Woman About Sex

Hello there all my lovely and sensual friends. How are you, sweethearts? Thank you so much for your kind e-mails and messages I’ve received lately. I’ve got a bunch of things to answer from your emails. My warmest thank you for asking my opinion and advice on the issues. So please do not think I forgot about your e-mails. I’ll post some of my replies here as soon as I can!

Personally, I’ve just been a little bit busy with my blog design, particularly, experimenting with the header. Trying to make my little sexy corner more beautiful visually, feminine, flirty, sensual, elegant, erotic yet aesthetic. In other words, I want a distinctive look for my “on-line home”, because the blog design is as important as the content. I’m not satisfied with my blog header yet. That girl… she is somewhat “inelegant”, you see. You know what I mean. She looks like it is a porn site here, but it is NOT. So that lady is going to be there till I find out something I’d love. Please leave your comments and let me know what you think.

Meanwhile, whatever the header, I want to provide you with some interesting content, at least :) Yeah, I’m going to continue my series of sex glossaries. Well, sometimes it seems to me there is no end in sight with my glossary posts :) Still, whether you want it or not, I’ll keep posting them as I want you to increase your sexual vocabulary. As I mentioned earlier in my previous posts, everyone comes across new terms from time to time. I often hear men and women complain about their lovers who sometimes do not know the simplest words and things related to sexuality and sex. So let me hope that my sex glossaries are somewhat a solution. Who wants to be with a person who’s clueless when it comes to things sexual? So, in order to be a good and sexy lover and create a more fulfilling sex life, we have to know who’s who and what’s what in the world of love, lust and sex.

In my previous sex glossary, I offered a list of sexual definitions beginning with the magic three letters: S, E and X. Today I want to share with you sexual words beginning with other magic letters: F, U and K ;) Take a few minutes to look through the list, which contains the definitions of sexual fetishes, sexual techniques, non-penetrative sexual activities, and more. I’m sure most of you know most of the words. Still, chances are that there is also new stuff to be learned and tried out ;)

Keep in mind that most of the definitions are simplified, described briefly and intended for a general audience, and for general information purposes only.

Do not forget to check out my previous sex glossaries. And… let’s get started!

Sex Glossary: Sex Words And Terms Every Adult Should Know – Sexual Definitions Letter A!
Sex Glossary: Sex Words And Terms Every Adult Should Know – Sexual Definitions Letter B!
Sex Glossary: Sex Words And Terms Every Adult Should Know – Sexual Definitions Letter C!
Sex Glossary: Sex Words And Terms Every Adult Should Know – Sexual Definitions Letter D!
Sex Glossary: Sex Words And Terms Every Adult Should Know – Sexual Definitions Letters S, E, X!

Sexicon for lovers and others: LETTERS F, U, K

FOREPLAY: Foreplay involves sensual acts/actions that occur before sex between lovers meant to create sexual atmosphere and increase sexual arousal. Foreplay often includes prolonged kissing, caressing, sensual bath, erotic massage, sensual foods, playing with sex toys, role-playing, striptease, and many other sensual actions which help to set the mood for lovemaking.

FRENCH KISS: French kissing is known as prolonged, open-mouthed, highly intimate, and sexually arousing kissing technique ever. A French kiss (also called a ‘tongue kiss’, ‘wet-kissing’, ‘deep kissing’) is a kiss in which both kissers use their tongues. One lover’s tongue touches the other lover’s tongue and enters his or her mouth. Personally, I’ve managed to become a master at French kissing. I’m constantly being complimented on my kissing techniques :) Mmm, those sweet French kisses…..

FAKE ORGASM: a fake orgasm is pretending to have an orgasm without actually experiencing one. Well, the brightest stars in faking orgasms are women. It has been estimated by an Orgasm Survey that 72 percent of women were faked orgasm at least once in their current or most recent relationship, and 55 percent of men say they cannot distinguish a fake orgasm from a real one. According to sex therapists, men also can fake orgasms while using condoms. The survey tells that 24 percent of men fake orgasm, occasionally.

FELCHING: Felching is a sexual act/behavior/practice in which semen is licked and sucked out of another person’s anus. The semen is swallowed or passed mouth-to-mouth, which is often referred to as “snowballing”.

FROTTAGE: frottage is a form of non-penetrative sex, it is a consensual rubbing against someone’s body for sexual pleasure without engaging in intercourse. This act is also commonly known as “dry humping”.

