Woman About Sex

As I said in my post on missionary sex position, I believe that sexual positioning is one of the main keys to great sex. And I want you to learn a variety of sex positions, for all circumstances and situations. So, in today’s post, let’s learn all about one more commonly known sex position, THE SIXTY-NINE! As the missionary, the sixty-nine position is also a classic in the history of sex positions! And despite being “old”, it’s still popular today, because it is really fine and enjoyable!

What is the “69” sex position

The sixty-nine or “69” sex position (also known by its French name “soixante-neuf”, meaning 69), is probably one of the greatest sex positions for giving and receiving ORAL PLEASURE! This position allows both you and your partner to give and receive oral sex SIMULTANEOUSLY! Therefore, while in the “69”, both lovers are the giver and receiver at the same time! The “69” is very comfortable and really easy to get into! As the missionary, this numerological miracle doesn’t require athleticism and diagrams to follow. This sex position usually involves two lovers, one on top of the other or side by side. In the classic “69”, a man is usually on his back and a woman is on top. However, instead of lying face to face, each places their head next to the other’s privy parts, so a lady’s mouth is positioned above a man’s hard tool the way she can lick and suck and devour his tasty “sausage” for hours, and her pussy is positioned on a man’s face the way he can lick and suck and finger it for hours! The lovers are thus mutually inverted like the numerals ‘6’ and ‘9’! The number 69 looks similar to two bodies with their heads at each other’s genitals. Hence the name.

Tips and the “69” variations for the finest sensations

Variations of the “69” sex position allow partners lay side-by-side, lay one on top of the other, or stand. The standing variation of the “69” is known as The Giving Tree sex position. This position usually involves one lover holding the other lover upside down (usually a man is holding a woman by her waist ;) Well, getting into the standing “69” can be both fun and awkward. At least one of you should be very, very, very strong, like Hercules. While in the classic “69”,  lovers may finger each other’s pussy or anus for extra fun.

Advantages and disadvantages of the “69” position

As with any sex position, the “69” has its ups and downs. Some lovers find the position really enjoyable and fine, since it is a two-way pleasure. Some lovers don’t like the position because focusing on the other lover’s pleasure distracts them from enjoying their own sensations. Well, let’s point out all the advantages and disadvantages.

Why sex is fine in the “69”
The sixty-nine sex position is a two-way pleasure
The sixty-nine sex position allows giving and receiving oral pleasure at the same time
The sixty-nine sex position is a highly intimate experience
The sixty-nine position is an incredible visual turn-on, if done in front of a mirror
The sixty-nine sex position is easy to get into
The sixty-nine position allows greater intimacy, closeness and sexual trust
The sixty-nine sex position allows a great amount of skin-to-skin contact
In the sixty-nine, the hands of both lovers are relatively free so they can caress each other
This position can involve any combination of sexes
Variations of the “69” positions include mutual analingus
Variations of the “69” allow partners lay side-by-side, lay one on top of the other, or stand (standing “69” is known as the Vertical “69” or The Giving Tree)
In the side-by-side variation of the “69” sex position, lovers who are not similar in weight don’t have to worry about it

Why the “69” can be not-so-fine
The sixty-nine sex position isn’t for everyone
In this position, both lovers may tire very quickly
In this position, you need to pay attention on the giving, so you can’t fully enjoy the receiving
Some lovers don’t like sticking their genitals to their sweetheart’s face
The “69” position can be uncomfortable for some partners who are not similar in height and weight

And just for fun… Have found on the web some amusing lines and so-called poems featuring this fun and enjoyable sex position! Hope these put a smile on your face ;)

The “69” funny poems and lines

I love to Sixty-nine
Because it’s great and fine!

Let’s do “head-to-toe”!

Sex is good, sex is fine!
Doggy style and “69”!
Just for fun or getting paid!
Everyone likes getting laid!

Roses are nice, violets are fine,
I’ll be the six, if you be the nine!

Lick me there, suck me fine – let’s enjoy the “69”!

I can Sixty-nine
Every day and night!
All is wet and fine!
What a sexy sight!

