Woman About Sex

I hope all of you know that I love hearing from you and I deeply appreciate all your insights, posts, e-mails, comments, opinions, suggestions, and of course, your questions. Occasionally, I receive questions and e-mails from my dear readers that bring up good topics that can be addressed for everyone. A reader question, recently posted under this post, gave me the idea for today. I thought it was such an interesting question that it deserved its own post. But first, I want to thank the dear reader named Sandra for being the follower of my blog, for sharing and submitting your question. And I really hope you’ll find the following answers informative and helping in some way.

So, today we are going to talk about a very delicious and erotic subject: woman’s pussy and the way it looks. As you understand, I am especially interested in this topic because I am a woman and I have a pussy (lol).

Well, the question for all you men out there:

I have a question for all men who enjoy pleasing a woman. Let me expand a little so you know what I’m talking about. I’ve been seeing this man who, no matter what I say or do, won’t go down on me. In 2 months, he’s only gone down 2X and for only about 1 minute. All he wants is to penetrate. Finally, I told him to be honest with me and tell me why he doesn’t want to please me. He said that there are 3 types of pussies: 1-the one he just wants to eat all the time, 2-the one he will never eat, and 3-the one where it doesn’t matter whether he eats or not. He told me mine was #3 and that it was average in appearance. He said some woman have a pussy that is higher and open. Mine is low and inverted (according to him). He said mine smells very good, just like the ones he likes to eat. The funny thing is that he has a small penis and he knows it. But I enjoy going down on him and found the position that will give us both the best sensation. My principal sexual organ is the mind, not the body.

Question: Do men normally categorize a woman’s pussy?

- Sandra

Firstly, I know that I’m not the only woman who says this, still, let me tell you that I have a lot of respect for all you men who enjoy pleasing a woman orally.

Yes, cunnilingus is something many women love to receive from men. In fact, if cunnilingus is performed correctly, it is enjoyable for us both physically and emotionally. On the physical side, through oral stimulation we can have highly satisfying and intense orgasms. On the emotional side, it makes us feel desirable, loved, pampered, respected. By the way, guys, do you know that only 25% of women regularly achieve orgasm from vaginal penetration, and 81% reach orgasm from cunnilingus? Think about it.

Now, to answer the above question: yes, there are men who do “categorize” a woman’s pussy in some way or another. It’s because, like women, all men are different and they have different sexual preferences about a woman’s body and her privates. Some guys are picky, some guys don’t notice any difference and pay more attention to the way pussy feels and smells rather than on its appearance. After all, let’s be honest and admit that there are women who care about the size, the smell and look of the penis. Again, it’s completely normal, because we are all different.

What is really important is to find the “right” person for you who will love and accept you as you are. Any man that loves a woman would never judge her by the appearance of her pussy and make her feel uncomfortable because of it. Apparently, every woman’s vagina looks different, special and unique. Pussies come in all different colors, shapes and sizes, just as every man’s penis. But every vagina is beautiful in its own way and has its own passionate lovers. Above all this, dear women, remember that your body is yours alone. Feel comfortable about yourself, be proud of what you have, and expect others to value your body too, but not categorize or classify it.

My male friends and I have had many talks on the subject. Yes, guys admit that there are some better looking than others, but they say that the main criteria is cleanliness and general maintenance. Most of men say that it’s not how it looks like but how it feels like. They also say they don’t want all women to look the same “down there”.

That’s why I think that the problem is not that your boyfriend categorizes a woman’s pussy and finds your pussy “the one where it doesn’t matter whether he eats or not” and “average in appearance”. You see, my guess is that there is a much deeper problem going on. Since you’re the one who is aware of the problem then, being a huge supporter of communication between lovers, I would recommend you to talk to him about your sexual concerns and your sexual relationship. If you’re still thinking about the subject and feel unsatisfied, it seems like it’d be worth another conversation about what you each want and need from your intimacy. You need to identify the source of the problem. I guess, this is the best way to improve your sexual connection and find out why he is not willing to please you orally.

One more idea I want to focus on is that I agree that the mind is a powerful sexual organ. Our sexual behavior is linked to our emotions. Our minds have the power and capability of generating strong physical reactions within our bodies. That’s why we all should be sexually intelligent and thoughtful enough to not say inconsiderate, mindless and insensitive things to each other, especially about each other’s physical characteristics and intimate parts. Dear men, believe it or not, most women, even if they do not consciously agree, are far too obsessed with the way they look down there. And even if your lady is the world’s most beautiful woman, she is going to worry about how you like her body and her intimate parts. Just like you worry about the size of your penis; we worry about the smell factor and the way we look “there”. So, men, think twice before saying something to your lady about her body. Appreciate your woman’s unique qualities, ma
ke her “feel like a woman” and tell her what makes her feel special.

Well, dear men, go out there and start pleasuring your woman’s blossoming flower, learn how to kiss her pussy petals and compliment her body!

But first, can you please take a few seconds to leave your comments? Keep in mind that we want honest, serious, mature answers.

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