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I am back with more information on these simple yet popular and nice Ben Wa Balls. Let me describe some popular types of Ben Wa Balls and point out some tips, ideas and safety instructions.

Today, Ben Wa Balls come in a variety of designs, sizes and materials including steel, plastic, glass. Some Ben Wa Balls are connected by a string. Other types of the balls are connected together with a beautiful silicone coating. I must admit that modern Ben Wa Balls are not only great for exercising your PC muscles, but they are real pieces of art.

Types of Ben Wa Balls

Traditional Ben Wa Balls

Traditional Ben Wa Balls are very simple objects which are simple to use. They are small, marble-sized, weighted balls, made of metal. Metal Ben Wa balls are hygienically safe and very easy to clean. They are more durable than any other balls. Traditional Ben Wa Balls may be useful for Kegel exercises, but they are usually not so useful as a sexual enhancer.

Duotone Balls

Duotone balls usually come in a variety of different colors, designs and materials. They are typically larger than the traditional Ben Wa balls and they may be somewhat difficult to insert and manipulate with the internal muscles. Duotone balls are hollow balls which contain a small metal weight inside that bounces and rolls around during your body movement. They are connected by a string and have a retrieval cord on one end for easy removal. The size of Duotone balls is usually about 1 1/2 inches in diameter. These balls are usually made from plastic, metal, silicone, or rubber. Duotone Balls are also referred to as orgasm balls, love balls, and pleasure balls.

Smart Balls

Smart Balls are the two weighted balls coated in soft silicone or rubber and connected together with a flexible bridge of the same material. Smart Balls are durable and easy to clean. These balls are usually about 4 inches long and 1 1/4 inches in diameter. Smart Balls are typically very pleasing, both physically and visually.

Vibrating Balls

As the name suggests, vibrating balls produce vibration. These balls feature a controller for you to choose the speed of vibration. Vibrating balls are often referred to as Vibro Balls.

Kegel Balls

Kegel balls, or K-balls, are designed to enhance the effect of Kegel exercises. They are relatively large and encapsulated usually by silicone. Inside the silicone capsule there are weighted balls.

Graduated Balls

Graduated balls are usually 3 to 4 balls of different sizes – small, medium, and large. The balls are connected together through a retrieval nylon cord. Some people use graduated balls for their anal explorations. Personally, I do not recommend using any Ben Wa balls and their versions anally.

Glass Balls

Balls made of glass usually combine an arty design and functionality. Glass balls are easy to insert and very easy to remove. They are also easy to clean, non-porous, phthalates free and hypo-allergenic. They are well sized and weighted for effective vaginal exercise. Glass balls make a really great gift!

Basic Tips & Safety Instructions

Whatever the version and type of balls you choose to use, I recommend using Ben Wa Balls with common sense. As I’ve mentioned in my previous post, I do not recommend going out with Ben Wa balls and using them in public. Ben Wa Balls are designed for intimate use and not intended to be used in public places.

Although many sources suggest wearing the balls inside the vagina during vaginal intercourse, I do not think it is a good idea. You see, in fact, keeping the balls inside may mentally distract you during sex, and you will be having trouble focusing and concentrating on each other.

I also do not advice using Ben Wa balls with an insertable vibrator at the same time. Such a combination of sexual devices may decrease your pleasure and it may be for you quite tricky to get accustomed to the sensations. While wearing the balls inside, you can use any vibrator on the clitoris. Believe me that you will derive much more pleasure from a combination of Ben Wa balls and a hands-free clitoral vibrator, such as for example any strap-on clitoral vibrator.

As to using Ben Wa balls anally, I recommend just choosing a sex toy specifically designed and formed for that purpose. Ben Wa balls are not basically intended for anal insertion. Anal beads or butt plug will be a better choice. You can use anal beads while keeping Ben Wa balls inside your pussy.

As with any other sex toy, using a lubricant (when you are sitting or lying down) with Ben Wa balls may be quite helpful. However, the balls may slip out when you start walking around.

