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It seems like the term “Tantric sex” has become popular lately, but what is it? How it can enrich your sex life? Why there has been a growing interest in Tantric sex today? Few people really know.

Personally, I’m especially interested in this topic because I often get asked about Tantric sex and Tantric sexuality. So, if you want to make your love life better and become a better lover for your sweetheart and you have no idea what Tantric sex is all about – this article is for you. Let’s learn basics about Tantric sex, get the essence of Tantric sexuality, the benefits and other great things and understandings about this sexual practice. Well, Tantric sex – what it is all about?

The essence of Tantric sexuality

Tantra is a spiritual, sexual practice originated in India over 4000 years ago, and it can be translated as “tools for expansion”. Tantra is achieving a deep understanding of all of life’s experiences, and of course, sex and sexual energy.

In Tantra, sexual pleasure is the totality of all: your mind, your body and your spirit. In other words, Tantric sexuality is increasing sexual fulfillment at the physical level, emotional level, and the spiritual level. The essence of Tantric sexuality is that sex can be much more than a merely physical experience. Thus, Tantric sex is a very intimate act involving deliciously long lovemaking sessions.

The idea of Tantric sex is to allow lovers to explore their sexual energy, deepen their sexual connection, get greater understanding of their bodies, prolong the act of love-making, expand their orgasmic response, and more. Tantric sex techniques and practices allow to enrich the whole sexual experience and expand your orgasms from genital orgasms to the entire-body orgasms. It is more about being together and learning about how each others bodies react to different touches and things we do. With Tantric sex exercises you will be able to control your body so you can delay orgasm and increase the strength of it.

To achieve the best Tantric experience, try not to focus on getting the orgasm, focus on other sensations happening in your bodies along the way, and thus, you will be able to get the a thousand times more intense orgasm: the whole-body orgasm! Most of the exercises related to Tantric sex involve slowing things down, trying not to focus on our external body, or orgasm, or anything outside of our experience of the moment. It is important to allow your arousal to build up slowly, maintain eye-contact and breathe in unison… deeply, rhythmically and slowly. Below, these are just a few of the many incredible benefits Tantric sex has to offer.

Some of the sexual benefits of Tantric sex

Creating a harmonious union of the male and female energies that are within each of us
Greater understanding of the deeper states of orgasm
Expanding orgasmic response
Multiple orgasms
Exploring our sexual energy always flowing through us
Deepening sexual connection
Prolonging the act of love-making
Balancing and rejuvenating overall health and state of mind, soul and body
Strengthening the heart and other organs
Through pleasure, intimacy, love and joy, providing an enhanced overall well-being

Some of basic ideas of Tantric sex

Sexuality viewed as a tool for personal evolution, advancement, enlightenment
Do not rush for a genital orgasm, simply release the need to reach any particular goal during your lovemaking
Let yourself become more relaxed and think about the present moment only
Sex can be much more than physical experience, it can be mental and spiritual
Tantric sex is expanding your orgasms from local genital experiences to the full-body orgasms
Some of the main keys to a more fulfilling experience are maintaining eye-contact, skin contact/massage and breath control
Breathe deeply, rhythmically and slowly; try breathing in unison
The more slowly you allow your arousal to build up, the stronger your orgasmic sensation will be
Tantric sex involves mutual devotion and trust

Who is Tantric Sex good for?

Today both men and women seem more interested in new forms of intimacy. So, Tantric sex is all about intimacy. Tantric sex is great for anyone who wants to explore a new path to sexual satisfaction.

