Comments on: Reader Question: Men Complimenting On Woman’s Figure And Body Image – To Compliment or Not?

By: SEO blog

SEO blog — Tue, 29 Dec 2009 19:41:05 +0000

Lovely

By: Kevin

Kevin — Sun, 27 Dec 2009 17:09:30 +0000

This is Kevin, the original poster. I guess I can blame part of it on overactive male hormones coupled with having had a few glasses of wine. Hey, it‘s not every day you meet a really pretty Asian woman with all natural 34-DD‘s I was probably guilty of having wandering eyes. It didn’t help matters that she was wearing a form-fitting top. I do have her email address. Think I should send her an apology note and try for a coffee date.

By: Doggy

Doggy — Mon, 21 Dec 2009 17:35:04 +0000

Thanks for article. Everytime like to read you.
Have a nice day

By: warrior

warrior — Thu, 17 Dec 2009 14:52:35 +0000

Oh and Shakira? Not an hour glass figure by any means, she even makes reference to her small breasts in her song my hips dont lie,

By: Loving Annie

Loving Annie — Wed, 16 Dec 2009 17:02:54 +0000

The best compliment I ever recieved was a man telling me I exuded more sensuality than most people have.
And that my eyes were driving him crazy, that the chemistry between us was so thick it was palpable…

Now, I already had a huge crush on him — but we hadn’t had sex yet —
and the fact that he wanted me so much was an immense turn-on, it egged my own desire on.
He wasn’t rude, criude or demanding – he was just complimentary in the most tactful way…

I’ve learned to not be embarrassed, and to smile and say ‘thank you” when I get a compliment.

I like compliments from strangers OR someone who knows me well. But being sincere is the most important part.
If it sounds like b.s., the compliment becomes meaningless.

I have (thank you genetics !) a luscious body structurally. I love it when someone acknowledges it, if the guy is polite.
Telling me “you’re hot, you’ve got an awesome body” makes me feel good, if it is a compliment and not a proposition. Being hit on with sexual intent/innuendo just because of my physique isn’t a turn-on.
Being appreciated by someone is different.

By: warrior

warrior — Wed, 16 Dec 2009 13:46:32 +0000

I imagine Kevin was a bit too forward. He could have said , ” Forgive me, I just find you extremely attractive and I would love to meet you again sometime” To make it so personal as to point out her figure nice or otherwise, can be insulting, not because the persons feels there is anything wrong with their figure per say, but more that you are getting personal, you are crossing a boundary with stranger, would you expect her to respond and say “oh yes and I noticed your ass it so tight too I just have to touch it.” Frankly it’s a bit chauvinistic to think you can tell any woman you like how you think she looks before you have made proper acquaintance. That’s my view only. However I could argue that said lady needs to lighten up and not assume because a guy gives her a compliment he wants to get inside her knickers.
The message intended is not always the one received.