Woman About Sex

The year 2010 is just around the corner! Ahh, you know, I’m thinking about my blog, sweet and loved. In fact, it’s been more than three years now since I started it in 2006 as Nellioness. For Soul. For Mind. For Body! Today it is WomanAboutSex.Com…

My heartfelt thank you all my readers for reading my blog and sharing here your thoughts and experiences all year long! Thank you for always making me smile with your lovely comments and wishes! Thanks for your e-mails, questions and kind words!

As I did it at the end of 2008, with the year 2009 drawing to an end, I want to make some conclusions of the year and take a look back at 2009 most popular posts. Although I haven’t blogged that much, still, below you’ll find a list of articles that got interesting feedback/commentary/page views from you, my lovely readers – both active in commenting and those silent ;)

If you have your favorite posts on my blog – please let me know by placing a link or mentioning the post title in the comments section. Also, I’m sure most of you have written many good posts in 2009 – feel free to add your links to your own popular blog posts of the year!

May your holidays be filled with soul-satisfying, body-stimulating and mind-blowing fun and sex you will never forget! ;)

All-Time Mistakes Men Make During Sex With A Woman – Basic No-No’s And Biggest Turn-Off’s!
Here’s is a list of things many men are probably doing wrong when it comes to sex with a woman, according to my personal experience and the experiences of other women. Of course, these aren’t the only things many women find annoying, but these are common mistakes many men tend to repeat with women over and over. Trust me on this guys, there is nothing worse than a lover who does not care about his woman’s sexual needs and her pleasure. Be a man that women crave in the bedroom, okay? Find out sex mistakes that can be a real turn off and stand head and shoulders above the rest.

Things Most Women Probably Make Wrong In Bed With A Man – And Why They Do Those Things!
No man is the perfect lover. No woman either. It means, no one is perfect, and only those who never do anything, never make mistakes. BUT although women less likely than men to repeat the same mistakes over and over again, they also do lots of things that can turn a man off in the bedroom. Moreover, women do more mistakes than men. In this post, I offer a checklist for ladies and essential tips!

Women’s All-Time Turn-Ons About A Man – Top 10!
When it comes to sexual turn-ons, men and women are very different. It is not a myth that women are attracted to a man who is comfortable with his emotions. It is also true that many women are on the hunt for an attractive man who knows how to treat a lady right! The following is a list of the top ten female turn-ons gathered from hours spent listening to women tell it like it is. So in this post you find top women’s turn-ons about men’s physical appearance, inner qualities and sexual self. Although many things listed in the post are well-known and quite understandable, I encourage you, dear men, to really look over this list of things and probably adjust your behavior accordingly in order to seduce her mind, soul and… panties ;)

How To Talk Dirty in the Sack: Dirty Talk Tips and 50 Examples That Will Make You Blush!
Talking dirty to your sweetheart is a great form of sex play, but there are certain things you must keep in mind in order to have the best experience. What is a dirty talk, what are the dirty talk boundaries, dirty talk tips, dirty talk types and even 50 dirty talk examples (from not-so-dirty to so-so-dirty) you’ll find in this post!

Tantric Sex – Sexual Pleasure For Body, For Mind, For Soul
It seems like the term “Tantric sex” has become popular lately, but what is it? How it can enrich your sex life? Why there has been a growing interest in Tantric sex today? Few people really know. Personally, I’m especially interested in this topic because I often get asked about Tantric sex and Tantric sexuality. So, if you want to make your love life better and become a better lover for your sweetheart and you have no idea what Tantric sex is all about – this article is for you. Learn basics about Tantric sex, get the essence of Tantric sexuality, the benefits and other great things and understandings about this sexual practice. Well, Tantric sex – what it is all about? If you want to give Tantric sex a try and incorporate ideas of Tantra into your sex life, firstly, you can start with getting more information about Tantric sexuality. Incorporate ideas of Tantra into your love life for pleasure and joy. I know that this is easier said than done, but learning some basics about Tantra can be very helpful and pleasurable.

Tantric Kissing Types and Techniques: Free Your Mind, Let Your Body Throb With Passion And Attain New Heights Of Sexual Pleasure!
Kissing… It is one of the most intimate acts of sexual expression. Highly pleasurable, stimulating, luscious, erotic. Kissing is like a “facial love-making”, and some lovers (including me) can reach orgasm through kissing alone. There are many different kinds of kisses: slow, quick, deep, wet, soft, hard and then there is Tantric kissing. In this post, you will find out some amazingly pleasurable ways of kissing in the tantric style. I share with you a great article by a female sexologist and worldwide speaker on relationships, intimacy and human sexuality. So do you want to know more about Eye brow Kissing or Synchronized Kissing? Go on, check out my post and find out.

