Woman About Sex

Think you know why your girlfriend or wife is having sex with you? Can you imagine that sometimes her reason for sex with you doesn’t even involve YOU? Sorry guys for making you confused – but that’s true, whether you believe it or not.

There are lots of reasons why women have sex – some are very misleading, some are very serious, and some can be very, very, VERY SURPRISING. The hardest fact is that women’s reason and desire for sex is not necessarily a desire to really have sex and experience a pure physical pleasure. The Texas University psychologists, Cindy Meston and David Buss, conducted a fascinating study (2006-2009) and interviewed 1,000 different women to find out why they really have sex. In their book “Why Women Have Sex” (2009), Meston and Buss identified more than 200 unexpected reasons and diverse sexual motives!

Some women have sex to keep their loved one, whereas other women have sex to trap a new partner or get rid of an unwanted one. Some ladies do not know how to say ‘‘no’’ and feel like it’s easier to ‘‘go all the way’’ than to say no. Some feel sorry for a person, others feel guilty or make a special favor to someone. Among female reasons for sex there are – revenge, boredom, profit, losing weight, boosting self-esteem, curing a headache, relieving menstrual cramps, making her partner to forget about his problems and keeping the peace at home. The list is long, and love and pleasure are not at the top of it…

Ah, ladies. Why do we always tend to be so confusing and inscrutable to men? It may be time to be more open about some things ;)

So, why women really have sex? Get ready to have your minds blown with lots of surprising, funny and crazy things. It seems like that well-known quote “women need a reason to have sex, men just need a place” sounds like a true story, right?

I was ‘‘in the heat of the moment.’’
It just happened.
I was bored.
It just seemed like ‘‘the thing to do.’’
Someone dared me.
I wanted to feel closer to God.
I wanted to make up after a fight.
I wanted to get rid of aggression.
I wanted to have something to tell my friends.
I wanted to express my love for the person.
I wanted to experience the physical pleasure.
I felt like I owed it to the person.
I was attracted to the person.
I was sexually aroused and wanted the release.
My friends were having sex and I wanted to fit in.
It feels good.
My partner kept insisting.
The person was famous and I wanted to be able to say I had sex with him/her.
I was physically forced to.
I was verbally coerced into it.
I wanted the person to love me.
I wanted to have a child.
I wanted to make someone else jealous.
I wanted to have more sex than my friends.
I was married and you’re supposed to.
I wanted to feel loved.
I was feeling lonely.
Everyone else was having sex.
It was easier to ‘‘go all the way’’ than to stop.
I wanted to ensure the relationship was “committed.”
I was competing with someone else to ‘‘get the person.’’
I wanted to ‘‘gain control’’ of the person.
I was curious about what the person was like in bed.
I was curious about sex.
I wanted to feel attractive.
I wanted to please my partner.
I wanted to display submission.
I wanted to release anxiety/stress.
I didn’t know how to say ‘‘no.’’
I felt like it was my duty.
I wanted to end the relationship.
My friends pressured me into it.
I wanted the adventure/excitement.
I wanted to get even with someone.
I wanted to act out a fantasy.
I hadn’t had sex for a while.
The person was ‘‘available.’’
I didn’t want to ‘‘lose’’ the person.
I thought it would help ‘‘trap’’ a new partner.
I felt sorry for the person.
I wanted to ‘‘possess’’ the person.
I wanted to feel good about myself.
I was slumming.
I felt rebellious.
I wanted to intensify my relationship.
It seemed like the natural next step.
I wanted to be nice.
I wanted to feel young.
I wanted to manipulate him/her into doing something for me.
I wanted him/her to stop bugging me about sex.
I didn’t want to disappoint the person.
I was trying to ‘‘get over’’ an earlier person/relationship.
I wanted to reaffirm my sexual orientation.
I wanted to try out new sexual techniques or positions.
I felt guilty.
It was the only way my partner would spend time with me.
It became a habit.
I wanted to keep my partner happy.
I wanted to communicate at a deeper level.
I was afraid my partner would have an affair if I didn’t have sex with him/her.
I wanted a ‘‘spiritual’’ experience.
It was just part of the relationship ‘‘routine’’.
I wanted to lose my inhibitions.
I got ‘‘carried away.’’
I wanted to increase the number of sex partners I had experienced.
The person was too ‘‘hot’’ (sexy) to resist.
I thought it would relax me.
I thought it would make me feel healthy.
I wanted to see what it would be like to have sex with another person.
I thought it would help me to fall asleep.
I could brag to other people about my sexual experience.
It would allow me to ‘‘get sex out of my system’’ so that I could focus on other things.
I wanted to decrease my partner’s desire to have sex with someone else.
It would damage my reputation if I said ‘‘no.’’
I wanted to celebrate something.
I was seduced.
I was mad at my “partner,” so I had sex with someone else.
I wanted to fulfill a previous promise to my partner.
It was expected of me.
I wanted to keep my partner from straying.
I wanted the pure pleasure.
I’m addicted to sex.
I wanted to be used or degraded.
Someone offered me money to do it.
I was drunk.
It seemed like good exercise.
I was pressured into doing it.
It was a romantic setting.
I felt insecure.
My regular partner is “boring,” so I had sex with someone else.
I was on the ‘‘rebound’’ from another relationship.
Because of a bet.
I wanted to get back at my partner for having cheated on me.
I wanted to break up a rival’s relationship by having sex with his/her partner.
I wanted to stop my partners’ nagging.
I wanted to achieve an orgasm.
I wanted to get a job.
I wanted to get a promotion.
I wanted to satisfy a compulsion.
I wanted to change the topic of conversation.
I wanted to get out of doing something.
I wanted to test my compatibility with a new partner.
I wanted to put the passion back into my relationship.
I wanted to prevent a breakup.
I wanted to become one with another person.
I wanted to give someone else a sexually transmitted disease
I wanted to breakup another’s relationship.
I wanted to avoid hurting someone’s feelings.
I wanted to get rid of a headache.
I was afraid to say ‘‘no’’ due to the possibility of physical harm.
I wanted to burn calories.
I wanted to even the score with a cheating partner.
I wanted to feel older.
I wanted to become more focused on work – sexual thoughts are distracting.
I wanted to say ‘‘I’ve missed you.’’
I wanted to say ‘‘I’m sorry.’’
I wanted to return a favor.
I wanted to say ‘‘Thank you.’’
I wanted to say ‘‘goodbye.’’
I wanted to relieve menstrual cramps.
I wanted to get the most out of life.
I wanted to see what all the fuss is about.
The person was a good dancer.
Someone had told me that this person was good in bed.
The person had beautiful eyes.
The person made me feel sexy.
An erotic movie had turned me on.
The person had taken me out for an expensive dinner.
The person was a good kisser.
The person had bought me jewelry.
The person had a great sense of humor.
The person really desired me.
The person was really desired by others.
I wanted to gain access to that person’s friend.
I wanted to see if I could get the other person into bed.
The person smelled nice.
The person had an attractive face.
I saw the person naked and could not resist.
I was turned on by the sexual conversation.
The person was intelligent.
The person caressed me.
The person wore revealing clothes.
The person had too much to drink and I was able to take advantage of them.
The person was mysterious.
I realized I was in love.
I wanted to forget about my problems.
I wanted my partner to notice me.
I wanted to help my partner forget about their problems.
I wanted to lift my partner’s spirits.
I wanted to make my partner feel powerful.

Whatever your reason for having sex – do not forget about YOUR OWN PLEASURE. I hope it is always the first on your “sex reasons” list. Let the world wait and enjoy!

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