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Hello my lovelies! Ok, I know, I know, I have been silent for a while, but please don’t blame me. Thank you very much for your comments and emails! So here I am again to continue my sex-glossary series of posts. Today I want to share with you sexual words beginning with the magic three letters S, E and X. Take a few minutes to look through 35 definitions, and keep in mind that some of the definitions are simplified, described briefly, intended for a general audience, and for general information purposes only. I’m sure most of you know most of the words; still, chances are that there is also new stuff to be learned and tried out ;). I’m always open to your suggestions, corrections and comments! Let me know if you have something to add (word/term/phrase, etc) to this list or my previous ones!

Sex Glossary: Sex Words And Terms Every Adult Should Know – Sexual Definitions Letter A!
Sex Glossary: Sex Words And Terms Every Adult Should Know – Sexual Definitions Letter B!
Sex Glossary: Sex Words And Terms Every Adult Should Know – Sexual Definitions Letter C!
Sex Glossary: Sex Words And Terms Every Adult Should Know – Sexual Definitions Letter D!

Okay, here we go.

Sexicon for lovers and others: LETTERS S, E, X

STRIPTEASE: a slow, sensuous undressing in front of other person or audience; usually, an erotic or exotic dance in which the performer (man or woman) gradually undresses (partly or completely), in a seductive and sexually suggestive manner.

SADOMASOCHISM: also S/M or S&M, a term that refers to a number of sexual activities (usually, done within BDSM and role-playing) involving exchange of power, getting sexual pleasure from inflicting pain, humiliation on someone. The practice involves consenting partners. S/M activities often include playing with various sex toys, using handcuffs, and other methods for restraining and exerting physical tension and/or erotic pain.

SCISSORING: also called ‘scissor fight’ or tribadism; a form of non-penetrative sex in which a woman rubs her vulva against her partner’s body for sexual stimulation and orgasm. This may involve female-to-female genital contact (when two women press their vaginas together by intertwining their legs) or a woman rubbing her vulva against her partner’s thigh, arm, etc. Although the term is most often used in the context of lesbian sex, but is not exclusive to lesbians.

SKINCOAT: obsolete 16th century literary word for female pussy. There are other S-letter words for vagina: soft spot, shame cave, snatch, seat of pleasure, eeat of wisdom, secret cavern, sensitive cave, sexual cavern, She, shell, scut, silk funnel, slice of life, slit, solution of continuity, South Pole, spermsucker, suck-and-swallow, slip-and-slide, sugar basi, sweet scented hole, lady’s secret, sacred “V”.

SKIN FLUTE: a penis; playing the skin flute means giving oral sex to a male, giving a blowjob. Other S-words for a penis: shaft, skin pistol, sex pistol, sausage, solid snake, shlong, sperminator, stormtrooper with a purple helmet made for crushing pink cookies.

SHAKING THE SUGAR TREE: jocular phrase for male masturbation (also “sending yourself a hand-job-o-gram”, or “having sex with someone you really love”)

SEX TOY: a device designed to enhance sexual pleasure, such as dildos, vibrators, cock rings

SEX SWING: a device specifically designed for the purpose of sexual intercourse in which one partner is suspended while the other moves freely. Some types of sex swings have a support for the back, another for the buttocks and stirrups for each leg. The advantages of sex swings include being able to adopt sexual positions not otherwise possible, and providing a more comfortable sexual experience for both partners by reducing the effects of gravity.

SCATOLOGY: The study of excrement, or an abnormal interest in feces. In sexual context, scatology refers to sexual acts involving human (or other) excrement. Such sexual acts involve anal-oral sex, or the consumption of feces, called Coprophagia; or practice known as Dirty Sanchez: after having anal sex, a man pulls out his penis and wipes it across his partner’s upper lip in the form of a moustache. There are also equivalent terms ‘Stinky Hitler’ or ‘Frosty Mustache’. Coprophilia is the paraphilia involving sexual pleasure from feces. A study of 164 male sadomasochists from Finland from two sadomasochism clubs found that 18.2% had engaged in coprophilic behaviors; 3% as a sadist, 6.1% as a masochist, and 9.1% as both. Eighteen percent of heterosexuals and 17% of homosexuals in the study pool had tried coprophilia.

SACIFRICOSIS: absentmindedly fiddling with your genitals through your pants pockets. Also known as “playing pocket pool” or “pocket hockey”

SEX ADDICT: a person who has a compulsive, often self-destructive need to engage in sexual activity

SHEMALE: a slang term frequently referring to women with male genitalia, a transsexual who has not yet undergone a complete sex change, so that she has both breasts and a penis. The term has been used since the mid-19th century, when it was a humorous colloquialism for an aggressive woman. Other slang terms for shemales: ladyboy, chick with dick, sluts with nuts, and dolls with balls.

SHOCKER: a form of manual stimulation where the pointer and middle finger are inserted into a woman’s pussy while the pinkie is inserted the anus. The ring finger and thumb are curled or bent down. In the Kama Sutra, this manual stimulation technique is called “Triple delight”.