Final tips and warnings

Finally, let’s get serious for a minute, because I have some final tips for you. Tip 1: for your experience to be fully enjoyable, you may use lubricants, designed specifically for oral sex. Tip 2: if you haven’t tried the “69” position before, start with side-by-side variation; this variation is most comfortable. Tip 3: if you get into the classic “69” (one lover on top of the other) and you lay on your back, use a pillow to keep your head propped up. Tip 4: be very careful if you decide to try out the vertical “69”, make sure you both are strong enough to get into it; stay near the bed. And one more tip: when things get really hot and oh-so good don’t forget that you need to keep stimulating your sweetheart too! :) To solve the problem of forgetting to please your lover while you’re pleased is just taking turns pleasuring each other to orgasm. All in all, there is also the “68” sex position ;)

I have a small holiday coming up, so if not sooner, I will see you next week!  

Happy 69’ing everyone! Looking forward to reading your “69” experiences ;)

Almost everyone loves sex. Even those who don’t talk about it openly. So, it’s not surprising that there are so many quotations, sayings and jokes about this everyone’s favorite subject!

Today is Friday, and I want you to relax and smile! I’ve collected a great list of various sayings (funny, filthy and serious) about sex and things sexual, by famous, infamous and not so famous men and women! Among more than 50 sayings, you’ll find quotes from Woody Allen, Confucius, Sharon Stone, Mae West, Robert De Niro, William Shakespeare! Not sure if all quotes are accurate as I’ve gathered them on the net. Still, feel free to link to this list, share it to your readers, or your wives/husbands, or your lovers, or readers who are your lovers, or lovers of your lovers, or your friends, or friends of your lovers, or your friend who’s your lover, and enjoy! (lol)