FROTTEURISM: Frotteurism refers to a paraphilic interest in non-consensual rubbing against a non-consenting person to achieve sexual arousal and pleasure. This activity is often done in a crowded place, which allows for a “rubber” to escape or claim that the touching was accidental. Usually, a person who practices frotteurism (aka the frotteur) rubs his pelvis or erect penis against the victim’s buttocks or thighs. Typically, and not surprisingly :), the frotteurs are men, the victims are women.

FETISHISM: this term refers to a sexual fixation on an inanimate object which is commonly considered non-sexual (for example: shoes and high heels fetishes, dirty panty fetishes) or a specific part of the body (such as foot, anus).

FOOTJOB: refers to a non-penetrative sexual activity (outercourse) which involves the sexual stimulation of a penis using the feet. In other words, a footjob is like a handjob, but with the feet. A lady rubs her feet up and down a man’s penis until he cums over them. The footjob can be done in different sexual positions, for example – the girl is on her stomach with her feet up and a man places his penis between them. Although this form of non-penetrative sex is mainly admired by foot fetishists, in fact, anyone should try this out! Must admit, it’s not easy to play with a man’s penis and balls using only your feet. Like anything else, it takes practice to become a master in giving footjobs. Practice makes perfect :)

FINGERING: Sexual fingering (also known as “finger fucking”, “finger banging”, “giving a woman a handjob”) is using your fingers to stimulate a woman’s pussy. Fingering is a common form of mutual masturbation and non-penetrative sex. Sexual fingering can be clitoral, vaginal or anal. The penetration with one or more fingers is known as Digital penetration. When engaging in fingering, please always remember about safety. The last thing you want is an infection. Here is my post on sexual fingering where you can find fingering techniques, safety tips and more. Direct, consistent and skilled pussy fingering can give a woman the best orgasm of her life. Now, isn’t that worth a try? ;)

FISTING: fisting is a sexual act of inserting the hand and forearm into the well-lubricated vagina or anus. Typically, all fingers are kept straight and held close together in a “silent duck” shape.

FUCK TITS: also, ‘titty fucking’, refers to thrusting/masturbating the penis between a women’s (preferably large breasts) and ejaculate on her breasts and/or her face

FACIAL: it is a slang term for the sexual activity in which a man ejaculates onto the face of his sexual partner. The term is often used to describe the genre of a porn movie.

FEMALE EJACULATION: also commonly referred to as ‘squirting’, is ejection of noticeable amounts of clear fluid by a woman from the urethra during orgasm. Female ejaculation may occur from stimulation of the urethra sponge. Well, female ejaculation is quite rare and not well understood. A very small percent of women can ejaculate.

FEMALE CONDOM: a female condom is a thin sheath or pouch to be worn by a woman during sex. It is a sleeve-like device with a small closed end and a larger open end. A woman should place her index finger inside the female condom and push the inner ring deep into the pussy. The outer ring should stay outside of the pussy for a man to direct his penis through that ring. Well, I have no experience with female condoms, still, I guess male condoms are definitely easier and safer to use.

FRONT BOTTOM: slang for female pussy, based on the similarity of appearance between a woman’s pussy and buttocks. Other F-words for pussy involve: front door , front garden, front office, front window, flower, fruit cup, Fortress Of Solitude, female crucible, flesh canoe, fie-for-shame, fleshy part, fool trap, fountain of love, fur pie.

FLOGGING: a quite painful act of using a flogger or whip on one’s buttocks or back, intended for sexual punishment and done until reddening all the area. Typically, both the giver and receiver derive mainly emotional (psychological) pleasure rather than sexual (physical) from a flogging/whipping session.

FEMORAL SEX: a type of sexual activity in which a man places his penis between the other partner’s legs or upper thighs, and thrusts to create friction.

FORNICATION: the word refers to a consensual sex between partners who are not married to each other. Wikipedia tells that the origin of the word derives from Latin. The word ‘fornix’ means “an archway” or “vault” and it became a common euphemism for a brothel as prostitutes could be solicited in the vaults beneath Rome. The word originally referred to prostitution.

FEMME FATALE: femme fatale is a woman who has a great seductive charm and beauty which are so strong that may lead those men who love her into dangerous and compromising circumstances and situations.