To place the balls inside, lie down, spread your legs and slowly insert them into your vagina, one by one. This process is similar to inserting a tampon. Be very careful if you have long nails. To pull the balls out you can lift up one leg and cough, or jump up and down, or just use a lubricant to help them slide out. Also, do not forget to wash your hands and Ben Wa Balls before insertion. Keep the balls clean after each use.

If you are a first time user, do not choose metal balls as they tend to slip out of the vagina if you have weak PC muscles. Choose the balls with a retrieval cord as these are easier to remove and manipulate. And of course, the larger balls are easier to hold by your PC muscles.

One great way to enjoy Ben Wa balls is choosing those versions where the balls are connected by a string. Insert one ball deep inside and let another ball hang out.

Do not use Ben Wa balls if you have serious gynecological problems, or a tampon, or birth control device inside your pussy.

Strengthening your pelvic floor muscles is very beneficial for women in many aspects. Stronger, tighter and sensitive vagina leads to more intense orgasms and better sex life overall. Although the pleasure-inducing properties of Ben Wa Balls are very disputable, one thing is for sure: Ben Wa Balls are great for exploring your sensual side and exercising your PC muscles. Take care of your sexual health and have fun!

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Many of us have heard of Ben Wa Balls. Ben Wa balls, also known as Pleasure Balls, Orgasm Balls, Love Balls, Duotone Balls, Kegel Balls and Smart Balls are surrounded by hype, many myths and various opinions.

Today I want to talk about Ben Wa Balls, what are they and how do they work. Personally, my experience dictates that these marvelous balls are more useful as vaginal exerciser and less useful as an erotic stimulator which can make you orgasm. In fact, the larger the balls – the larger and more pronounced the whole sensation, stimulation and effect. It seems to me that it is kind of naive to think that Ben Wa Balls can provide you with immediate orgasm. However, while wearing them for some time they may produce very, very, very pleasurable sensations, slight arousal and tease.

As to the origin of Ben Wa Balls, they are known to have been invented hundreds of years ago. Ben Wa balls are said to originate in Japan where they were called Rin No Tama, meaning “tinkling bells”. Most information about Ben Wa Balls background and invention is mainly a legend-like. There is a claim that they were originally designed to provide a man with enhanced pleasure during intercourse. Then, it was found that Ben Wa Balls produce more pleasurable sensations on ladies rather than on guys. It is said that women inserted the balls into the pussy, then rock back and forth in a rocking chair causing the balls float in the vag and massaging the sensitive walls.

The traditional Ben Wa Balls are simple objects. They are usually small round balls, weighted, hollow and containing a small weight that rolls around inside the ball to cause vibrations. The initial idea behind Ben Wa Balls is not bringing a woman to orgasms, it is increasing the vaginal walls elasticity and sensitivity. And when the pussy is tight and sensitive, this enables a woman to experience more pronounced and greater sensations during sex.

You can place the balls in the vagina and wear them for an hour of more. Some ladies try wearing Ben Wa Balls the whole day while doing their everyday activities. The idea is to use your pelvic muscles to hold the balls inside the pussy. For g-spot massage, some ladies place the balls just where the g-spot is located. Overall degree of sexual stimulation and effect depends on the size of the balls and the vaginal muscles tightness.

How To Use Ben Wa Balls

To place the balls inside the pussy, lie down, spread your legs and slowly insert them into your vagina with your fingers, one by one. Basically, this is the same process as inserting a tampon. Our pussy, ladies, is a sensitive diva, so be very careful if you have long nails. Also, do not forget to wash Ben Wa Balls before inserting them inside your pleasure hole. Do not use the balls if you have serious gynecological problems, or a tampon or birth control device inside the pussy.

In order to hold the balls inside, try squeezing your pelvic floor muscles and contract your vagina. Tighten your muscles around the balls and squeeze, then count 10 seconds. Then release your muscles for 10 seconds and repeat 10 times. To remove the balls, you can lift up one leg and cough, or jump up and down. Don’t worry. Ben Wa Balls cannot get lost in your pussy. If you still can’t pull them out – just use a lubricant and the balls will slide out.