1. “When I’m good I’m very, very good but when I’m bad I’m better” – Mae West
2. “Is that a gun in your pocket, or are you just glad to see me?” – Mae West
3. “To succeed with the opposite sex, tell her you’re impotent. She can’t wait to disprove it” – Cary Grant
4. “Before I fuck my girlfriend on the hood of my car, I always run the engine for a few minutes to warm it up – because that’s the kind of thing you do when you care” – Brad Osberg
5. “Graze on my lips; and if those hills be dry, stray lower, where the pleasant fountains lie” – W. Shakespeare
6. “For women the best aphrodisiacs are words. The G-spot is in the ears. He who looks for it below there is wasting his time” – Isabel Allende
7. “Women need a reason to have sex. Men just need a place” – Billy Crystal
8. “Having sex is like playing bridge. If you don’t have a good partner, you’d better have a good hand!” – Woody Allen
9. “According to a new survey, women say they feel more comfortable undressing in front of men than they do undressing in front of other women. They say that women are too judgmental, where, of course, men are just grateful” – Robert De Niro
10. “Sex is emotion in motion” – Mae West
11. “Sex is a part of nature. I go along with nature” – Marilyn Monroe
12. “Some things are better than sex, some things are worse, but there’s nothing exactly like it” – W. C. Fields
13. “No one has ever died from an overdose of pornography”- J. Money and P. Tucker
14. “Healthy, lusty sex is wonderful” – John Wayne
15. “It is better to be unfaithful than to be faithful without wanting to be”- Brigitte Bardot
16. “Women might be able to fake orgasms. But men can fake whole relationships” – Sharon Stone
17. “If God had intended us not to masturbate, He would have made our arms shorter”- George Carlin
18. “I don’t understand what my girlfriend was so upset about – her mom’s tits *are* much nicer than hers. And certainly her mom should have liked the compliment. Man, what a crazy family” – Tim H. Richweis
19. “The great question that has never been answered and which I have not get been able to answer, despite my thirty years of research into the feminine soul, is “What does a woman want?” – Sigmund Freud
20. “What are the three words you never want to hear while making love? Honey, I’m home” – Ken Hammond
21. “My wife is a sex object. Every time I ask for sex, she objects” – Les Dawson
22. “Sex is dirty only if it’s done right” – Woody Allen
23. “No sex is better than bad sex” – Germaine Greer
24. “There’s nothing better than good sex. But bad sex? A peanut butter and jelly sandwich is better than bad sex” – Billy Joel
25. “I believe that sex is a beautiful thing between two people. Between five, it’s fantastic” – Woody Allen
26. “A fast word about oral contraception. I asked a girl to go to bed with me, she said ‘no’” – Woody Allen
27. “Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man” – Mignon McLaughlin
28. “The difference between man and animals is that we don’t use our tongue to clean our genitals” – Rimmer – Red Dwarf
29. “Tell him I’ve been too fucking busy – or vice versa” – Dorothy Parker
30. “The only unnatural sex act is one which you cannot perform” – Alfred Kinsey
31. “I tried setting my hotmail password to ‘penis’. It said my password wasn’t long enough…” – Unknown
32. “The sex was so good that even the neighbors had a cigarette” – Unknown
33. “Anticipation makes the hard-on longer” – Itsby Stevintary
34. “I think I could fall madly in bed with you” – Author Unknown
35. “Sex multiplies the possibilities of desire” – Unknown
36. “I think the hardest part of eating pussy is digesting the collar” – James Curry
37. “Man who argues with wife in morning has no piece at nigh” – Confucius
38. “Masturbation: the primary sexual activity of mankind. In the nineteenth century it was a disease; in the twentieth, it’s a cure” – Thomas Szasz
39. “If sex doesn’t scare the cat, you’re not doing it right” – Unknown
40. “Isn’t it interesting how the sounds are the same for an awful nightmare and great sex?” – From the TV show The Golden Girls
41. “It is not sex that gives the pleasure, but the lover” – Marge Piercy
42. “A dirty book is rarely dusty” – Author Unknown
43. “Life without sex might be safer but it would be unbearably dull. It is the sex instinct which makes women seem beautiful, which they are once in a blue moon, and men seem wise and brave, which they never are at all. Throttle it, denaturalize it, take it away, and human existence would be reduced to the prosaic, laborious, boresome, imbecile level of life in an anthill” – Henry Louis Mencken
44. “Sex relieves tension – love causes it” – Woody Allen
45. “Don’t worry, it only seems kinky the first time” – Unknown
46. “Passionate kiss like spider’s web, soon lead to undoing of fly” – Confucius
47. “Men wake up aroused in the morning. We can’t help it. We just wake up and we want you. And the women are thinking, “How can he want me the way I look in the morning?” It’s because we can’t see you. We have no blood anywhere near our optic nerve” – Andy Rooney
48. “Love is a matter of chemistry, but sex is a matter of physics” – Author Unknown
49. “Sex: the pleasure is momentary, the position ridiculous, and the expense damnable” – Lord Chesterfield
50. “An erection is like the Theory of Relativity – the more you think about it, the harder it gets” – Unknown
51. “I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them” – Jay McInerney
52. “Later that day I got to thinking about relationships. There are those that open you up to something new and exotic, those that are old and familiar, those that bring up lots of questions, those that bring you somewhere unexpected, those that bring you far from where you started, and those that bring you back. But the most exciting, challenging and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself. And if you find someone to love, well, that’s just fabulous” – Carrie, Sex and the City
53. Stanford: I don’t want to seem like a nobody now that I have a somebody. Carrie: Oh, so it’s okay to be a nobody when you have nobody? Stanford: Well, apparently you’re nobody until somebody loves you! – Sex and the City
54. “Some men know that a light touch of the tongue, running from a woman’s toes to her ears, lingering in the softest way possible in various places in between, given often enough and sincerely enough, would add immeasurably to world peace” – Marianne Williamson, A Woman’s Worth
55. “Only a man can be a woman the way a man wants a woman to be” – Nicole Asahi
56. “Panties not best thing on earth, but next to best thing on earth” – Confucius
57. “It is good for girl to meet boy in park but better for boy to park meat in girl” – Confucius
58. Sex is good, sex is fine! Doggy Style and 69! Just for fun or getting paid! Everyone likes getting laid!
59. Sex is evil, sex is sin – sins are forgiven, so stick it in!
60. Roses are nice, violets are fine, I’ll be the six, if you be the nine!

I hope you’re having a great day! And when you find a moment – leave a comment! Share your favorite adult quotes (jokes, poems, and all kinds of adult funnies), and I’ll add them to the list! 

See ya soon, Sexies! :)

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When most of us think about sex, we commonly define it as INTERCOURSE. However, intercourse is just one aspect of sex. In fact, there are so many orgasmic things and intimate activities lovers can do for each other without engaging in intercourse! I’m talking about sexual OUTERCOURSE and its forms and variations that can benefit your sex lives in soooo many ways!