SCENTsual Sexuality: Natural Body Scents – What’s In Them
It’s not a secret that scent is one of the most powerful human senses. My point in this post is how important our body natural smells and odors are. Here you may take a look at how and why human body scents influence sexual attraction. For example, do you know that the scent of man’s sweat is an aphrodisiac to many women? Do you know about Pheromones? Due to pheromone chemicals, the odour of male natural sweat can be highly attractive to some women. A study revealed that male sweat actually contains a compound called “androstenone” that sexually arouses women and gives a boost to our moods and sexual arousal. So, check out this article and… sniff until orgasm!

“Shhh, Cum Fast And Quiet!” OR Sex In Public Places – Minimize Risk And Maximize Pleasure!
Parked cars, swimming pools, parks, offices, balconies, wherever the mood strikes… So, how dirty and naughty you are? ;) Have you ever had sex in a public place? I know many people who have had it, love it and do it whenever they get the chance. Personally, I’ll be honest and say that I’m really not into having sex in random, public places and it is not high on my long sexual fantasy list. Still, being sexually adventurous, I have had it several times but there was no one around because being watched doesn’t turn me on. Sometimes the desire is too overpowering to wait, so public and outdoor sex is all about “take me, right here, right now! It doesn’t matter where we are!!!” It’s about doing what’s considered naughty and “forbidden”, and yes, it worth trying at least once, if it’s not harming anyone else and if you’re completely responsible for all your actions. Sexual escapades in outdoors, in public or semi-public places do add novelty and spontaneity to a sexual relationship, and lead to more intense, more explosive orgasms. But it’s always important to minimize risk and maximize pleasure. Sex in public places: what is it? Why do people love it and do it? What are some popular places for engaging in public sex? What are the taboos and things you should be aware of when doing it in a public place? This article may answer these questions and give you more tips, ideas and rules of thumb about sex in public places.

“You’re Almost As Good As My Ex!”, “Did You Come Yet, Dear?” – And Other Things You Should Never Say During Sex!
In this article, you’ll find some things you should never say during lovemaking! You’ve probably already read them online and knew that, but still here is a list for those of you who may have missed it. Being vocal during sex and talking dirty is great, but there are things that your partner doesn’t want to hear before, during and after that intimate act! “Mood-Killers” – Part one…

“MOOD-KILLERS” Or Things Not To Say Before, During And After Sex!
Mood-killers – Part two. There is nothing you can do more for your special someone than to be a considerate and thoughtful lover who knows what to do and what to say before, during and after sex. Appropriate words and phrases can be very powerful and stimulating during sex; words can arouse desire, infuse your lovemaking with passion, and reveal sexual fantasies. Talking in the heat of passion is great and it helps to intensify satisfaction for you and your partner, but there are different kinds of sex talk, for example, there is an erotic talk, a dirty talk and there is a stupid talk (*wink*). After reviewing some of my friends’ “mood killers”, as well as some of my personal experience, I’ve compiled a list of some things that your partner doesn’t want to hear before, during and after sex. It is for your own good guys, so pay attention and try to avoid the mistakes that are surprisingly common. In this post, take a look at a variety of awkward comments and other things we all are not supposed to say during intimacy.

The Sounds of Sex: Why Do We Moan And Groan During Sex?
Delicious, arousing, orgasmic moans. Taking your breath away. Why we moan and groan during lovemaking? What is the origin of moaning/groaning as a response during sex? What are the ways and types of sex moans? Do all lovers make passionate noises and moan during sex? What about men and moaning? You can find the answers in my post. Good moaning to everyone!

The Breast Orgasm: Not Common, But Certainly Possible!
Luckily for us women and contrary to our popular belief that men are uncaring and insensitive towards our sexual needs, there are loads of things men actually want to know about our sexuality. What are women’s turn-ons; what we want in bed; what do we fantasize about; what and where is the g-spot; what we like and don’t like about men… and so on. Very few men are comfortable asking a woman what feels right to her and what she wants sexually. Still, there are a thousand questions men ask women or want to ask. And one of the most popular questions I get often is: “Is it true that there are women that can achieve orgasm through breast stimulation alone?” This article is my answer. I spill the beans about what is the breast orgasm and what it takes for your woman to have it…

Woman’s Pussy: Do Men Really Care About The Way It Looks?
In this post, I answer a reader question – Do men normally categorize a woman’s pussy? Occasionally, I receive questions and e-mails from my dear readers that bring up good topics that can be addressed for everyone. In this post I talk about a very delicious and erotic subject: woman’s pussy and the way it looks.

The 4 Most Popular Penis Size Myths – Don’t Be Misled!
Sex and myths always seem to go together. And when it comes to myths and misconceptions about men’s sexuality, penis size myths seem to be the most prevalent. Unfortunately, people (in fact, most of them are men themselves) have developed many different myths about the penis. Some of them are really ridiculous and so outrageous that it is hard to believe that anyone actually believes them. Don’t let these myths to mislead you, okay?