Ben Wa Balls As Erotic Enhancer and Stimulator

As I’ve mentioned earlier, do not expect Ben Wa Balls to provide you with immediate orgasms. In fact, these balls are not designed with “orgasm” in mind. However, Ben Wa Balls do produce very pleasurable sensations and slight arousal. Ben Wa Balls are a fantastic tool for exploring your sensual side and your “vaginal” erotic potential. A feeling of fullness while wearing the balls is very stimulating, both physically and psychologically. However, your overall sensation and pleasure-inducing effect depends on the size and type of the balls you use, as well as on your vagina tightness. In fact, your pussy is forced to contract around the balls in order to hold them inside. And these “forced contractions” may produce some arousal. Besides, in order to feel more pronounced sensations, you need to move actively. For example, you can place the balls inside (using a lubricant may be helpful), sit down, squeeze your legs and start rocking back and forth. Some creative ladies use the balls while riding a bicycle or a horse. One more tip is that you can choose the balls which are connected by a string. Then insert one ball deep inside and let another ball hang out.

Ben Wa Balls As Kegel Exerciser

Strengthening your pelvic floor muscles is the main purpose and benefit behind Ben Wa Balls. The ability to receive orgasms and the intensity of an orgasm directly depends on the strength of the PC muscles. The PC muscle or the pubococcygeus is the same muscle you contract when you try not to pee. This muscle controls urine flow and contracts during orgasm. The PC muscle controls all sexual functions in both men and women. It forms and supports the urethra, bladder, vagina, penis, uterus and rectum. Therefore, a strong pubococcygeus muscle can help to enhance orgasms. With proper use, Ben Wa Balls can be very helpful as a Kegel exerciser. Generally, Kegel exercises involve two main actions: squeezing and relaxing the muscle. So, insert the balls inside and squeeze. Count 10 seconds. Then release your muscles for 10 seconds and repeat 10 times. Exercising your vagina with Ben Wa balls is kind of like increasing weights at the gym. Doing these exercises several times each day will make your vagina tighter, more sensitive and able to reach orgasms quite easily.

Whether you use Ben Wa Balls for Kegel exercises or as sexual stimulator, they should be used safely and with common sense. In fact, as Ben Wa Balls and Kegel-type devices have stood the test of time, they are not so useless. However, I do not recommend going out with Ben Wa balls and using them in public. I also do not advice using Ben Wa balls anally. Although many sources suggest keeping the balls in the vagina during intercourse or while playing with an insertable vibrator, personally, I do not think it is a good idea. Ben Wa Balls and other Kegel-type devices are designed for intimate use.

In my next post, I’m going to describe some basic types of Ben Wa Balls and give some tips and safety instructions. See you very soon with more info on these fun and simple objects!

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Almost every adult, whether a man or a woman, has heard of Kegel exercises. However, not everyone actually knows what Kegel exercises really are. So, let’s talk a little bit about the benefits of Kegel exercises for male and female health – what they are good for, how to do them, and much more.

Importance of Kegel Exercise and PC muscle

Kegel exercises were developed by and named for Doctor Kegel. The idea behind the Kegels is to strengthen the pubococcygeus muscle, or the PC muscle.

In scientific terms, the pubococcygeus muscle is a hammock-like muscle which stretches from the pubic bone to the tail bone (coccyx) and forms the floor of the pelvic cavity supporting the pelvic organs. The PC muscle is found in both sexes.

The pubococcygeus muscle controls urine flow and contracts during orgasm. It forms and supports the urethra, bladder, vagina, penis, uterus and rectum, and controls all sexual functions in both men and women. A strong and developed pubococcygeus muscle can help to enhance orgasms in both sexes. Kegel exercises help improve muscle tone by strengthening the pubococcygeus muscles.

