Woman About Sex

I don’t have sexual dreams regularly, but I do have them sometimes. So, I had a vivid sexual dream last night. I was having sex with my ex boyfriend. I haven’t thought of him since we broke up a year ago! I found myself sitting on his bed touching on his swollen penis and heavy balls. I remember I kissed him all over and breathed in the scent of his body. The dream left me panting and experiencing familiar spasms in my pussy, and confused and… admitting to myself I missed him. It was the best sex dream I’ve ever had…

Intriguing and shocking, full of eroticism and passion, bizarre and downright dirty, sexual dreams are the greatest dreams ever, and both men and women of all age do have them every now and then! So if you’ve ever woken up from a dream that left you all wet and aroused, it’s okay, you’re not alone :)

Nighttime erotic dreams… Why we have them? What they mean? Why do some sexual dreams end with a real orgasm? And how to enjoy them more often?

Why we have them

Our dreams are ‘messages’ from our subconscious minds. In our dreams we can do things we never do in our waking life. In fact, nighttime erotic visions can bring to light our hidden passions, worries or deep desires about sex. Sometimes we have sexual dreams to ‘compensate’ for what is lacking in real sex life. Sex dreams do not occur regularly. Usually, dreams of sexual nature occur at particular times when you have a hormone peak or need a release from sexual tension. For example, some of my female friends told me they started having sexual dreams during pregnancy!

Do they mean anything?

Like interpreting regular dreams, decoding erotic dreams is tricky. So, if your nighttime sex dreams are not regular and disturbing – just enjoy them and don’t take too seriously. However, sometimes sex dreams might mean something. And, making you dream, your subconscious mind may be trying to tell you something that should not be ignored. For example, if a dreamer is having sex with a stranger in her/his dream, this doesn’t mean he/she really wants to make love with a stranger. This erotic dream may be suggesting that a dreamer is looking for something new to be introduced into her/his life and relationship. Moreover, erotic dreams don’t necessarily mean something is going ‘wrong’ in your real sex life or a relationship. Sometimes, sexual dreams have a deeper meaning and tell something about things NOT depending to sex, such as a dreamer’s unresolved situations, relationships, self-esteem, personal worries, fears, life attitudes, and even illnesses. Of course, there are no a general formula or exact interpretations that will hold true for every dreamer. So, if you want to figure out what your sex dream means, the only thing you can do is thinking SYMBOLICALLY about the situations, images or people from your dream.

And the BEST thing you can do when it comes to erotic dreams – simply ENJOY them and turn SOME of them to reality! ;) As to my dream mentioned above… well, I guess it could be interpreted somehow. Must admit, I don’t want to interpret it, I just want to turn it to reality a.s.a.p. ;)

Why do some sexual dreams end with a real orgasm

It’s never happened to me personally but I remember some dreams taking me to the brink of orgasm. I always wake up when I “almost there” and then, half-awake, I quickly lead myself to that “happy ending”.…

Sometimes sexual dreams can lead some men and women to a real ORGASM. It happens so because physiologically an intense sex dream might cause the same reactions in the dreamer’s body as a ‘real’ sex: increased blood flow, sweating, deep breathing, muscles contraction. However, reaching orgasms in nighttime dreams is more common for men (‘wet’ dreams). As to women, we can get very excited during a dream and wake up very, very aroused ;)

Common themes in sex dreams
Believe it or not, there are common scenarios in men’s and women’s erotic dreams. Most common involve:

~ Sex with a current partner
~ Sex with ex partner
~ Sex with unknown partner
~ Sex with a person of the same gender
~ Sex with a ‘faceless’ lover (the lover’s face cannot be seen during the dream or his/her face is in the shadows)
~ Sex with your best friend (or with your lover’s best friend)
~ Sex with a celebrity (more often these are movie stars, actors/actresses, politicians)
~ Sex with multiple partners
~ Masturbation (self-stroking)

Women’s erotic dreams tend to be more about current or past sexual partners. Celebrity dreams are quite common among women than men. Also, our dreams may very often involve a ‘faceless’ lover. A woman usually enjoys the encounter but doesn’t know who she has just been with. Men’s dreams tend to be about the encounters with multiple partners, sex in unusual places and masturbation.

What to do to enjoy sex-related dreams more often

If you want to have erotic dreams more often or ‘generate’ your first sex dream, you may try to do the following things (while in bed, and right before sleep):

~ Wear something very erotic in bed, whether you’re alone in bed or not
~ Read a sex story or some sexy passages from your favorite book (to spark your erotic imagination, you may read someone’s sexual fantasies and bedtime stories, for example)
~ Watch an erotic video or a porn movie
~ Masturbate, tease yourself, not enough to orgasm but enough to get those juices flowing
~ Play with a sex toy

There is a joke about one man and his sex dream. A distraught man goes to see a psychologist. ‘How may I help you?’ the doctor asks. ‘Doc, every night, I have the same dream. I’m lying in bed and a dozen women walk in and try to rip my clothes off and have wild sex with me!’ ‘And then what do you do?’ the shrink asks. ‘I push them away!’ the man says. ‘Then what do you want me to do?’ the shrink asks. ‘Break my arms!!’

Well, my lovely sex dreamers, have nights full of naughty sex dreams, let yourself do things that would be totally shocking in real life, enjoy and don’t take them too seriously! And… don’t push away a dozen women or men trying to have wild sex with you. Who knows, you might like it ;)))

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If you want to have erotic dreams more often, help yourself and right before sleep, read SEX FANTASIES of other people! These hot stories may stimulate your imagination and “shut off” the logical part of your brain and “switch on” the “naughty part” of it! Don’t want to read? I do have a sexy alternative for you – sex toys and erotic videos! Ladies, why not play with hot and naughty Dream maker heavenly dolphin rabbit vibrator? Or Jesse’s sweet dreams multispeed vibe and Lucid dream no. 32 rabbit vibrator! Ok, don’t want to play with a sex toy? Watch an erotic video! Guys, check out Dreams adult dvd or Rocki Road’s Wet Dreams!

Happy dreaming and have fun! ;)