KEGEL EXERCISES: Kegel exercises were developed by Dr. Arnold Kegel for strengthening female PC muscles. Kegel exercises involve about 100-200 squeezing and releasing actions per day. Today, there are vaginal exercisers, known as Ben Wa Balls, designed to make your vagina stronger and increase the vaginal walls sensitivity and even increase sexual pleasure. By the way, initially, Ben Wa balls were a single ball used to increase men’s pleasure during intercourse. Eventually, they were paired and used by women both as muscle exercisers and sex toys for pleasure.

KY Jelly: it is a water-based, water-soluble lubricant commonly used as a sexual lubricant in order to reduce friction during sexual intercourse. In fact, originally, K-Y Jelly was not designed for sexual use. K-Y Jelly lubricant was used by doctors as a surgical lubricant (because of its natural base).

UROLAGNIA: it is a paraphilia, characterized by sexual arousal from the sight or thought of urine (or urination). The term comes from the Greek language where ‘lagneia’ means ‘lust’.

It’s amazing what some people derive sexual pleasure out of :)

As always, I’m open to your suggestions, corrections and comments! Let me know if you have something to add (word/term/phrase) to this list or my previous ones! And of course, I did not forget about FELLATIO… I think, this one term is toooo *popular* to mention ;)

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Other articles you might enjoy reading:

Sex Glossary: Sex Words And Terms Every Adult Should Know – Sexual Definitions Letter A!
Sex Glossary: Sex Words And Terms Every Adult Should Know – Sexual Definitions Letter B!
Sex Glossary: Sex Words And Terms Every Adult Should Know – Sexual Definitions Letter C!
Sex Glossary: Sex Words And Terms Every Adult Should Know – Sexual Definitions Letter D!
Sex Glossary: Sex Words And Terms Every Adult Should Know – Sexual Definitions Letters S, E, X!
The Pussy List: More Than 100 Synonyms And Names For A Woman’s Hole Of Holes!
Sexual Nicknames: 10 Facts And More Than 100 Nicknames For A Man’s Most Private Part – The Penis!
The Joys Of Sexual OUTERCOURSE And Types of Non-Penetrative Sexual Activities! For Those Times When You Don’t Want To “Go All The Way”!
How To Finger A Woman: Make Your Fingers A Pleasure Tool And Show Her What You Can Do With Them!

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Hello my lovelies! Ok, I know, I know, I have been silent for a while, but please don’t blame me. Thank you very much for your comments and emails! So here I am again to continue my sex-glossary series of posts. Today I want to share with you sexual words beginning with the magic three letters S, E and X. Take a few minutes to look through 35 definitions, and keep in mind that some of the definitions are simplified, described briefly, intended for a general audience, and for general information purposes only. I’m sure most of you know most of the words; still, chances are that there is also new stuff to be learned and tried out ;). I’m always open to your suggestions, corrections and comments! Let me know if you have something to add (word/term/phrase, etc) to this list or my previous ones!

Sex Glossary: Sex Words And Terms Every Adult Should Know – Sexual Definitions Letter A!
Sex Glossary: Sex Words And Terms Every Adult Should Know – Sexual Definitions Letter B!
Sex Glossary: Sex Words And Terms Every Adult Should Know – Sexual Definitions Letter C!
Sex Glossary: Sex Words And Terms Every Adult Should Know – Sexual Definitions Letter D!

Okay, here we go.

Sexicon for lovers and others: LETTERS S, E, X

STRIPTEASE: a slow, sensuous undressing in front of other person or audience; usually, an erotic or exotic dance in which the performer (man or woman) gradually undresses (partly or completely), in a seductive and sexually suggestive manner.

SADOMASOCHISM: also S/M or S&M, a term that refers to a number of sexual activities (usually, done within BDSM and role-playing) involving exchange of power, getting sexual pleasure from inflicting pain, humiliation on someone. The practice involves consenting partners. S/M activities often include playing with various sex toys, using handcuffs, and other methods for restraining and exerting physical tension and/or erotic pain.

SCISSORING: also called ‘scissor fight’ or tribadism; a form of non-penetrative sex in which a woman rubs her vulva against her partner’s body for sexual stimulation and orgasm. This may involve female-to-female genital contact (when two women press their vaginas together by intertwining their legs) or a woman rubbing her vulva against her partner’s thigh, arm, etc. Although the term is most often used in the context of lesbian sex, but is not exclusive to lesbians.

SKINCOAT: obsolete 16th century literary word for female pussy. There are other S-letter words for vagina: soft spot, shame cave, snatch, seat of pleasure, eeat of wisdom, secret cavern, sensitive cave, sexual cavern, She, shell, scut, silk funnel, slice of life, slit, solution of continuity, South Pole, spermsucker, suck-and-swallow, slip-and-slide, sugar basi, sweet scented hole, lady’s secret, sacred “V”.

