Loading ...
Anal Sex: it is As Simple As It Sounds and As Naughty As It Seems
Anal sex is surrounded by a powerful taboo. Anal sex talk still makes some people blush. With all this going on, millions of men and women fearlessly indulge in it. It seems like anal lovemaking is more popular among straight couples than gay or bisexual. Asking why? Because anal sex is often about taking something that is not freely given. Because breaking sexual taboos is fun. Because this anatomical masterpiece, the butt, is one more source of pleasure and admiration…
Numerous cultural norms, fears and widespread misinformation have helped shape wrong attitudes towards this kind of sex. For instance, many believe that most women do it to pleasure their men. Straight men who want to satisfy their women anally are considered to be egoistic, perverse and aggressive. There is also an opinion that a man that loves it with a woman can easily love it with a man. Straight men who want to get some anal fun and fantasize about switching roles are believed to be “somewhat” gay. I have to admit, there is a grain of truth in the aforementioned views but, I think, taking into account the person’s state of mind, actions, words and a total approach is very important.
I do not believe that there are “many women” who really enjoy anal sex and prefer it to vaginal, but those women who practice it recognize that it is an intensely pleasureable and intimate act beyond belief. I also understand that many people think butt-sex is embarrassing, unhygienic and not for them. Many say, that particular orifice is not meant for sexual pleasure. Sure, however, under that line of reasoning, we could say that the mouth and male and female genital organs aren’t meant for getting pleasure. Taking into account that the only organ of human body that was created purely for sexual pleasure is the clit (aren’t we are lucky, girls?). I mean, of course, there are different opinions on this subject but the fact remains: anal sex is, and it’s okay to want it, no matter what is your sexual orientation and gender. The anal area is a super sensitive erogenous zone, rich of nerve endings. It is also a part of your body, a part of yourself, a part of your genital neighbors, and there is nothing especially immoral about exploring it for your sexual fun.
As with other form of sex, anal sex is the activity that both people should be comfortable with. If one of the lovers is not in the mood, there’s no way it’s going to work right… If the activity is not approached in the positive, safe and proper way, again it’s not going to work right. For many couples, anal play opens up the allure of unique sensations and makes the partners feel a lot closer to each other. I myself never liked the idea of anal before, but I’ve met a man who made me feel like I want to try everything with him and let him do whatever he wants to me. In other words, both partners have to really want it, not just do it for his or her pleasure.
What exactly to expect? Based on research, for men, this erotic activity is the best way to stimulate his prostate, and it feels like the g-spot stimulation for a woman. For women, anal sex can be very pleasurable because the rectum shares a wall with the vagina, and all the sensitive nerves are closer on that side, which makes the sensation stronger.
Of course, anal sex is sex with its rules. Here are some essential and simple rules to follow for successful and safe experience.
1. You’ve got to want it and trust your partner.
2. It’s vital for both partners to be scrupulously clean.
3. You’ve got to use lots of lubricant and condom protection, and never go on to vaginal intercourse without careful washing first.
4. You’ve got to take it as slowly as possible, as gently as possible.
5. And relax, since relaxation is the key to anal satisfaction.
Sometimes it’s fun to quit being so nice and just engage in something new and naughtier. If practiced properly and with caution, anal sex turns out as simple as it sounds and as deliciously naughty as it seems!
Just my humble opinion. I’d love to hear your experiences and thoughts on this relatively taboo topic.
Wish you to have a marvelous week ahead: sensual Tuesday, romantic Wednesday, sexplosive Thursday, sexceptional Friday and deliciously naughty Saturday and Sunday!
_________________________
Books I highly recommend to check out and keep in your nightstand drawer:
If you want more information about anal play, see Jack Morin’s book Anal Pleasure & Health. Trust me, it’s worth every penny.
The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women by Tristan Taormino
Sex Toys 101 by Rachel Venning and Claire Cavanah. This is my favourite book about sex toys. Chapter 5 is great for everyone wanting to experiment with anal sex toys!
Sexopedia by Anne Hooper. This encyclopedic book is so impressive! It’s packed with excellent ideas, scenarios, techniques, sensual pictures of real couples, and expert advice.
I’d also suggest you take a look at the finest collection of anal toys in online sex toys store, for anal toys help you learn how to have bum-love. Every toy in this section is specifically designed for the safest and pleasurable anal play. Here you will find high-quality butt plugs, anal beads, anal vibrators, and beginner anal kits. And read anal toys reviews by real people!
Wow Nelli your pictures are always second to none – they make me hot just looking at them.