What sexual outercourse is all about?
When we think about sexual intercourse, there’s no doubt about its definition. Sexual intercourse is penetrative type of sex, where a man puts his penis inside a woman’s vagina or butt. As simple as that. But when we think about sexual outercourse… What is it? Is it sex? Or is it something like “having sex without having sex”? Basically, “outercourse” is a term used for sexual activities and physical interactions that don’t involve oral sex, vaginal-penile and anal intercourse. Personally, I define sexual outercourse as a non-penetrative form of intimacy. For me, true intimacy is about the feelings of a deep heart-soul-body connection and closeness with your lover, and the intimacy does not necessarily have to end in sexual penetration. Sexual outercourse is a form of sex play when lovers explore each other’s entire body rather than focus their attention solely on the privy parts. Actually, every couple has their own definition of the outercourse. But usually, outercourse behaviors include mutual masturbation, erotic phone talk, erotic massage, engaging in sexual role-playing, bathing together, handjobs, footjobs, tit sex, and more. Believe it or not, but great outercourse may lead to a great orgasm.

Let’s find out why lovers may engage in outercourse, and what are the forms of this sensual act!

When and why lovers may engage into sexual outercourse:
a) when one partner doesn’t feel like “going all the way”
b) when lovers choose to abstain from sex for some reasons
c) when condoms or other contraceptives are not in handy
d) when a woman has her period
e) when one lover is sore
f) when a lover has an infection
g) when one lover or both are not ready for intercourse yet
h) when lovers want to add variety to their sexual relationship

Sexual outercourse activities may involve:
Mutual masturbation
Erotic massage
Strip teases
Sensual bathing together
Tit sex (mammary intercourse)
Handjob
Footjob
Breasts and nipples stimulation
Femoral sex (aka interfemoral sex or intercrural sex; penis between the other partner’s thighs)
Intergluteal sex (penis between the other partner’s butt cleavage)
Axillary intercourse (putting the penis in the other partner’s armpit)
Fingering
Sharing erotic fantasies
Erotic phone talk
Virtual sex
Dry humping
Engaging in role-playing
Playing games
Playing with sex toys

Now let’s look at some of the top advantages and benefits of sexual outercourse. I know at least nine of them, which are absolutely great and worth trying! Want to learn more about your own and your lover’s body? I guess you want it. Want to enjoy a wonderful foreplay? I guess you say “yes”. Want to receive more orgasms? Sure, you want it! Read on then.

Why sexual outercourse can be so great:
a) Sexual outercourse activities can lead to orgasms!
b) Sexual outercourse is a relatively safe form of sex
c) Outercourse is a great form of foreplay
d) Outercourse is a wonderful warm-up for intercourse
e) Outercourse requires trust and communication from lovers
f) Sexual outercourse is a form of sex play when lovers explore the sensual sides and spots of the entire body rather than focus their attention on the privy parts
g) Sexual outercourse allows lovers to learn more about their bodies and sensual spots
h) Sexual outercourse is a simple way to express sexual excitement and receive pleasure avoiding intercourse
i) Outercourse is a wonderful way to create and enhance trust and emotional and sexual bonding (for new lovers, especially)

Finally, I want to briefly describe some of the forms of outercourse mentioned above. I guess there are those of you who don’t know much about, for example, femoral sex, intergluteal sex or axillary intercourse (such ugly words for such fun and unusual sexual activities, right?). Let me take a glass of water and a deep breath, and we’ll continue. See, I want you to know everything about sex and become great lovers ever. And, I guess, reading my lengthy posts is a nice way to exercise your patience! Remember, patience is the secret to a great lover. With this in mind, READ ON. Okay? (lol)

Mutual masturbation is the manual stimulation of each other’s privy parts. There is also non-contact mutual masturbation when one lover is stimulating herself/himself while the other is watching, but not touching each other. Mutual masturbation can be done as a part of foreplay or simply as an alternative to casual intercourse. It is a wonderful way to learn more about each other’s pleasure-spots and get sexual release through sensual touching, rubbing, kissing each other’s most intimate places!

Erotic massage or sensuous massage is the use of massage techniques to enhance sexual pleasure and sensations. Erotic massages typically involve touching erogenous zones of the person and stimulating his/her private parts. Erotic massage is a very pleasurable form of non-penetrative sexual activity which really helps to heighten the sensitivity of the body and add variety to a relationship. Moreover, erotic massage may be used professionally to help some men learn to control premature ejaculation.

Sensual bathing together can be a very intimate and romantic experience! While bathing, you may take turns massaging each other; whisper sweet nothings; play with waterproof sex toys; feed each other fresh fruits; listen to the sensual music; playfully wash and dry each other, especially in front of the mirrors! A sensual bath is one of the most wonderful gifts two people can give each other!