Anyone can learn how to do Kegel exercises. The most fantastic thing about Kegels is that they are very easy to do. Moreover, you can do these simple exercises at almost any place and at any time. If done properly and regularly, the effects are always significant and beneficial. Sorry to disappoint some of you, but for most men and women, it usually takes from three to six weeks (or more) to notice the change. Kegel exercises do not have to take more than 10-15 minutes and about 200-300 contractions each day.

Benefits For Men

In fact, Kegel exercise help men control premature ejaculation and improve sexual function. Kegels can help men achieve stronger erections and give great control over ejaculation. This exercise also lifts up the balls and helps strengthening the anal sphincter. By learning to contract the PC muscle during sex, a man can significantly increase the pleasure for both himself and his lady. Imagine how proud you will be being able to satisfy your woman and last-longer every time you have sex. To discover your pubococcygeus muscle, try to stop the stream of urine midway. A muscle which contracts – is your PC muscle.

- Firmer and longer erections
- Ejaculation control
- Control over premature ejaculation
- Strengthening the anal sphincter
- Increased pleasure during sex
- Becoming a better lover

Benefits For Women

Kegel exercises are very, very, VERY beneficial for women in many aspects. Generally, strengthening the PC muscles leads to vaginal tightness, in other words, stronger vagina.  Stronger, tighter and more sensitive vagina leads to more intense orgasms and better sex life overall. Strong pelvic floor muscles make it easier to orgasm. The ability of a woman to rhythmically contract and release the vaginal muscles helps to enhance her own orgasms and gives her man out-of-the-world pleasure. Plus, Kegels are very beneficial for women in their child-bearing years. If a woman has strong PC muscles, it makes childbirth easier and helps to regain more quickly after giving birth.

- Vagina becomes stronger, tighter and more sensitive
- Strengthening the PC muscles can help to reach more intense and powerful orgasms as the muscles you exercise are the same as used in climaxing
- The ability to rhythmically contract and release the vaginal muscles and squeeze a man’s penis
- Increased pleasure during sex and a better sex life overall
- Reducing pelvic floor muscle problems such as prolapse and mild urinary incontinence
- Make childbirth easier, and muscles will regain more quickly after giving birth

How to discover the PC muscle

Learning to locate and use the right muscles is the key. To discover your PC muscle, next time you are urinating, try to stop in mid-flow. The pubococcygeus muscle is the same muscle you contract when you try not to pee. Remember that this is only a way to find the muscle, and Kegels should not be done when peeing.

How to do Kegels

Generally, Kegel exercises involve two basic actions – squeezing and relaxing the muscle. The easiest way to do Kegels is contracting the muscle, holding it for a count of 10, and then completely relaxing. You can squeeze, hold for ten second, then release and relax for ten seconds, and repeat ten times, for example. Do this several times each day, at any place and any time. You can exercise at work, walking, watching TV, sitting, etc. Women can even do Kegels during sex – tighten your pelvic muscles to grip his penis and then relax. During Kegel exercises, do not use your stomach, leg, back and buttock muscles.

Kegel Exercise Techniques

These exercises can be done by everyone. They are simple and very fun to do, in fact. Moreover, when exercising, you can get sexually aroused. So, Kegels are not only simple, they are even very pleasurable and arousing to do. Do these exercises for 15-20 minutes each day and feel the effects!

Exercise 1

Squeeze a little your PC muscle, and count 10
Squeeze a little more, and count 10
Tighten as hard as possible, and count 10
Release and fully relax your PC muscles, and count 5 seconds
Do exercise in reverse steps
Tighten as hard as possible, and count 10
Squeeze a little more, and count 10
Squeeze a little your PC muscle, and count 10
Release and fully relax your PC muscles

Exercise 2

Release and fully relax your PC muscles. Repeat for about 10 times. Do this Kegel exercising session at least 2-3 times per day and daily.