SHRIMPING: a sexual act of licking or sucking someone’s toes during sex

SNOWBALLING: a sex play/game; a man ejaculates in someone’s mouth, and the partner who has cum in the mouth passes it into another partner’s mouth… Or, when a man ejaculates into a woman’s mouth, she passes it into his own mouth or french-kisses him

SNOW BLOW: performing oral sex on a man with ice cubes in your mouth

SOFTCORE: sexual pictures, movies, etc. that do not show penetration and usually do not show an erect penis

SPERMICIDE: a substance that kills sperm, often applied to a condom or other contraceptive (such as creams, vaginal suppositories, etc)

STRAP-ON DILDO: also “strap-on” or “dildo harness”; a sex toy; a dildo designed to be worn with a harness, during sexual activity. A dildo sex toy is attached to a harness, so that it can be thrust into a partner like a penis. A strap-on dildo can be used for a wide variety of penetrative activities. Strap-on dildos can be used by people of any sex or gender, upon people of any sex or gender. Strap-on dildos are often used with sexual lubricants to ease the insertion. A wide variety of dildos and dildo harnesses are available today, such as panty harnesses, G-string harnesses, harness and dildo sets, etc.

SUBMISSIVE: BDSM term for the person who is dominated in a BDSM relationship

SWITCH: a sexual partner who can act either as a dominant or submissive in BDSM play/relationship

SACHER-MASOCH, LEOPOLD VON: Austrian novelist of the 1800s, the author of “Venus in Furs”, a book first published in 1870. The novel describes the sexual obsessions of a man wanting “to be the slave of a woman.” The novel is a classic literary statement on sexual submission and control. The word “Masochism” derived from the author’s name.

SIXTY-NINE: or “69” is a sexual position for giving and receiving oral sex. The sixty-nine position allows both you and your partner to give and receive oral sex simultaneously and be a giver and receiver at the same time! This sex position involves two lovers, one on top of the other or side by side. In the classic “69”, a man is usually on his back and a woman is on top. However, instead of lying face to face, each places their head next to the other’s privy parts, so a lady’s mouth is positioned above a man’s penis the way she can lick and suck it, and her pussy is positioned on a man’s face the way he can play with it with using his mouth and fingers! The number 69 looks similar to two bodies with their heads at each other’s genitals.

SAFE WORD: a safe word is a word or words used as a signal between partners to stop a sexual activity during an S/M scene

SEX SURROGATE: also called “a surrogate partner”, is a member of a sex therapy team who engages in sexual activity with a patient in order to achieve a therapeutic goal. A surrogate should have professional certification in the fields of sexuality, psychology or counseling. Sex surrogates use a combination of several methods to help resolve a patient’s physical and psychological sexual problems, sexual phobias and other intimacy concerns: talking, listening, relaxation, meditation, training, and some kind of demonstration. Sexual surrogate therapy was first introduced in the 1950’s by famous therapists William Masters and Virginia Johnston. Surrogate therapy is not about sex as a release, or entertainment. It is mostly about education, emotional healing and communication.

SWINGING: a sexual activity when usually a married or otherwise committed couple engages in a sexual activity with another couple, multiple couples, or a single individual

EROGENOUS ZONES: erogenous zones are highly sensitive areas of the body. Although everyone has different level of sensitivity as well as different erogenous zones, stimulation of erogenous zones usually leads to sexual arousal and intense erotic sensations. Erogenous zones may be genital (the g-spot, the clitoris, man’s testicles) and non-genital (the breasts, the buttocks; inner side of thighs, the back side of knees; the area around the lower spine, just above the buttocks).

EROTOGRAPHOMANIA: an obsession with erotic writing, the obsessive desire to write love letters and/or poems, usually in connection with sexual arousal

EAGLE WINGS: a sexual position where a woman’s legs are spread wide open during sex, especially when she receives oral sex

EATING SOMEONE OUT: performing oral sex (cunnilingus) on a woman

EDGEPLAY: any sexual play or sexual practice which is potentially dangerous and even life-threatening, often involving pain. In BDSM, edgeplay stands for types of sexual play that are on the edge of safe, sane and consensual. Edgeplay may involve: the risk of permanent harm or death (for example, breathplay); increased risk of spreading disease (for example, bloodplay); psychological danger (as humiliation play, incest fantasies); scat fetishism, rape scenes, zoophilia (sex with animals), and other.

EXHIBITIONISM: getting sexual pleasure from exposing oneself to others (usually, to strangers) or being watched while having sex or masturbation. Some exhibitionists enjoy shocking their target; while others fantasize that the target will become sexually aroused by their display.

X-RATED: also known as X certificate or X classification, stands for indicating strong adult content, usually sexual, lewd, obscene, vulgar, pornographic. It indicates that the film/video game/song/etc. is not appropriate for anyone under the age of 18/21.

Ok, here you have it – 35 sexual words and terms beginning with the letters S, E, X. I believe that good sex life is inspired by love and guided by sexual knowledge – so it’s important to increase your sexual vocabulary and learn who’s who and what’s what :) Therefore, want it or not, I will come back soon with more sexuality-related words and terms. Guess what comes next… Letters F, U, K :)

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