Tit sex (aka titty fuck, tit wank and mammary intercourse) is stimulation of the penis by the woman’s breasts! A man is placing his lovestick in the lady’s cleavage and thrusting between her lovely breasts, while the breasts are squeezed around the penis! Tit sex can be combined with a blowjob! When a guy ejaculates on the woman’s neck or breast it is called “pearl necklace”. Which woman doesn’t love a pearl necklace huh? ;)

Handjob is the manual stimulation of a man’s love-muscle, the dick. A handjob may be part of foreplay before an intercourse! And it can provide amazing pleasure to a man when lovers don’t want (or can’t) “go all the way”. Using oils and lubricants for your handjob sessions can really enhance the pleasure!

Footjob is stimulating a man’s love-tool with the feet. Soft female feet stroking up and down the dick… not only it may be very exciting for some lovers, it may be an amazing visual turn-on! Although this unusual form of non-penetrative sex is mainly admired by those folks with a foot fetish, but in fact anyone should try this out! Definitely worth a try!

Breasts stimulation is one more way to get sexual pleasure and even orgasm (for some women) without inserting penis-into-vagina. Men’s nipples can be a source of fun and pleasure to men and women. Women’s nipples can be a source of fun and pleasure to men and women. So what not to play with them? Plus, we women have a secret inside us: our breasts are connected to our clit. So when the nipples are stimulated, many women feel their pussy getting very wet and excited AND some women ever get the breast orgasm!

Intercrural sex (aka femoral/interfemoral sex) is a type of intercourse variously regarded as penetrative and non-penetrative sex, in which a man places his dick between the other partner’s legs or upper thighs, and thrusts to create friction! Some women can orgasm through the femoral contact! Using a lubricant for this sex play is a very good idea, guys!

Intergluteal sex is pressing the penis against or between the cheeks of a woman’s butt (aka butt cleavage or gluteal cleft). How to perform it? There’s probably nothing easier. Ladies, get your lovely butt ready. Guys, lube up her butt cleavage and place your manhood in that cleavage! Ladies, now squeeze your pretty buttocks. Now guys rub it all against her tender flesh! Play safe and enjoy! Ahh, I remember that exciting feeling of having a man’s hard tool between my butt cheeks… What a pleasure!

Axillary intercourse is one more form of outercourse or non-penetrative sex in which a man places his penis under the armpit of his woman to stimulate himself! Guys, if you decide to try this out, don’t forget to lubricate your lady’s armpit and your dick. Place your lovestick in the clean and smooth armpit of your lady and thrust back and forth as she holds her arm close to her body!

Fingering is using your fingers to stimulate a woman’s Holy of Holies, her pussy and its beautiful surroundings. It is analogous to the handjob (manual stimulation of the penis), and is a common form of mutual masturbation and non-penetrative sex. Sexual fingering, whether it’s clitoral, vaginal or anal, is one of the greatest ways to stimulate your woman to orgasm! When engaging in fingering, please always remember about safety. I guess the last thing you want is an infection.

Cybersex (aka ‘cybering’, computer sex, net sex or web sex) is a virtual sex encounter in which two or more persons interact over the internet and send one another sexual messages. For example, the participants may describe their sexual experiences/actions and share erotic fantasies to stimulate their own and other’s sexual feelings. Cybersex is commonly performed in web chats or forums, and via instant messaging systems. It can also be performed using webcam, voice chat systems like Skype, or online games. Cybering is a great outercourse option not only for those who have no prior knowledge of one another, but also for those lovers who are geographically separated.

Dry humping has different definitions. Some people think it means going through the motions of sexual intercourse (like rubbing bodies or moving up and down, back and forth) being fully clothed. Others think it can be done when all clothing or various pieces of clothing are off, but the penis should not come in contact with the pussy. Whatever the definition, dry humping is still a fun way to enjoy each other avoiding sexual intercourse!

Playing games, not only it is a great way to engage in outercourse , it is also a wonderful way to having a better sex and relationship overall. You may play that familiar Strip poker; Q&A (asking each other sexual questions); “Under no circumstances” (requires a lot of willpower; without tying your lover’s hands, tell him/her he/she cannot touch you no matter what you do, even if you lap dance or stimulate yourself in front of your lover). You may want to check out my post on sexual games! Who said sex without *having sex* can’t be fun? ;)

Using sex toys is a lot of fun because sex toys are fun! Sex toys are sexual enhancement devices that bring novelty into your sex life, and allow you to stimulate each other to earth-shattering orgasms! With remote control sex toys, vibrators to be precise, designed to allow a partner to control the toy, you can play without even touching each other! Why not? Anticipation and the urge to have an intercourse may well lead to orgasm!