I’m happy to hear you’ve met someone who makes you want to do anything and everything – it’s incredibly special to find someone like that, and exploring something like anal play, particularly if you’re hesitant about it, with them is a very intimate/powerful experience. Thanks for sharing. What a fun read! :)
Good Tuesday morning to you Nelli :)
The pictures with this post are outstanding !
And your 5 rules make all the difference. You picked everything that was important.
And that, done just like that, cleanly, slowly, consensually, with plenty of silicone anal lubricant. and with a woman totally relaxed and trusting of her partner who is taking it VERY gradually to let her get used to him, makes anal sex incredibly pleasurable.
I can come hard that way. Very hard, just with it and nothing else.
But years ago, it helped to have vaginal sex prior to anal (an orgasm that way first) to really help me relax.
Or even to have him use a small toy in my vagina after he entered my bottom, just to keep me relaxed. Somehow the one distracted me from the other and then when you aren’t tensed up, it just feels good.
Lube is essential – on him and on and inside of you !
My dear. You always write wonderfully. Thanks for the post.
anal sex is a wonderfully pleasing and highly charged form of sex. my wife and i implement various vibrators and dildos at times.
the secret is relaxation, lube, lube and more lube.
enjoy!
FB
i’ve done a couple of post regarding anal sex recently…check them out.
Rose ~
Yeah, he’s a wonderful man and we were truly in love, and made each other so happy. But, unfortunately, the relationship is now over, so we will see what the next one brings…
Thanks for the compliments and sharing! Always happy to hear from you! :)
Annie ~
Thank you for your honest reply!
I believe that anal sex is a topic which should be discussed a bit more openly, and I hope the responses will continue.
Wish you many anal orgasms in the future (at least one dozen a day ;)) Have fun and be back for more outstanding pics and posts! ;)
A Corrupt Mind ~
Thank you, Mr. Laconic ;) I’m glad my posts are interesting enough to keep you comin back and comment.
Hellllooo and welcome, Father Bob :)
Always glad to see a new person on my page!.. Just wanted to check out your “anal posts”, but didn’t get the link to your blog. Please let me know it.
Hope to hear from you in the future :)
I’m sending this to Bubba, my prison cellmate.
LUBE, BUBBA..LUUUUUBE.
Jerk.
Sometimes I think he does it on purpose.
Yes, lot’s of people have hang ups about this. I could only do this with a woman I’m very close with and have been with her for a LONG time. Has never been on the top of my list but I guess if the right woman wanted me to do it to her that way, I would take the plunge. But only with the right woman.
Moooog ~
Well, I had a good laugh :P
Could there be any better way to take a break from life than having a good laugh?..
Say hello to Bubba, hahah….
Yep, Ricardo. Totally agree with you. If done by two loving and close to each other people, anal sex can be very erotic and beautiful act. Thanks for sharing!
I love how your posts are informative and yet so erotic. Great photos and perspective. Love reading your blog!
Just found your wonderful blog via Fruits of Libido and I loved this post, particularly this bit:
“I myself never liked the idea of anal before, but I’ve met a man who made me feel like I want to try everything with him and let him do whatever he wants to me.”
Exactly where I am right now. :)
Helllllo, Steamy :)
Many thanks for your lovely complements. So happy to hear from you. I love that sexually provocative flavour of your writing. The way you write is breathtaking and so erotic. I highly recommend your site to my friends and readers.
Welcome, Araliya :)
I’m happy you’re impressed with what you see on my blog – thanks for sharing! Hope to see you back one day ;)
I think couples should be willing to try anything they might enjoy and not worry about stigmas…The act is the sex, but the sex is the intimacy we all yearn for, no matter how we do it.
Hi, Marty :)
Thanks for sharing. Always glad to meet new open-minded people. Welcome and hope to see you around!
Hi Nellie, I’m glad you’re back. I’ve missed your posts. You surely have come back with a vengeance with this very education one on anal sex.
I think there is something very animalistic about anal sex. I don’t have any problem with anal sex with a new partner or one that I am very intimate with. If it happens, it happens.
Call me a man-whore, but if the opportunities arouse, I wouldn’t say no, lol.
[...] mutual masturbation and non-penetrative sex. Sexual fingering, whether it’s clitoral, vaginal or anal, is one of the greatest ways to stimulate your woman to orgasm! When engaging in fingering, please [...]
[...] strong, like Hercules. While in the classic “69”, lovers may finger each other’s pussy or anus for extra [...]
hKk6nB pvyftaxlgtzj, [url=http://lhhesvrxabsa.com/]lhhesvrxabsa[/url], [link=http://dhchgpscgdwz.com/]dhchgpscgdwz[/link], http://ymeedfuittcr.com/
Add A Comment