SKIN FLUTE: a penis; playing the skin flute means giving oral sex to a male, giving a blowjob. Other S-words for a penis: shaft, skin pistol, sex pistol, sausage, solid snake, shlong, sperminator, stormtrooper with a purple helmet made for crushing pink cookies.

SHAKING THE SUGAR TREE: jocular phrase for male masturbation (also “sending yourself a hand-job-o-gram”, or “having sex with someone you really love”)

SEX TOY: a device designed to enhance sexual pleasure, such as dildos, vibrators, cock rings

SEX SWING: a device specifically designed for the purpose of sexual intercourse in which one partner is suspended while the other moves freely. Some types of sex swings have a support for the back, another for the buttocks and stirrups for each leg. The advantages of sex swings include being able to adopt sexual positions not otherwise possible, and providing a more comfortable sexual experience for both partners by reducing the effects of gravity.

SCATOLOGY: The study of excrement, or an abnormal interest in feces. In sexual context, scatology refers to sexual acts involving human (or other) excrement. Such sexual acts involve anal-oral sex, or the consumption of feces, called Coprophagia; or practice known as Dirty Sanchez: after having anal sex, a man pulls out his penis and wipes it across his partner’s upper lip in the form of a moustache. There are also equivalent terms ‘Stinky Hitler’ or ‘Frosty Mustache’. Coprophilia is the paraphilia involving sexual pleasure from feces. A study of 164 male sadomasochists from Finland from two sadomasochism clubs found that 18.2% had engaged in coprophilic behaviors; 3% as a sadist, 6.1% as a masochist, and 9.1% as both. Eighteen percent of heterosexuals and 17% of homosexuals in the study pool had tried coprophilia.

SACIFRICOSIS: absentmindedly fiddling with your genitals through your pants pockets. Also known as “playing pocket pool” or “pocket hockey”

SEX ADDICT: a person who has a compulsive, often self-destructive need to engage in sexual activity

SHEMALE: a slang term frequently referring to women with male genitalia, a transsexual who has not yet undergone a complete sex change, so that she has both breasts and a penis. The term has been used since the mid-19th century, when it was a humorous colloquialism for an aggressive woman. Other slang terms for shemales: ladyboy, chick with dick, sluts with nuts, and dolls with balls.

SHOCKER: a form of manual stimulation where the pointer and middle finger are inserted into a woman’s pussy while the pinkie is inserted the anus. The ring finger and thumb are curled or bent down. In the Kama Sutra, this manual stimulation technique is called “Triple delight”.

SHRIMPING: a sexual act of licking or sucking someone’s toes during sex

SNOWBALLING: a sex play/game; a man ejaculates in someone’s mouth, and the partner who has cum in the mouth passes it into another partner’s mouth… Or, when a man ejaculates into a woman’s mouth, she passes it into his own mouth or french-kisses him

SNOW BLOW: performing oral sex on a man with ice cubes in your mouth

SOFTCORE: sexual pictures, movies, etc. that do not show penetration and usually do not show an erect penis

SPERMICIDE: a substance that kills sperm, often applied to a condom or other contraceptive (such as creams, vaginal suppositories, etc)

STRAP-ON DILDO: also “strap-on” or “dildo harness”; a sex toy; a dildo designed to be worn with a harness, during sexual activity. A dildo sex toy is attached to a harness, so that it can be thrust into a partner like a penis. A strap-on dildo can be used for a wide variety of penetrative activities. Strap-on dildos can be used by people of any sex or gender, upon people of any sex or gender. Strap-on dildos are often used with sexual lubricants to ease the insertion. A wide variety of dildos and dildo harnesses are available today, such as panty harnesses, G-string harnesses, harness and dildo sets, etc.

SUBMISSIVE: BDSM term for the person who is dominated in a BDSM relationship

SWITCH: a sexual partner who can act either as a dominant or submissive in BDSM play/relationship

SACHER-MASOCH, LEOPOLD VON: Austrian novelist of the 1800s, the author of “Venus in Furs”, a book first published in 1870. The novel describes the sexual obsessions of a man wanting “to be the slave of a woman.” The novel is a classic literary statement on sexual submission and control. The word “Masochism” derived from the author’s name.