1. Squeeze fast – release fast
2. Squeeze fast – release fast
3. Squeeze fast – release fast
4. Squeeze fast – release fast
5. Squeeze fast – release fast
6. Squeeze fast – release fast
7. Squeeze fast – release fast
8. Squeeze fast – release fast
9. Squeeze fast – release fast
10. Squeeze fast – release fast

Exercise 3

Imagine you are trying to hold something in your vagina. Hold for 10 seconds. Release and repeat 10 times.

Exercise 4

Find a rhythmic music. Just listen to three songs, for example, that have absolutely different rhythms. Squeeze and release your PC muscle under the rhythms.

Using Kegel Exercisers and Ben Wa Balls

Today, for women, there are many exercisers for vaginal muscles designed to increase vaginal elasticity and strengthen PC muscle. These sex toys and devices are often referred to as vaginal exercisers and Ben Wa Balls. Ben Wa Balls are often referred to as Kegel Balls, vaginal weights, orgasm balls, pleasure balls, Smart balls, love balls, Duotone balls. Ben Wa Balls and Kegel exercisers are designed, sized and formed specifically. So, they are fantastic for strengthening the PC muscles.

Ladies can choose from a variety of Kegel exercisers. Many types of Ben Wa Balls are made from metal and are weighted, and you have to use your vaginal muscles to hold them inside. Other versions of Ben Wa Balls are made of glass and other non-porous and safe materials. Duotone balls are much larger than the traditional Ben Wa balls. Duotone balls contain a smaller weighted ball inside that rolls around during movement. Kegel exercisers and Ben Wa Balls are designed so that you can exercise and have fun at the same time!

For better sex life and enhanced pleasure, remember to practice Kegel exercises and tone your PC muscles. Adjust them to your time schedule and exercise regularly. Finally, women will be able to control vaginal muscles and reach more powerful and intense orgasms. Men will be able to control ejaculation and perform longer. Both men and women will have a greatly increased pleasure during lovemaking. For more enjoyment and fun, try exercising while having sex!

I am in a playful mood today :) So I decided it is the time to have a good giggle again. They say that a smile is an effective remedy for the soul, and a minute of a good giggle prolongs life. In this in mind, I have previously posted many sex jokes. Now I have collected new ones to brighten your day and make you smile. Here I have eight lovely jokes about sex and things sexual. I hope you will enjoy these and share yours!

Always keep your condoms in your car

I was happy. My girlfriend and I had been dating for over a year, and so we decided to get married. My parents helped us in every way. My friends encouraged me. And my girlfriend? She was a dream!

There was only one thing bothering me very much, and that one thing was her younger sister. My prospective sister-in-law was twenty years of age, wore tight miniskirts and low cut blouses. She would regularly bend down when quite near me and I got a pleasant view of her underwear. It had to be deliberate. She never did it when she was near anyone else.

One day little sister called and asked me to come over to check the wedding invitations. She was alone when I arrived. She whispered to me that soon I was to be married, and she had feelings and desires for me that she couldn’t overcome and didn’t really want to overcome. She told me that she wanted to make love to me just once before I got married and committed my life to her sister. I was in total shock and couldn’t say a word.

She said, “I’m going upstairs to my bedroom, and if you want to go ahead with it just come up and get me.” I was stunned. I was frozen in shock as I watched her go up the stairs. When she reached the top she pulled down her panties and threw them down the stairs at me. I stood there for a moment, then turned and went straight to the front door. I opened the door and stepped out of the house.

I walked straight towards my car.

My future father-in-law was standing outside. With tears in his eyes he hugged me and said, “We are very happy that you have passed our little test. We couldn’t ask for a better man for our daughter. Welcome to the family.”

The moral of this story: Always keep your condoms in your car!

Bad Example

One day, two very loving parents got into a huge fight – the man called the woman a “bitch” and the woman called the man a “bastard”. Their son walked in and asked “What does bitch and bastard mean?” And the parents replied “ladies and gentlemen”.