Sexual Afterplay And After Sex “Etiquette”: Do’s And Don’ts!
What do YOU do right after sex? Roll over and fall asleep? Jump up immediately and run off to the bathroom to clean yourself up, leaving your sweetheart alone during the cooling off period? Turn on the TV? Check your phone for messages and missed calls? If so – then this article is for you. Most women enjoy and need after-playing. Ask any woman, and she is most likely to tell you that closeness and delicious cuddling afterward is one of the favorite and pleasurable parts of sexual experience. So what is an afterplay and sexual manners? What is not advisable and advisable to do right after sex? After-playing – what’s in it for men? What The Kama Sutra suggests? You can check this post to find out.

Don’t Worry, Be Happy! – What Men And Women Worry About During Sex And How To Stop That!
What those top sex worries of men and women are? And how to stop that and simply enjoy a good time? Because I get asked this so often and hear other people’s sex worries almost every day, I decided to share my thoughts on the subject. Don’t worry, be happy! ;)

Sexual Nicknames: 10 Facts And More Than 100 Nicknames For A Man’s Most Private Part – The Penis!
It is with men when they are born. It is with men every day. It is with men everywhere. It is a man’s best companion throughout all their life. Men treat it with great honesty and respect. Talk to it and about it. Take care of it. Measure it. Examine it. Groom It. Try to make it smell and taste good. Listen to it. Scold it when it behaves badly. Take pictures of it. Satisfy it. Buy sex toys for it. Play with it. Have no menstruation with it. Pee with it. Have sex with it and worship it for being a source of great pleasure. It’s no wonder then, that some men NAME IT. This article contains penis facts and the DICKtionary of penis nicknames!

The Pussy List: More Than 100 Synonyms And Names For A Woman’s Hole Of Holes!
In this post you will find more than 100 synonyms and names for a woman’s most pretty and sexy part – THE PUSSY! You’ll see that some of the names sound vulgar and doesn’t sound very flattering at all, some sound funny and silly, and most of them are very, very nice! If you have something to add to this long list, share with me and I will add them!

How To Finger A Woman: Make Your Fingers A Pleasure Tool And Show Her What You Can Do With Them!
Direct, consistent and skilled pussy fingering can give a woman the best orgasm of her life. Now, isn’t that worth reading on? ;-) For women, there’s so much more to sex than just having an intercourse. Only one in four women can have an orgasm during intercourse without some additional stimulation. That’s why most of them find that they receive more rewarding pleasure and orgasms by lots of kissing, inner thighs stroking, breast fondling and using plenty of tongue AND fingers on and in her “hole of holes”, the pussy. Believe me, using fingers outside and inside her pussy, can make a woman more than satisfied, because what a woman feels during an intercourse isn’t just what she may feel during manual stimulation. Learn how to bring your lady to those orgasmic heights by just using your strong and gentle fingers!

Sex Positions: Sex Is Fine In The “69”!
I believe that sexual positioning is one of the main keys to great sex. I want you to learn a variety of sex positions, for all circumstances and situations. In this post, let’s learn all about one more commonly known sex position, THE SIXTY-NINE! As the missionary, the sixty-nine position is also a classic in the history of sex positions! And despite being “old”, it’s still popular today, because it is really fine and enjoyable! Here you will find out advantages and disadvantages of the “69” position and even the “69” funny poems!

Sex Positions: In Praise Of The Good Old Missionary – Its Great Benefits And Sensual Variations!
In this post I sing the praises of my one of the most cherished and all-time favorite positions – THE GOOD OLD MISSIONARY. Call it most boring, call it “ordinary”, call it “old-fashioned”, anything but erotic, but actually, there’s nothing wrong with this position, and it is one of the most intimate, comfortable and pleasurable sex positions ever. Fortunately, the missionary position is not static and you can vary it up in numerous ways! Find out why women and men might enjoy the missionary position, and enjoy 8 variations of the missionary sex position!

Women And The Big ‘O’: Why Many Women Have Difficulty Achieving Orgasm And What To Do About It?
As we all know, for most men, sex ends with an orgasm. But if you are a woman, achieving the big ‘O’ is not an easy task. In this article I talk about the complexity of a female orgasm and the possible causes of women not getting it. Who is responsible for a woman’s orgasm? What men can do to “bring her water to boiling”? Can a woman enjoy sex without an orgasm? I share with you my thoughts and explain some things.

Night-Time Sexual Dreams: What Are They And Why We Have Them
Nighttime erotic dreams… Intriguing and shocking, full of eroticism and passion, bizarre and downright dirty, sexual dreams are the greatest dreams ever, and both men and women of all age do have them every now and then! Why we have them? What they mean? Why do some sexual dreams end with a real orgasm? And how to enjoy them more often? Read more in this post!