Tantric sex is for you if:

You want to get more intimate with your lover
You’re looking for something new and fun to do in bed
You believe that sex and love go together
You want to explore your sexual self
You want to get more powerful, explosive orgasms and achieve heightened sexuality
You want to intensify your pleasure and improve the quality of your sex life
You want to last longer in bed and control your ejaculation
You believe that sex/lovemaking is a “spirit-mind-body” experience
You have lost your desire for sex and want some sexual awakening
You are ready for your best sex ever

If you want to give it a try

If you want to give Tantric sex a try and incorporate ideas of Tantra into your sex life, firstly, you can start with getting more information about Tantric sexuality. Of course, learning about Tantric sexuality is very personal and different for each couple and individual. To start and find out whether Tantric sex would work for you, it’s important to gain an understanding of the fundamental principles of Tantric sexuality. If you wish to learn in the privacy of your own home, there are a great number of excellent books and guides written by Tantric experts and practitioners. For you guys who learn better from seeing things than reading about them, there are instructional videos that demonstrate you Tantric techniques, positions and exercises. And, needless to say that you can benefit greatly from consultations, coaching, workshops.

Of course, Tantric sexuality is far deeper and more complex and there’s much more about it than what’s outlined here by me. And even if you’re not about to become a devoted Tantra practitioner, do yourself a favor and learn more about Tantric practice. Incorporate ideas of Tantra into your love life for pleasure and joy. I know that this is easier said than done, but learning some basics about Tantra can be very helpful and pleasurable.

So, can you resist the attraction of Tantric sex, huh? Already a Tantric sex practitioner? Then share your experience and tips with me!

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Give Tantric Sex a Go With:

Urban Tantra – practicing tan
tra in the twenty-first century, for people of all genders and orientations
Tantric sex positions – the book will help you understand the practical side of exciting Tantric lovemaking sessions
The Tantric Guide To Better Sex – In this video, Tantric experts guide you through the tantric methods that prolong lovemaking and intensify your orgasm. Attractive couples demonstrate how to channel sexual energy to create full-body orgasms!

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It’s not a secret that scent is one of the most powerful human senses. Generally speaking, my point today is how important our body natural smells and odors are. So, we’re going to discuss a very delicious and erotic subject… natural body scents. Let’s take a look at how and why human body scents influence sexual attraction.

Personally, if a man smells nice to me – I’m his for ever. I love the smell of my lover and me together after we make love. I love the scent of his juice and sweat.

Do you know that a woman’s sense of smell is much stronger than a man’s? We women are led by our sense of smell when it comes to sexual attraction. Most of us are most sensitive to smell just before ovulation. One more fact is that many women love sniffing sweat-soaked t-shirts of their men. Due to pheromone chemicals, the odour of male natural sweat can be highly attractive to us. In other words, the scent of man’s sweat is an aphrodisiac to many women. A recent study revealed that male sweat actually contains a compound called “androstenone” that sexually arouses women and gives a boost to our moods and sexual arousal.

Now what about men and their sense of smell? Many men prefer a natural scent of a woman. Believe it or not, most guys are panty sniffers. Even if they won’t admit to it, they enjoy sniffing panties worn by his favorite lady throughout a normal day or during sexual foreplay or other sexual activity. The smellier the woman’s panties – the better. The reason is that when a lady becomes aroused and sweaty, her panties absorb all her hot secretions and hidden smells. Yes, it’s so animal, you may say, but still it’s so highly intimate, sensual and an incredible turn on for lovers.

Indeed, just think about it: how much of our sexual appeal we are masking in perfumes, hair gels, deodorants and any other scented products. Of course, it is great and pleasant to keep yourself clean but it is important to not overdo the perfume or deodorant, because our fresh natural odours and intimate scents are powerful enough in sexual arousal and attraction.

In fact, one of the most striking features of our sense of smell is its connection to brain. In our brain there is a “smell center” that can register a smell without us consciously realizing that we have picked up a scent. The human body produces a wide range of odours, from head to toe. And I’ve heard that if you love the natural smell of your lover’s armpits, feet, ass, worn socks and lingerie – it means you’ve found the right person, your ideal mate.

