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Women’s All-Time Turn-Ons About A Man – Top 10!

Posted by Nellioness on Jan-15-2009

I get many emails and come across men wanting information and some pointers about what actually turns a woman on about a man and what behaviors can a man do to seduce a woman’s attention, melt her heart and then find his way “into her panties” (*naughty wink*). So, today, we’re going to read about an issue that’s especially interesting to men: top women’s turn ons about men’s physical appearance, inner qualities and sexual self.

When I asked my female friends on the subject, I realized that all of them share the following turn-ons. What do we women want from you, men? Of course, there is no one set answer because all men and women are different, however, regardless of how a woman defines what she finds sexually arousing and attractive in a man, there are some common women’s turn ons that all women would agree to. And, by the way, sex is not high on this list.

Ok guys, you’re just a few seconds away from the life-changing moment! I found an article written by a woman for men to help you figure out what’s going on in a woman’s head and what your own lady wants from you! Although many things listed below are well-known and quite understandable, I encourage you, dear men, to really look over this list of things and probably adjust your behavior accordingly in order to seduce her mind, soul and… panties ;) Read it carefully!

Top Ten Female Turn Ons

By Marisa Pellegrino, dating advice website writer/webmaster .
Article Source: articlesbase.com

When it comes to sexual turn ons, men and women are very different. It is not a myth that women are attracted to a man who is comfortable with his emotions. It is also true that many women are on the hunt for an attractive man who knows how to treat a lady right! The following is a list of the top ten female turn ons gathered from hours spent listening to women tell it like it is.

1. A man who can make you feel like a woman For many women, respect is the number one thing that they look for in a man. Not only is it a prerequisite, it is also a big turn on! A man who respects a woman and appreciates her for who she is has the power to make her weak in the knees.

2. A man who is not afraid to take charge Women like strength and not just physical strength. Women like to think that their man can take charge of any situation. Giving a woman a feeling of protection is endearing as well as arousing.

3. A man who can be dominated All relationships involve a power dynamic. A man can be strong with his woman, but must also be able to surrender some of that power. A woman likes to take control sometimes and feels sexy when a man is ready and willing to respond to all her demands.

4. A man with a sensitive side Contrary to popular belief, women are not looking for a man who wants to talk about his emotions constantly. Sensitivity is a good thing but more important is to be emotionally well-balanced. One of the biggest female turn ons is having a man who is not afraid to show his emotions.

5. A man who can hold his own A man who is unable to take care of himself turns women off! Being self-sufficient reassures a woman that she will not have to handle everything in a relationship. Men who are overly dependent are perceived as weak and that is not an attractive quality!

6. A man who is successful Success does not necessarily mean wealth. Women feel comfortable with the fact that a man can support himself and his family. Most women are looking for a man who is ambitious and passionate about life. A successful person appears more confident and confidence is always a turn on.

7. A man in uniform Sorry men, but this is not a myth. Women love a man in uniform! Although firefighters and policemen top the list, most likely any uniform will do!

8. A man with a great body Women are not nearly as fixated on this one as men are, but women are also turned on by a man with a fantastic body. Women have differing ideas about what is physically attractive in a man, but wide shoulders and a cute backside doesn’t hurt!

9. A man with a brain and a sense of humor Although it may be fun to have a fling with the male version of Barbie, women are more turned on by men who are smart and funny. A dim-witted dullard gets boring fast. Women want their fires lit by someone who can tell a good joke and can challenge them intellectually.

10. A man who is good with kids Many men dread this one, so thank goodness it is number 10 on the list. Women are not necessarily picturing you as the father of their children, but it is endearing to see the nurturing side of a man. Men might not want to hear it and women might not like to admit it, but a man holding a baby is beautiful and a turn on!
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So, there you have it. So, what is my recommendation? Guys, please, take a moment to discuss those things with your sweetie. In fact, you may be surprised to find out that inside her mind there are lots of turn-ons she’s never told you about. I believe in you, my dear men readers.
Have a scrumptious day everyone!

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  1. Ricardo Said,

    I have been commended for holding my own on example number one. If the woman is 20 or 80 and beyond, I do this without even knowing it. The only reason I know is based on what I said before, many women have told me and complimented me on it. This is good.

    Never had an issue with number 2 but do have an issue with number 3 which is why many women don’t last with me because it blends too closely with number 5 for me. I come off as too much of a loner for my own good. I need to work on that.

    Number 4 is not hard for me because I studied acting which involved a lot of talking about feelings and stuff so it became much easier for me than most guys. Let’s not forget I do a lot of writing.

    Number 6? nope, not even close but I also don’t make women pick up the slack because my male pride kicks in which means I will go days without eating and sleeping on floors to hide my struggles from her.

    Never was cut out for jobs in uniform but we men have our thing for women in uniform. Watch a porn with the hot nurse or look up military babes on google images. Not as prevalent but there is a male following for women in uniform.

    Number 8, I work out several times a week and lift weights. I’m not like the statue of the david but I think being 6 feet and 200 pounds is OK provided it’s not fat. and according to my last physical I am NOT. Same waist size since college and back then I was only 165 so :-P Lifting weights works! Woo! But I do it for me and not to impress women. It’s personal. But if the woman likes it, I won’t fuss.

    Number 9? Just read my blog and judge for yourself. But I already know the answer and I’m comfortable with it.

    NOT GOOD with 10 but found a way to bypass this by being affectionate with animals which I truly love and will show. Is it as good as the baby holding stuff? No, but it’s better than nothing.

    Really I find the best way to a woman’s panties is through her mind. women are cerebral and energy works its way down and becomes physical. Men are physical first and if they have a brain will have a catharsis of some sort about the woman in question and then get cerebral. This is not etched in stone but it works this way a lot.

    OK I have bored you enough. LOL!

  2. Warrior Said,

    I hate to brag, but I lack only the Uniform!

  3. Nellioness Said,

    RICARDO -

    What a pleasure to read your comment.

    The best comment ever.

    Seriously the best, thoughtful, interesting and veeeery sexy comment.

    I appreciate your sharing and, as always, I love your writing style!

    Aww, thank you very much…

  4. Nellioness Said,

    WARRIOR -

    Haha, *warmest thanks* for stopping by and making me smile :P

    What I know for sure is that you are “Father, Dreamer, Worker, Warrior, Lover”, and do have a brain and a sense of humor :)

    I wish you a very nice day!

  5. Ricardo Said,

    Thank you Nellioness and you are very welcome. It was all honest and coming from the heart and sometimes from the crotch. LOL! Kidding.

  6. Warrior Said,

    Well then whenever you are in the neighbourhood we should hook up and play pool or billards, or even snooker :-)

  7. Rolando Said,

    I’m surprised about number 10, but I can see the attractive it might have.

    I’ve got to work on the uniform one. Hopefully a tie counts. Just a tie. :)

  8. Nellioness Said,

    Ric ~

    LOL, thank you :)
    Beware, I can fall in love with a guy who makes me laugh and smile a lot ;P

    As usual, you are very welcome, too!

  9. Nellioness Said,

    Warrior ~

    Hmm… I’ll think about it ;)))

  10. Nellioness Said,

    Hello, Rolando :)

    Thanks for stopping by and… the tie counts! Personally, I feel like a suit and tie makes a man look very sexy :)

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