SIXTY-NINE: or “69” is a sexual position for giving and receiving oral sex. The sixty-nine position allows both you and your partner to give and receive oral sex simultaneously and be a giver and receiver at the same time! This sex position involves two lovers, one on top of the other or side by side. In the classic “69”, a man is usually on his back and a woman is on top. However, instead of lying face to face, each places their head next to the other’s privy parts, so a lady’s mouth is positioned above a man’s penis the way she can lick and suck it, and her pussy is positioned on a man’s face the way he can play with it with using his mouth and fingers! The number 69 looks similar to two bodies with their heads at each other’s genitals.

SAFE WORD: a safe word is a word or words used as a signal between partners to stop a sexual activity during an S/M scene

SEX SURROGATE: also called “a surrogate partner”, is a member of a sex therapy team who engages in sexual activity with a patient in order to achieve a therapeutic goal. A surrogate should have professional certification in the fields of sexuality, psychology or counseling. Sex surrogates use a combination of several methods to help resolve a patient’s physical and psychological sexual problems, sexual phobias and other intimacy concerns: talking, listening, relaxation, meditation, training, and some kind of demonstration. Sexual surrogate therapy was first introduced in the 1950’s by famous therapists William Masters and Virginia Johnston. Surrogate therapy is not about sex as a release, or entertainment. It is mostly about education, emotional healing and communication.

SWINGING: a sexual activity when usually a married or otherwise committed couple engages in a sexual activity with another couple, multiple couples, or a single individual

EROGENOUS ZONES: erogenous zones are highly sensitive areas of the body. Although everyone has different level of sensitivity as well as different erogenous zones, stimulation of erogenous zones usually leads to sexual arousal and intense erotic sensations. Erogenous zones may be genital (the g-spot, the clitoris, man’s testicles) and non-genital (the breasts, the buttocks; inner side of thighs, the back side of knees; the area around the lower spine, just above the buttocks).

EROTOGRAPHOMANIA: an obsession with erotic writing, the obsessive desire to write love letters and/or poems, usually in connection with sexual arousal

EAGLE WINGS: a sexual position where a woman’s legs are spread wide open during sex, especially when she receives oral sex

EATING SOMEONE OUT: performing oral sex (cunnilingus) on a woman

EDGEPLAY: any sexual play or sexual practice which is potentially dangerous and even life-threatening, often involving pain. In BDSM, edgeplay stands for types of sexual play that are on the edge of safe, sane and consensual. Edgeplay may involve: the risk of permanent harm or death (for example, breathplay); increased risk of spreading disease (for example, bloodplay); psychological danger (as humiliation play, incest fantasies); scat fetishism, rape scenes, zoophilia (sex with animals), and other.

EXHIBITIONISM: getting sexual pleasure from exposing oneself to others (usually, to strangers) or being watched while having sex or masturbation. Some exhibitionists enjoy shocking their target; while others fantasize that the target will become sexually aroused by their display.

X-RATED: also known as X certificate or X classification, stands for indicating strong adult content, usually sexual, lewd, obscene, vulgar, pornographic. It indicates that the film/video game/song/etc. is not appropriate for anyone under the age of 18/21.

Ok, here you have it – 35 sexual words and terms beginning with the letters S, E, X. I believe that good sex life is inspired by love and guided by sexual knowledge – so it’s important to increase your sexual vocabulary and learn who’s who and what’s what :) Therefore, want it or not, I will come back soon with more sexuality-related words and terms. Guess what comes next… Letters F, U, K :)

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Other posts you might enjoy reading:

Sex Glossary: Sex Words And Terms Every Adult Should Know – Sexual Definitions Letter A!
Sex Glossary: Sex Words And Terms Every Adult Should Know – Sexual Definitions Letter B!
Sex Glossary: Sex Words And Terms Every Adult Should Know – Sexual Definitions Letter C!
The Pussy List: More Than 100 Synonyms And Names For A Woman’s Hole Of Holes!
Sexual Nicknames: 10 Facts And More Than 100 Nicknames For A Man’s Most Private Part – The Penis!
The Masturbation List: Fun And Creative Synonyms For Male And Female Masturbation
Sex Positions: Sex Is Fine In The “69”!
The Joys Of Sexual OUTERCOURSE And Types of Non-Penetrative Sexual Activities! For Those Times When You Don’t Want To “Go All The Way”!
How To Finger A Woman: Make Your Fingers A Pleasure Tool And Show Her What You Can Do With Them!