So, why body odours may be so powerful and so attractive? I’m sure you’ve heard about Pheromones. These are specific chemicals, odorless substances, our body releases that can be sexually exciting to your partner. Pheromones are not consciously recognised by our brain but they do affect the be¬haviour and sexual responses of others. A substance called androstenone (mentioned earlier) occurs in male sweat and urine and has an attractant effect on women. In women, the vaginal pheromones or copulins have such effect on men. These are produced in increased amounts around the time of ovulation!

One more interesting fact about natural body scents is that our scent changes with our emotional state and when we are aroused and wanting, we can detect many amazing smells produced by our own body and our lover’s body. Be receptive and try to detect and explore with your nose a scent of arousal, the scent of orgasm, the vaginal scent, the salty and sweet scent of sperm.

As I’ve mentioned before, there are particular body scents that can strongly awaken the sexual arousal. That’s why many people have fetishes about body odours. I’ve found out that sexual arousal from smells and odors emanating from the body, especially the sexual areas, is called Olfactophilia or Osmolagnia. Olfactophilia (Latin: olfacto = to smell, pertaining to the sense of smell, and philia = love); osmolagnia (Greek: osme = smell, and lagneia = lust). The fragrance of a pussy or penis is something like an aromatheraphy for many people. For foot fetishists the smell of feet produces a sexually exciting effect. Some people like cum stained panties or pee stained panties. Hair fetishists become aroused by the scent of body hair such as head hair, pubic or armpit hair. And now…

Let me offer you a very sensual idea guys. Today, I want you to have an enjoyable and highly sensual experience with your sweetheart: sniffing play which leads to building closeness between lovers. I hope you will find the game very erotic and fun, my sexy sniffers. Before you play, create a romantic setting. If you have erotic movies or soft, mood music you may have the sound playing in the background. Tip: please do not eat garlic on the day of and the days before your sniffing play ;)) Well, start kissing and sniffing. There is something very special about being so close and sniffing each toher. Sniff your lover’s skin, hair, scalp. Feel the smell of her/his underarms, and note how it changes when your sweetheart becomes aroused. Inhale all the way up your lover’s naked spine. Sniff the pubic area of your sexual partner like it is an exotic flower. Detect your lover’s unique body scent and see how your own body responds to his/her natural scents. Play, enjoy and sniff to orgasm!!!

I will be back soon with new tips and sexy info! Sniff until orgasm and remember: I love hearing from you!

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For your sniffing play you may choose amazing non-scented sex toys, lubricants, oils and lotions, pheromone lotions and more fun products! Don’t hesitate to experiment and enjoy your lover’s body natural scents!


February 14th is fast approaching, and you know what that means? Yeaaaaaah, it means a sex-filled holiday!

Valentine’s Day is all about lovemaking, intimacy, love-gifts, the scent of roses and love in the air, exciting mood and lots of pleasure!! This is an ideal time to have fun and spice things up! Take advantage of this holiday and make love like never before! Be adventurous and horny like never before! So, what is my recommendation, you ask? As always, I want to inspire you, and now you’re about to enjoy true sex stories from men and women! The sex stories below are meant to stimulate, evoke, stir and excite your naughty imagination! I want you to read others sexual adventures to get fresh ideas for more sex and very very hot action this V-day! Well, here’s how to do it:

Give Him a Hand
Man’s Story

My sexy wife whom I am very fortunate to have loves to give me handjobs. She loves to see the look of pure delight on my face, apparently, and I of course do not mind at all. Her blowjobs, also, are heavenly. My favorite time when these two mixed was when we had just come in from swimming at the pool in our apartment complex. We were both cold from the water and the cool air, but we were both horny as hell (we had been seriously messing around in the pool), and we needed it bad. She took off both of our clothes, and her breasts were firm and perky from the cold, which turned me on even more. She sat down on the couch and stood me in front of her and took my member in her mouth. Oh god! My dick was so cold, and yet her mouth was so very warm, it was hot. I felt as though my third leg was being pulled through wet, warm silk. She sucked me until I almost came, then she laid down on her back on the floor, pulled me on top of her on my hands and knees, soaked her hands with baby oil, and gave me the best handjob she had ever done. I came all over her chest and her face. I took me a while to wind down from that one, and I will remember it until the day I die.