Wheew :) Hopefully, you managed to read the entire post. As you see, there are many other ways to feel physically close without having intercourse. Whatever your reasons and circumstances to engage in outercourse activities, having an outercource is no less a pleasure than having an intercourse! Have fun, stay safe and don’t forget to share your experiences with me! See you soon!

I believe that sexual positioning is one of the main keys to great sex. Of course, there is a multitude of creative and fun sex positions to talk about, but today I’m going to sing the praises of my one of the most cherished and all-time favorite positions – THE GOOD OLD MISSIONARY. See, I even don’t like to refer to it as the “missionary”, because this word is such “cold” and “clinical” for how good this position looks and feels!

As we all know, there are lots of articles online offering adventurous styles and advanced and acrobatic sexual positions that guarantee mind-blowing pleasure and earth-shattering orgasms. So tell someone one of your favorite lovemaking positions is the missionary and they’ll think you’re prudish and unimaginative. BUT it is the missionary position which is really popular and widely practiced by most lovers around the world! And I know at least three reasons why the missionary is all-time’s popular position: 1) its versatility and great variations; 2) it is easy to perform and doesn’t require athleticism and diagrams for you to follow; 3) it can REALLY lead to mind-blowing pleasure and earth-shattering orgasms!!!

Just imagine how popular this wonderful position is! It is the missionary which is commonly chosen for the first time a couple has sex; it was the missionary when most of us lost our virginity; it is the missionary that differentiates us from animals, because face-to-face sex is mostly used by humans (and, well, gorillas :); it is the missionary position that allows staying under the covers during the chilly seasons; it is the missionary that allows both lovers to engage all of their senses at once!!!

Now, call it most boring, call it “ordinary”, call it “old-fashioned”, anything but erotic, but actually, there’s nothing wrong with this position, and it is one of the most intimate, comfortable and pleasurable sex positions ever. Believe it or not, many women enjoy the missionary position, because of its intimacy, sexiness and romantic flavor. And many men love the missionary because this position allows them to play a more dominant role, take charge of the rhythm and depth of thrusting and “control” his own and his woman’s orgasms.

Let’s learn more about this sensual sex position, its great variations, benefits, and even the historical facts. Let’s get started!

Some interesting facts and historical trivia

The missionary position is a man-on-top and face-to-face sex position named supposedly after the Christian missionaries who taught that man-on-top was the only natural and proper position for a man and woman to have sex. Tuscans refer to the position as “The Angelic Position” while some Arabic-speaking groups call it “the manner of serpents”. The ancient Chinese preferred male-on-top because of their belief that males were born face down and women were born face up. Before the term “missionary position” came into common use, this sex position was known by several names, for example, “the matrimonial”, “the mama-papa position”, “the English-American position”, and “the male superior position”. (Ahh, I wish I could think of a better term).

Why women might enjoy the missionary position
The missionary position allows greater intimacy and closeness
The missionary position seems ‘natural’ one to take
The missionary position allows easy entry into the pussy
The missionary position allows deep penetration
The missionary position allows friction on women’s entire genital area
The missionary position allows intense eye-contact
The missionary position allows a great amount of skin-to-skin contact
This position allows staying under the covers during the chilly months
The missionary position allows a man caress her breasts
The missionary position allows communication
The missionary position is physically comfortable
The missionary position doesn’t require diagrams to follow
The missionary position is less likely to be unpleasantly painful
The missionary position allows squeezing him closer with her arms or legs
The position is probably one of the best positions for baby-making
The position allows a woman use her hands freely to caress her man and stimulate her clit
In the missionary, some women find it easier to reach orgasm because they do not have to focus on what they are doing
The missionary position is great for kissing and holding each other during sex
The psychological reason many women enjoy the missionary position is that this position is an expression of masculine-feminine polarity and dominance/submission aspects
A woman may enjoy the feeling of being unable to “escape” until he allows it
Many women enjoy the feeling of a man being in charge during sex