The next day, the parents decided to have sex. The woman said “feel my titties” and the man said “feel my dick”. Their son walked in and asked “What does titties and dick mean?” And the parents replied “hats and coats”.

On Thanksgiving the dad was shaving and he cut himself, “Shit” he said, and the kid came in and asked “What’s that mean”. The man said it was the brand shaving cream he was using.

Downstairs the mom was preparing the turkey, and she cut herself, saying “Fuck”. Once again the kid asked “What’s that mean”, and the mom said that is what she calls stuffing the turkey.

Then the door bell rang. The kid answered the door to his relatives and said:

“Alright you bitches and bastards, put your dicks and titties in the closet, my dad is upstairs wiping the shit off his face, and my mom is in the kitchen fucking the turkey!”

Daughter’s Letter To Dad

A father entered his daughter’s bedroom and saw a letter on the bed. He read it with trembling hands.
“Dear Mum and Dad,

It is with great regret and sorrow that I’m telling you that I’ve eloped with my new boyfriend. I’ve found real love and he is so nice, especially with all his piercings, scars, tattoos, and his big motorcycle. But it’s not only that. I’m pregnant. And Ahmed said that we will be very happy in his trailer in the woods. He wants to have many more children with me and that’s one of my dreams. I’ve learned that marijuana doesn’t hurt anyone and we’ll be growing it for us and his friends. They’re the ones providing us with all the cocaine and ecstasy we could ever want. In the meantime, we’ll pray for science to find the AIDS cure, so Ahmed gets better. He deserves it. Please do not worry about money. Ahmed has arranged for me to be in films that his friends Leroy and Jamal make in their basement. Apparently I can earn £50 a scene. I get a £50 bonus if there are more than three men in the scene, and an extra £100 if they use the horse. Don’t worry Mum. Now I’m 15 years old, and I know how to take care of myself. Someday I’ll visit you and Dad so that you can meet your grandchildren.
Your loving daughter,
Aimee

PS: Dad, it’s not true. I’m watching TV at a neighbor’s house. I just wanted to show you that there are worse things in life than England getting fucked on penalties again. I love you.”

The Stuck Vibrator

A lady called her gynecologist, and asked for an “emergency” appointment. The receptionist said to come right in. She rushed to the office, and was ushered right into an examination room. The doctor came into the exam room and asked about her problem. She was very shy about her emergency problem, and asked the gynecologist to please examine her vagina.

The doctor started to examine her. He stuck up his head after completing his examination. “I’m sorry, Miss,” he said, “but removing that vibrator is going to involve a very lengthy, delicate and expensive surgical operation.”

“I’m not sure I can afford it,” sighed the young woman. “But while I am here could you just replace the batteries?”

Dirty Penis

A wife catches her husband masturbating under the shower and approaches him. The husband:

- Oh dear, it was so dirty that I had to rub it so hard… you know, it almost hurts!

Sex scream “competition”

Three friends decided to bet each other $100 on who could make their wives scream more from sex. They all go home to have sex with their wives and make them scream. The next day they meet.

The first friend says, “I made love to my wife for 2 hours and she was screaming for at least 1 1/2 hours.” The second friend says, “That’s nothing, I start licking my wife for two hours and she was screaming the whole time and half hour after that.”

The third friend says, “That’s nothing, I made love to my wife for ten minutes. I came a couple times and wiped my dick in the curtain. She is still screaming.”

A night with the princess

A King had to leave his Kingdom for some business. He was afraid that his only Daughter would be taken advantage of by some of the Guards because she was a very deep sleeper. So, before he left, he slipped a razor blade between the lips of her vagina. The King left. That night, three of the Guards did plan to fuck the Princess.

The First Guard went into her room. From outside of the room, the other two Guards listened. Suddenly, they heard the First Guard scream. He came out. The other two Guards asked why he screamed. Embarrassed, he said that it was so good that he couldn’t control himself. This made the other two smile.