Wedding Party
Woman’s Story

I went to a wedding in March at a swanky hotel in Philadelphia. I wore a form-fitting low cut sexy black dress and looked really hot. My date was the brother of the bride and I was meeting the family for the first time. It was only our third date. I wanted to make a good impression on his family and I think I went a little over board particularly with his brother who seemed to take a special interest in me.

Near the end of the reception when we were all feeling no pain his brother and I were out on the floor dancing. They were playing all the old stuff and we ended up doing the twist to Chubby Checker. For whatever reason it got me hot looking at him grinding his hips around and it ended up more like dirty dancing between the two of us as we were making contact pelvis to pelvis. We knew what we were doing but tried to make it look like innocent contact.

When the song was over they followed it up with Unchained Melody and he asked me to stay on the floor so we hung on each other through the song and then went to our table. My date was up at the bar talking to friends and there were only the two of us at the table but there were tables all around us. I took off my heels and put my foot on his chair under the table between his legs. We talked about everything except what I was doing.

Another couple came back to the table and joined our conversation but I didn’t stop rubbing my foot between his legs. He just kind of leaned back and slouched down in his chair while trying to act like he was interested in the chit chat but I could feel him growing down there. I got my foot in a good position against his hard cock and kept moving it back and forth pushing his dick against his thigh. It didn’t take long for him to cum and I could feel the dampness right through his tux.

My date came back to the table and announced it was time for us to go. We said our good byes to all. His brother never got out of his chair at our leaving. He just took my hand and said how very nice it was to have met me. It just felt so delicious and sneaky to have pulled off such a slutty little act. When we got back to our hotel I was so wet thinking about the foot message I gave his brother I told my date that I was just dying for a little personal attention. He kissed me right away and ran his hand up my leg and cupped my mound. “My God you are soaking wet down there”, he said. “What got you so horny already”. I never said a word as I unzipped him and inhaled his dick, after all, it’s not proper to talk with a mouth full now is it?

The Love of a Good Woman
Woman’s Story

I love my husbands cock. I worship it, I adore it, I am totally addicted to it! I love the way it looks, the way it feels and the way it tastes. He has the most perfect cock of any man I’ve ever seen. I am obsessed with it. I’m constantly thinking about it, fantasizing and dreaming about it. I love sucking my husband. There is no better feeling in the world than the feel of his cock, hard and throbbing, deep in my mouth. I want to suck him morning, noon, and night.

I love to be awakened in the morning by my husband gliding his cock over my lips, pressing against them, urging my lips to part so that he can slide it inside mouth. I especially love it when he strokes his own cock as I suck on the head of it, he pumps away, stroking and pumping. I love the way his fingers feel bumping against my lips as he jerks himself off. His balls will be slapping against my chin, and he will be talking to me…saying things like…”yeah, suck it baby, suck it good” The way it feels as he nears his orgasm, the swelling of his shaft…he pumps it harder and harder, his fingers slamming against my lips. Then he will cry out…”ooooo I’m cumming now baby, I’m going to feed you, suck baby suck!”

Oh God, the feeling of his cock as it pumps his hot cum into my mouth is the most heavenly feeling I know. His hand is moving so fast, pumping more and more cum, filling my mouth as I suck as hard as I can. Sometimes, I won’t swallow, but will hold my mouth open as he jerks off into my mouth. He loves watching his own cum fill up my mouth. I will hold it in my mouth, savoring the feel and taste, only swallowing when he tells me too. Then, I love to close my eyes and let it just trickle slowly down my throat, swallowing little bits at a time. After I’ve swallowed it all, I love the after taste and sensation in my mouth. That after taste makes me hungry for more…and I want to suck him again and again.