Why men might enjoy the missionary position
In the missionary position, he is less likely to lose his erection
The missionary position is very comfortable for men with a shorter penis
The missionary position allows a great view for a man
In the missionary, a man can see (and reach) his woman’s breasts
The missionary allows a man to see his woman’s facial expressions
The missionary position allows a man to play a “dominant” role
The missionary position allows a man to take charge of the rhythm and depth of thrusting
The missionary position allows him to “control” her orgasms
A man may enjoy his male dominance and female acceptance of his “power” and sexual energy

8 Variations of the missionary sex position

Fortunately, the missionary position is not static and you can vary it up in numerous ways! Variations of the position allow different degrees of clitoral and g-spot stimulation, vaginal tightness, the angle of penetration, the depth of penetration, and more. The most common variations may involve the woman resting her feet on the bed, lifting them up into the air, placing her legs on his shoulders, wrapping her legs around a man, placing a firm pillow under her buttocks, using the position pillows like a wedge or ramp-shaped pillow. Now let me explain 8 positions in detail!

Who said the missionary position is boring…

The Missionary – the peace sign technique

Try the classic missionary with some minor changes. Instead of keeping woman’s legs apart, a woman can close her legs together, and a man has his legs on the outside of hers! This position is known as “the peace sign technique”! It’s because when viewed from above it really resembles a peace sign. The peace sign variation of the missionary allows great clitoral stimulation and intense stimulation for the man. See also The Grip sex position below.

The Anvil – woman’s legs up

The Anvil is a “legs up” variation of the missionary sex position. In this position, the woman is on her back and resting her feet above the man’s shoulders. This type of missionary aims the head of the penis at the posterior fornix, and allows the deepest penetration. It also allows the g-spot stimulation for a lady and more friction and intense stimulation of the penis shaft for a man. The version of The Anvil position is placing her left leg on his right shoulder.

The Arch

In this missionary variation, a man gets in the kneeling position and enters a woman. She arches her back and lifts her buttocks into the air while her shoulders remain flat on the bed. The position will be more comfortable with a pillow under the woman’s head. For support, the man can place his hands on the woman’s buttocks or hips! What a sexy pose!

The Grip

This position has the man inserting his penis and putting his legs outside of the woman’s so that both her vagina and legs cause friction against his penis as he thrusts in and out, and then he slides forward slightly. The man may squeeze the woman’s legs tighter for more friction and intense stimulation! The woman’s pussy squeezes more tightly around the man’s erotic “candycane”, enhancing its stimulation! If the man shifts his pelvis forward, clitoral stimulation becomes possible! Enjoy!

The Cross

This position is absolutely beautiful and comfortable since it allows a man to directly and indirectly stimulate the woman’s clit! In this position, the woman lies on her back with her legs slightly open. A man enters a woman in the standard missionary, and then he should twist to position himself diagonally across the woman, forming a cross!

The Plough

One more “legs-up” variation for you to try out tonight. In this sex position, the woman wraps her legs around the man’s waist or buttocks, so that both lovers can thrust against each other! The Plough position requires great flexibility and strong muscles, and allows the man to grind against the woman with his pubic bone. Indeed, sex is one of the best sports ever!

Riding high

In this missionary variant, the man enters the woman as usual and then shifts his body up and forward toward her head. He then rocks back and forth, stimulating her clitoris with his pubic bone or base of his penis. The result is the stimulation of the woman’s love button, the clit, at the cost of deep thrusting.

The CAT

The CAT (aka the Coital Alignment Technique) of the missionary position is aimed to maximize clitoral stimulation! This sensual technique increases a woman’s chance to orgasm during sexual intercourse, BUT it requires some practice and patience. What’s different from the classic missionary is that the CAT requires the man and woman’s combined movement and men’s thrusting happens from the higher angle than in standard missionary. In this position, the man enters a woman in the normal missionary and then lifts himself further up the length of her body so that the base of his penis provides stimulation of her clitoris! The woman can wrap her legs around the man or rest her feet on his calves. She can begin to move her own butt to make contact between her clitoris and the base of his penis. Sexual movement is focused in the pelvises, without leverage from the arms or legs.

Think the missionary position is boring? Go through the list tonight and think again! :) So see you soon, my lovely “missionaries” out there!

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Another way to vary up your sex positions is using sex toys for additional stimulation and Liberator position shapes and pillows for great support and comfort! Have fun and stay safe!

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