The Second Guard went in. After some time? Ahhhhh!!! The Second Guard came out. The Third Guard asked what happened. Just as embarrassed as the First Guard, the Second Guard said that it felt so good that he couldn’t control himself. The Third Guard smiled.

The Third Guard went into the room. He went up to the Princess and lifted her dress. Outside, the other two Guards listened. Mmmmmhhhh!?! The other two Guards took off!

The next morning, the King came back. He suspected that his Guards tried to fuck his daughter. He told them to drop their pants. Each of them did. Two of them had sliced dicks, but the third one didn’t. Confused, the King asked why. He stuck his tongue out and said: “I neba pry fuk ur dahta, I wet lik ur dahta?!”

There came a moment in my life when I realized that sex does not have to be always serious. I want you to approach things sexual with a smile and positive attitude. As I said in my previous posts, start every day with a smile and an orgasm, because every day spend without a smile and orgasm – is a lost day.

See you later ;)

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My previous sex glossary contained 30 sexual definitions beginning with letters H, O, and T. Today I want to share with you sexual words beginning with P! Keep in mind that most definitions are described briefly, intended for a general audience and for general information purposes only.

I think you will agree with me that for a more fulfilling love life, we have to know who’s who and what’s what in the world of love, lust and sex. Whether you are a man or woman, you know that a good sex life takes time, effort and constant increase of your sexual knowledge and attitudes.

Everyone comes across new sex terms, from time to time. I know there are those who sometimes do not know simple words/terms/things related to sex and sexuality. Let me hope that my sex glossaries are somewhat a solution. Most of the words are well-known, still, chances are that there is also new stuff to be learned and tried out. So, take just a few minutes to read through the list.

Sex Glossary: Sex Words And Terms Every Adult Should Know – Sexual Definitions Letter A!
Sex Glossary: Sex Words And Terms Every Adult Should Know – Sexual Definitions Letter B!
Sex Glossary: Sex Words And Terms Every Adult Should Know – Sexual Definitions Letter C!
Sex Glossary: Sex Words And Terms Every Adult Should Know – Sexual Definitions Letter D!
Sex Glossary: Sex Words And Terms Every Adult Should Know – Sexual Definitions Letters S, E, X!
Sex Glossary: Sex Words And Terms Every Adult Should Know – Sexual Definitions Letters F, U, K!
Sex Glossary: Sexual Definitions Every Adult Should Know – Letter G!
Sex Glossary: Sexual Definitions Every Adult Should Know – Letters H, O, T

Sexicon for lovers and others: LETTER P

PEGGING: Pegging is a sexual practice of a woman wearing a strap-on to engage in anal sex with a man. During pegging, men enjoy the anal stimulation, and in particular, the prostate stimulation. Some men enjoy masturbating or being masturbated during pegging. The act of pegging can be enjoyable for a woman mainly in a psychological aspect :)

PRIAPISM: Priapism is a painful medical condition in which the penis does not return to its flaccid state after a sexual stimulation has ended. Priapism is when an erection lasts for more than four hours and occurs without sexual stimulation and sexual desire. Priapism in women is a prolonged, painful erection of the clit, also known as clitorism. The etymology of the word comes from the Greek male fertility god Priapus. Well, a firm, prolonged erection in men is essential for pleasurable sex, but Priapism is certainly not a pleasure, I guess.

PERINEUM: Both men and women have a perineum. In women, perineum is an area between the pussy and anus. In men – perineum is located between the scrotum and the anus. Most men find that massaging the perineum is very, very, VERY pleasurable.

PHONE SEX: Phone sex is a sexual conversation via the phone. Two or more participants may be involved in phone sex conversation. Phone sex may take any forms – from discussion of personal and erotic topics to listening each other masturbate.

PROSTITUTION: Engaging in sex acts for money; sexually promiscuous behaviour. The word “to prostitute” is derived from a composition of two Latin words – (preposition) pro and (verb) statuere, what means ‘to expose publicly’.