Some days, I might suck my husband off 4-6 times, but at the very least, he feeds me his cum once a day. Its a part of our lives now, one that I simply couldn’t live without. Someday, I think I might like to try having him jerk off into my mouth as maybe another man, or maybe a couple of other men watched. I think that would be very erotic to suck my husband as others watched. One of my favorite fantasies is that my husband is playing cards at a table with some other men. I serve them drinks and snacks as they play. I’m topless and the men can see how my husband has trained my nipples with dc current over time to stay erect. When I’m not serving the men drinks and such, I’m under the table, with my husbands cock in my mouth, sucking him. This really messes up his game sometimes but then it also messes up the other men’s game, as they are constantly pee
king under the table to watch my husband get his cock sucked. Sometimes my husband will let the men watch as he sprays his cum all over my face and chest. Then I will slowly and dreamily rub his seed all over me as the guys watch. Thinking of this fantasy really turns me on! I love his cock and there is nothing more delicious to me than the taste of his cum in my mouth. I love being his cock hungry cum eating wife.

Valentine’s Surprise
Man’s Story

It was Valentine’s Day, and I had to get something for my girlfriend. We’ve been together for 6 months and never really did anything apart from feel over each other’s clothes and stuff. So, it’s Valentine’s Day and I decided to buy my girlfriend a dozen roses, chocolates, a card.. .you know, the usual thing.

I came across this card in the news agency, a humorous one, that I thought she might’ve liked. On the front it said “We can walk, on the sand, hand in hand…” and then when you opened it up it said on the inside “Or we could just get drunk and have sex, which doesn’t rhyme but is just as good.” Made me laugh, and when she opened and read it, it made her laugh too. Also made her real horny.

So we were sitting on the couch, and she told me that I picked out the best card because that’s what she had in mind for us anyway, and after hearing that I felt my heart pumping faster, the blood rushing down to my pants. She straddled me violently, like she had wanted to fuck for ages, and by this point I was already hard. She undid my shirt while kissing me eagerly everywhere, then, she bit my nipple, hard. NO girl had ever done it to me before and I LOVED IT!!

Anyway, she was moving down my body fast, eager to find my rock hard cock waiting for her. Her hand finally reached my pants, unzipped and pulled them down quick, then she grabbed my throbbing manhood and slid it down her throat. I swear it was the best head I ever had in my life! She got it all down her throat, along with my balls!

I was calling her dirty little names, which she seemed to love. Then I wanted to eat her out, so I got up and told her to sit on the end of the bed, then I lifted up her sexy little mini skirt and pushed her panties down and ate her pussy out like the hungriest guy on the planet! She tasted so damn good too.

Well, before I could fuck her, her mum came in and yelled at me and kicked me outta the house. No doubt I still love her, but her mum doesn’t even let me talk with her on the weekends. We still love having phone sex at 12 a.m. on the weekends. We’re planning how to get together again, so until then, that’s the end of my story….

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So, how does that make you feel? Are these sex stories making you horny? I hope so.

Take advantage of the holiday for having great sex! Enjoy!!!

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Be adventurous and naughty this holiday and celebrate it with Sex Toys

Hey-hey everybody!

The Love season is here, and Valentine’s Day is going to arrive before you know it. So, what you are going to do to celebrate it? Any creative ideas? Don’t worry though, you still have time to create a perfect Valentines Day for your sweetie. As always, I just want to inspire you.

Valentine’s Day is, of course, the day of romance, love expressions, elegant gifts and… flowers. Flowers are some of the most popular Valentine’s Day symbols through which the lovers are able to convey their feelings. For many women and men (yes, you heard me correctly), it is always a joy to receive flowers. And when it comes to Valentine’s day, RED ROSES are often the gift of choice, because a red rose is a traditional symbol of love.

And today, on the occasion of this special holiday, let me share with you 25 creative ideas and ways of using roses and rose petals (or other flowers) to set up your memorable and romantic evening. Both men and women can choose from the list below. Yep, times are changing and nowadays men enjoy flowers as much as women, especially, if those flowers are given in the most creative and erotic way. Read on and enjoy!

