Woman About Sex

Yes, yes, of course, you are not the only guilty ones, dear men. Surely, we women also make many mistakes when it comes to sex and we also do all kinds of things that can turn a man off in the bedroom. But we less likely than men to repeat the same mistakes over and over again ;) So today we are going to talk about the most common mistakes many of you guys make in bed and some hints on what you should do instead.

What follows is a list of things many men are probably doing wrong when it comes to sex with a woman, according to my personal experience and the experiences of other women. Of course, these aren’t the only things many women find annoying, but these are common mistakes many men tend to repeat with women over and over. These are mistakes that can be a real turn off and stand head and shoulders above the rest.

I think that every man should read this to discover what these mistakes are and what you can do about them if you find yourself doing these things. Perhaps, this list will tell you why she is mad at you sometimes and why, from time to time, you hear those classic “I’ve got a headache”, or “I’m tired”, or “I’m PMS-ing” excuses. Below are the basic no-no’s and common turn-off’s that I can think of. Hopefully, this will help a lot of men to improve their bedroom manners and avoid doing these mood-killing things in bed with a woman. If your check list contains all of these… well, I highly recommend that you begin changing some of the things you do, before it’s too late. Trust me on this guys, there is nothing worse than a lover who does not care about his woman’s sexual needs and her pleasure. Be a man that women crave in the bedroom, okay? Now read on… Make sure they don’t happen to you.

“Did you come yet?”

Asking her whether she has orgasmed yet or not – this is a really annoying thing some men do in bed and one of the most inappropriate questions to ask her half-way through sexual intercourse. It disturbs the rhythm and becomes a real passion-killer for many women. I know that it is not always easy to tell if a woman has had an orgasm. Moreover, some women themselves just can’t tell if they had an orgasm. So what should you do guys? Yes, the only way to know for sure is to ask and to talk. BUT you may ask her any questions after the “party”. Simply by having an open conversation with your woman, you will be able to fully satisfy her and find out if she is having orgasms with you or not. Have her tell you what feels good and what does not; ask her how you can best help her to have an orgasm. And, by the way, just making the effort to talk about her sexual needs and having a caring conversation with her is another way to arouse your woman and make her orgasm! What else? One of the things for you to do next time you make love is to pay attention to her “body language”, body signals, sounds, movements.

Intercourse is not the time to play 20 Questions

Too much talk leads to not enough action. Please, stop asking every other minute: Is this right? Is it good? Do you like this? Do you like that? What do you want me to do now? What do you want me to do next? Some men have this strange habit of asking his woman lots of questions in the middle of the process. Lovemaking is not the time for a running conversation. Yes, hearing your man’s sexy voice and talking during sex is great and even necessary, but that should be a sex talk, or a dirty talk, not an exam. It kills the mood having sex with a real chatterbox. There are moments during sex when the words (suggestions, instructions or comments, etc) may ruin the orgasm build-up. So, how much talk is too much talk during sex? You won’t know until you ask your own woman.

A rough touch to the clit – one of the biggest turn-offs that should be avoided at all costs

Another annoying tendency men have is being rough with the clitoris. Want to know the perfect way to perform oral sex on your lady? Please, do not go straight for the clitoris during oral sex. Start by massaging and kissing the inner thighs. Next, caress the pussy lips and the vaginal entrance with your tongue. Then, as she gets more aroused, you can touch that sensitive love button. But please do not press too hard. Just think about it, the clitoris has twice as many nerve endings as your penis. So, just imagine how painful a careless touch can be. Keep it light until your woman asks for more. Also, do not… bite the clit. A small and playful nibble while you suck and lick might be okay, but do not bite our love bud. Do you like teeth used on your dick? I don’t think so. And while on the subject of sexual touches, please be very gentle with manual stimulation of her pussy and anus. One more no-no with a woman is that after you place your naughty finger into her anus, you cannot place that same finger into the pussy – it may lead to infection.

Women are more than a lovely pair of breasts and a pussy

Guys, another no-no thing for you to do during sex is ignoring the other parts of your woman’s body. Many men seem to focus their attention more on the pussy and the breasts (which certainly shouldn’t be ignored), but the whole woman’s body deserves your attention! We have many more erogenous zones that are no less sensitive and responsive to fondling. The neck, the back, inner thighs, the stomach are very sensitive spots many women may like to be touched and kissed. Don’t make the mistake of making her breasts and pussy the only stop on your way to her pleasure. And speaking of women’s breasts… Of course, every woman has different likes and dislikes when it comes to breast and nipple play. Many women enjoy having their nipples pinched, squeezed and sucked very hard. But don’t overdo it. Stop chewing, biting, twiddling, and squeezing TOO hard. I believe most women (who aren’t into a rough breast play) will agree that at the heat of passion you sometimes squeeze our breasts too hard. How would you feel if she squeezed your balls that hard? As well as the clitoris, our breasts and nipples should be handled with care.

So there you have them – the top things men are doing wrong in bed with a woman. As I have said before, these things are far from being a complete list and there is more to come on this topic. But one nice thing that I have learned from my personal experience and the conversations with other women is that no man is the perfect lover; no woman either.

No one is perfect, and only those who never do anything, never make mistakes! The idea is that you should try (at least) to avoid doing those things that can be a real turn off for a woman.

Remember, a sexually satisfied woman is a happy woman. A satisfied and happy woman is going to be more interested in making her man satisfied and happy too! Well, dear men, the rewards are definitely worth the efforts ;)

Until next time, sweethearts! Enjoy yourselves, improve your bedroom manners and stay safe!

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