Anal Sex: it is As Simple As It Sounds and As Naughty As It Seems
Anal sex is surrounded by a powerful taboo. Anal sex talk still makes some people blush. With all this going on, millions of men and women fearlessly indulge in it. It seems like anal lovemaking is more popular among straight couples than gay or bisexual. Asking why? Because anal sex is often about taking something that is not freely given. Because breaking sexual taboos is fun. Because this anatomical masterpiece, the butt, is one more source of pleasure and admiration…
Numerous cultural norms, fears and widespread misinformation have helped shape wrong attitudes towards this kind of sex. For instance, many believe that most women do it to pleasure their men. Straight men who want to satisfy their women anally are considered to be egoistic, perverse and aggressive. There is also an opinion that a man that loves it with a woman can easily love it with a man. Straight men who want to get some anal fun and fantasize about switching roles are believed to be “somewhat” gay. I have to admit, there is a grain of truth in the aforementioned views but, I think, taking into account the person’s state of mind, actions, words and a total approach is very important.
I do not believe that there are “many women” who really enjoy anal sex and prefer it to vaginal, but those women who practice it recognize that it is an intensely pleasureable and intimate act beyond belief. I also understand that many people think butt-sex is embarrassing, unhygienic and not for them. Many say, that particular orifice is not meant for sexual pleasure. Sure, however, under that line of reasoning, we could say that the mouth and male and female genital organs aren’t meant for getting pleasure. Taking into account that the only organ of human body that was created purely for sexual pleasure is the clit (aren’t we are lucky, girls?). I mean, of course, there are different opinions on this subject but the fact remains: anal sex is, and it’s okay to want it, no matter what is your sexual orientation and gender. The anal area is a super sensitive erogenous zone, rich of nerve endings. It is also a part of your body, a part of yourself, a part of your genital neighbors, and there is nothing especially immoral about exploring it for your sexual fun.
As with other form of sex, anal sex is the activity that both people should be comfortable with. If one of the lovers is not in the mood, there’s no way it’s going to work right… If the activity is not approached in the positive, safe and proper way, again it’s not going to work right. For many couples, anal play opens up the allure of unique sensations and makes the partners feel a lot closer to each other. I myself never liked the idea of anal before, but I’ve met a man who made me feel like I want to try everything with him and let him do whatever he wants to me. In other words, both partners have to really want it, not just do it for his or her pleasure.

What exactly to expect? Based on research, for men, this erotic activity is the best way to stimulate his prostate, and it feels like the g-spot stimulation for a woman. For women, anal sex can be very pleasurable because the rectum shares a wall with the vagina, and all the sensitive nerves are closer on that side, which makes the sensation stronger.
Of course, anal sex is sex with its rules. Here are some essential and simple rules to follow for successful and safe experience.
1. You’ve got to want it and trust your partner.
2. It’s vital for both partners to be scrupulously clean.
3. You’ve got to use lots of lubricant and condom protection, and never go on to vaginal intercourse without careful washing first.
4. You’ve got to take it as slowly as possible, as gently as possible.
5. And relax, since relaxation is the key to anal satisfaction.
Sometimes it’s fun to quit being so nice and just engage in something new and naughtier. If practiced properly and with caution, anal sex turns out as simple as it sounds and as deliciously naughty as it seems!

Just my humble opinion. I’d love to hear your experiences and thoughts on this relatively taboo topic.
Wish you to have a marvelous week ahead: sensual Tuesday, romantic Wednesday, sexplosive Thursday, sexceptional Friday and deliciously naughty Saturday and Sunday!
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Books I highly recommend to check out and keep in your nightstand drawer:
If you want more information about anal play, see Jack Morin’s book Anal Pleasure & Health. Trust me, it’s worth every penny.
The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women by Tristan Taormino
Sex Toys 101 by Rachel Venning and Claire Cavanah. This is my favourite book about sex toys. Chapter 5 is great for everyone wanting to experiment with anal sex toys!
Sexopedia by Anne Hooper. This encyclopedic book is so impressive! It’s packed with excellent ideas, scenarios, techniques, sensual pictures of real couples, and expert advice.
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