Hot Things That You Can Do With Roses (or other flowers) For That Special Man Or Woman In Your Life

* You can put a few rose petals in each champagne glass, and use the rose petals to decorate cakes and love-desserts

* You can place rose petals in your panties just before getting intimate

* Or you may simply cover the sexiest parts of your body with rose petals (for women: put them on your nipples, navel, pussy)

* You may put rose petals in briefcases, purses, or even in a book your sweetie is reading

* You can use rose petals in the bath, or in a bowl of water

* What about writing a love-message on rose petals? Your can present your sweetie with a beautiful bouquet of roses and in the bouquet put one rose saying “I love you”

* You can make a trail of roses or rose petals leading to the bedroom door or to the dinning room for a romantic dinner

* Write out a message or a symbol with rose petals

* You may also try building up the mood with surrounding your lover with flower petals while he or she is sleeping

* Another romantic idea is to put rose petals inside the balloons and decorate the bedroom with those cute balloons!

* You may place rose petals in a gift box!

* Take a heart-shaped balloon, slightly wet the inside of the balloon, put petals inside and the petals will stick to the sides – it looks romantic and unbelievably beautiful!

* Scatter rose petals on all over bed

* Your loved one will be pleasantly surprised to find rose petals strewn throughout the car!

* When you pick up your partner have a single rose waiting on the passenger seat for him/her. He/she will be pleasantly surprised but the real surprise is yet to come… Have two dozen roses waiting at home.

* Write a love letter to your partner and put it into an attractive glass bottle. Fill the tub and scent it with your favorite aromatic bath oil(s). Scatter in a few rose petals and put the bottle in the tub. Let your partner discover it for themselves when they get into the tub.

* Buy a bunch of different colored artificial roses. On each rose write what each color represents. These roses will last forever and your partner when they look at them will always be pleasantly reminded of the first time they receive them.

* Present your partner with 10 red roses and 2 white roses. Write in the card something along the lines of “You will never be alone”

* Two weeks before valentine’s day, send your partner a rose for every day leading up to the big day

* Run a warm bath for your love, complete with romantic music and candles. Finish this glorious setting by sprinkling beautiful rose petals in the bathtub. They will be gently floating on top when your sweetie steps in to luxuriate.

* A short while before you know that your sweetheart will climb into bed, take a few handfuls of silky petals, pull back the sheets and toss them lavishly into the bed. Put the covers back, making the bed up to look as usual. What a sweet surprise when your darling pulls the covers back to slide into bed!

* Put a dozen rose petals on the pull shade in your sweetheart’s car. When they pull the shade down to protect themselves from the sun or pull out an item kept there, they will be showered with the soft, silky petals.

* The next time you give your sweetheart a massage, add rose petals for a luxurious, aromatic ambiance. Depending on the surface, you can place bunches of petals in shallow bowls or baskets around the massage area, or simply spread them all over the surface.


Love messages ideas:

You can fall from the sky
You can fall from a tree.
But the best way to fall
Is in love with me!

There are only two times that I want to be with you… Now and Forever!

The shortest word for me is “I
The sweetest word for me is “Love
The only word for me is “You!”

Loved you yesterday, love you still, always have, always will!

One day you will ask me which is more important? my life or yours? I will say mine and you will walk away not knowing that YOU are my life.

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I can smell love in the air, and I hope that Valentine’s Day will bring you lots of fun, no matte
r which ideas you decide to use! Even if you are not a die hard romantic, try to get romantic at least on St. Valentine’s Day, and your sweetie will definitely appreciate your efforts. And always remember that getting flowers is always a thrill, and nothing beats a “just because” bouquet of flowers… ;)

Guys, if you have other ideas, send me an email and I will post them!

Happy Valentine’s day to you and your sweetheart!

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