibrators to masturbate. Some ladies prefer pussy fingering. One of the masturbation techniques men enjoy is titty fucking which means thrusting/masturbating the penis between a woman’s breasts and ejaculate on her breasts or face. Men like to watch women masturbate because it can be a very sensual and beautiful scene. Tribadism, or scissoring, is a form of mutual masturbation between lesbians in which ladies are rubbing and pressing their pussies against each other. Tribadism is not only pussy-against-pussy rubbing, it is any form of pussy-rubbing against a partner’s body.

Masturbation is a great way to relieve sexual tension especially for people without lovers or those whose sweethearts are not available for sex right now. Many sex experts consider that both solo-masturbation and mutual masturbation can improve sexual relationships and sexual health. Although a natural form of sexual activity and a popular act, masturbation is labeled as sinful and still surrounded by taboo and myths. Whatever the myths and labels, obviously and fortunately, masturbation will never disappear :)

MUTUAL MASTURBATION: Mutual masturbation is masturbating/stimulating each other’s privy parts. Lovers may touch, caress, massage each other’s intimate spots and places. Mutual masturbation can also involve stimulating your own genitals while watching your lover stimulating himself/herself. There is also non-contact mutual masturbation when one lover is stimulating herself/himself while the other is watching, but not touching. Mutual masturbation can be done as a part of foreplay or simply as an alternative to casual intercourse. It is a wonderful way to learn more about each other’s pleasure-spots and discover each other’s sexual and sensual potential.

MENAGE A TROIS: A ménage à trois refers to a sexual activity and relationship involving three people, also known as a “threesome” (usually, 2 women with 1 man or 2 men and 1 woman). Ménage à trois is the French term which literally translates as “household of three”.

M.I.L.F.: MILF, or ‘Mom I’d Like to Fuck’, is a slang word used to describe a sexually attractive middle-aged woman (usually, she is between 35-50 in age). A MILF is not necessarily an actual mother. The word was popularized by the film American Pie:
While looking at a picture of Stifler’s mother:
MILF Guy #2: Dude that chick’s a MILF!
MILF Guy #1: What to hell is that?
MILF Guy #2: M-I-L-F Mom I’d Like to Fuck!
MILF Guy #1: Yeah dude! Yeah!

MISSIONARY POSITION: Missionary position (i wish i could think of a better term) is one of the most popular, intimate, comfortable and pleasurable sex positions ever, where the woman lies on her back with her legs spread and the man mounts her with his arms supporting his weight.

The missionary position is a man-on-top and face-to-face sex position named supposedly after the Christian missionaries who taught that man-on-top was the only natural and proper position for a man and woman to have sex. Tuscans refer to the position as “The Angelic Position” while some Arabic-speaking groups call it “the manner of serpents”. The ancient Chinese preferred male-on-top because of their belief that males were born face down and women were born face up. Before the term “missionary position” came into common use, this sex position was known by several names, for example, “the matrimonial”, “the mama-papa position”, “the English-American position”, and “the male superior position”.

Personally, the good old missionary is my all-time favorite. Although many find this sexual position “old-fashioned” and unimaginative, it is really popular and widely practiced by most lovers around the world. There are many variations of the missionary position which allow for different degrees of g-spot stimulation and the depth of penetration. Think the missionary position is boring? Take a look at my post where I describe the missionary position benefits and offer some really nice variations!

MULTIPLE ORGASMS: Multiple orgasms are having more than one orgasm (one after the other, consecutive orgasms) in a single sex session. It is true that a woman or a man can have multiple orgasms. Believe it or not, but I am proud to announce that I once experienced eight consecutive orgasms. I’m serious. Moreover, I believe that every woman has the capability of reaching such heights of sexual pleasure.

MARQUIS DE SADE: Marquis de Sade (1740-1814) was a French aristocrat and novel writer known for depicting sadistic and violent sexual fantasies in his writings. The term SADISM is derived from his name. Sadism is human behavior where one is feeling sexual excitement and receiving emotional pleasure from inflicting pain and watching pain inflicted on others. Marquis de Sade was a proponent of extreme freedom, unrestrained by morality, religion or law. Marquis de Sade was known for his sadistic behaviors that he described in his erotic novels. For about 32 years of his life Marquis de Sade spent in prisons and psychiatric hospitals.

MASOCHISM: Masochism is receiving pleasure from receiving pain. The term is derived from the name of an Austrian writer Leopold Ritter von Sacher-Masoch. Sadism and masochism are often known under the term “sadomasochism”, also S&M or SM. Sadomasochism is one of the three subdivisions of BDSM, which also involves B&D (bondage and discipline) and D/s (dominance and submission).

MASTER/MISTRESS: Master and mistress, also known as “top” or “dominant”, are words usually used in BDSM terminology. In a BDSM relationship, “master” or “mistress” is a person who derives erotic pleasure from temporary and consensual control over another person. In other words, this partner takes a controlling role in a BDSM relationship or a BDSM scene. The person who takes the passive role is known as submissive partner, also known as a “bottom”.

MASTILAGNIA: Mastilagnia is deriving sexual pleasure from being whipped or from the desire of being whipped.

MONS PUBIS: Mons pubis, also known as mons veneris or simply the mons, is the area above a woman’s vulva which is covered with pubic hair. The term “mons veneris” means ‘mound of love’ and comes from Latin words ‘mons’ (mound) and ‘veneris’ (Venus, a Roman goddess associated with love, beauty and fertility).

MUFF: Muff is a slang word for vulva. There are other letter-M words used to refer to a woman’s pussy such as Mantrap, Main Street, Manhole, Multi-Purpose Hall, Middle eye, Milk jug, Mine of pleasure, Miss Laycock, Modesty, Mound, Mrs. Winkles, Mouth that cannot bite, Mysterious cavern, Mysterious valley.

MAIN VEIN: Slang for a man’s penis. Other letter-M nicknames and words for penis are: Mr. “P”, Man in the man, Meat, Mister Man, Man’s mark, Mr. Big, Mr. Happy, Man with helmet and two bowling balls.

MASSAGE: Erotic massage is a highly sensual and magic experience. Erotic massage is the use of massage techniques to enhance sexual pleasure and heighten the body’s sensitivity. Erotic massages typically involve the stimulation of erogenous zones and caressing your lover’s privy parts. The ultimate purpose is not making your loved one relaxed and sleepy, but making him or her relaxed, excited and desiring for intimacy. Besides, erotic massage may be used professionally to help some men learn to control premature ejaculation. The main part of erotic massage is allowing your hands and fingers to work over your partner’s privy places.

In Tantric sexuality, there is a Lingam (penis) and Yoni (vagina) massage. As I’ve mentioned in my previous post, Lingam/Yoni massage is a special experience for both giver and receiver. It is a very sensual and honoring massage with the purposes of showing love and respect for your lover’s body and his/her penis/vagina, releasing your lover’s fears and expanding his or her ability to receive pleasure. Everyone likes to be touched in those most sensitive and intimate body places in that sensual kind of way. So, I believe giving an erotic and genital massage is one of the best skills one can develop.

And final “word” starting with letter M is “Mmm… mmmhp… mmmh mmmmph”, which is one of the sounds of people making love! Wishing you amazing and hot sex full of pleasure moans, groans and sounds! Oh, I’ve got one more letter-M word for you, just one word: Mwahh-Muahh! ;)