PREMATURE EJACULATION: Premature ejaculation is generally defined as lack of control over ejaculation. Early ejaculation is commoner in younger men. Premature ejaculation is when a man cums too quickly after the insertion of the penis into a woman. Early ejaculation is one of the commonest of all sexual concerns a couple may face in their intimate life. Well, premature ejaculation washes away a man’s self confidence, and makes both men and women unhappy and confused. There are sexual positions delaying that “point of no return” – they include woman on top sex position and sitting positions. Ejaculation is provoked by the speed and force of thrusting, so when it comes to delaying it, the main idea is to decrease the speed and force of thrusts. Controlling ejaculation is not all about the position. A combination of sexual positions with oral sex and some sex toys is a great idea. For example, as you know, using a condom really decreases the penis stimulation. Cock ring sex toys work wonders and help to prolong sex by comfortable tightening the shaft. Breathing is one more method of ejaculation control. To calm arousal, take a few deep and slow breaths and keep going.

PRE-CUM: Pre-cum, aka pre-Ejaculate or pre-ejaculatory fluid, is a liquid that comes out a man’s penis before ejaculation. By the way, just a note: pre-cum contains enough sperm to cause pregnancy.

PORNOGRAPHY: The primary purpose behind pornography is sexual excitement and satisfaction. Pornography or porn is generally defined as any explicit written or visual or auditory material (writing, pictures, photos, videos, etc.) designed to stimulate sexual arousal.

POLYAMORY: Polyamory (Greek ‘poly’, meaning many, and Latin ‘amor’, meaning love) is having sexual relationships with more than one person. Polyamory is often abbreviated to ‘poly’. In a poly relationship are usually involved multiple, mutually consenting partners.

PYREX GLASS SEX TOYS: Glass is a finest material used in the sex toy industry. Pyrex glass provides a hygienic sex toy, silky smooth, durable, non-toxic, heat-resistant and easy to clean. Pyrex glass dildos are a perfect combination of quality, safety and beauty.

PC MUSCLE: PC muscle, or the Pubococcygeus muscle, is the muscle targeted in Kegel exercises. A Kegel exercise is contracting and relaxing the muscles that form part of the pelvic floor. Kegel exercises help to improve muscle tone by strengthening the pubococcygeus muscles of the pelvic floor. Kegel exercise help men control premature ejaculation and improve sexual function. In women, Kegels help to strengthen the pelvic floor muscles and vaginal walls, and enhance orgasm. Kegel exercises do not have to take more than 10 minutes per session.

POCKET PAL: A pocket pal may refer to a sex toy which is shaped to look like a female pussy. For example, a realistic vagina by Doc Johnson Sunny Leone pocket pal.

PEARL NECKLACE: In sexuality, pearl necklace is a sexual act in which a man ejaculates on a woman’s neck and upper chest, usually after oral sex. The white drops of cum somewhat resemble a necklace of pearls ;)

PLATEAU PHASE: Mmmm, the plateau phase ;) This is the period of sexual excitement prior to orgasm, in both sexes. Orgasm is the conclusion of the plateau phase of the sexual response cycle, which involves four physical responses, aka phases. In order of their occurrence, the phases of sexual response include the excitement phase, plateau phase, orgasmic phase, and resolution phase. In men, during the plateau phase, muscles at the base of the penis begin a rhythmic contraction, and the balls rise closer to the body. The penis starts to secrete pre-cum. In women, breasts and nipples increase in size. The clitoris withdraws slightly and the vagina produces lubrication. The plateau phase is also characterized by reddish face, hard breathing, and a very sensual vocalization.

There are many things you can to do make your under-the-sheets life more enjoyable, fun and successful. Increase your sexual vocabulary and knowledge. Be willing to try new things. Be open and curious about things sexual and sensual, because no one wants to be with a lover who is clueless when it comes to sex.

Do not forget to check out my previous sex definitions lists, and let me know if there is something to add or/and improve (word/term/phrase, etc). As always, I’m open to your suggestions, corrections and comments :)