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Archive for August, 2008

Anal sex is surrounded by a powerful taboo. Anal sex talk still makes some people blush. With all this going on, millions of men and women fearlessly indulge in it. It seems like anal lovemaking is more popular among straight couples than gay or bisexual. Asking why? Because anal sex is often about taking something that is not freely given. Because breaking sexual taboos is fun. Because this anatomical masterpiece, the butt, is one more source of pleasure and admiration…

Numerous cultural norms, fears and widespread misinformation have helped shape wrong attitudes towards this kind of sex. For instance, many believe that most women do it to pleasure their men. Straight men who want to satisfy their women anally are considered to be egoistic, perverse and aggressive. There is also an opinion that a man that loves it with a woman can easily love it with a man. Straight men who want to get some anal fun and fantasize about switching roles are believed to be “somewhat” gay. I have to admit, there is a grain of truth in the aforementioned views but, I think, taking into account the person’s state of mind, actions, words and a total approach is very important.

I do not believe that there are “many women” who really enjoy anal sex and prefer it to vaginal, but those women who practice it recognize that it is an intensely pleasureable and intimate act beyond belief. I also understand that many people think butt-sex is embarrassing, unhygienic and not for them. Many say, that particular orifice is not meant for sexual pleasure. Sure, however, under that line of reasoning, we could say that the mouth and male and female genital organs aren’t meant for getting pleasure. Taking into account that the only organ of human body that was created purely for sexual pleasure is the clit (aren’t we are lucky, girls?). I mean, of course, there are different opinions on this subject but the fact remains: anal sex is, and it’s okay to want it, no matter what is your sexual orientation and gender. The anal area is a super sensitive erogenous zone, rich of nerve endings. It is also a part of your body, a part of yourself, a part of your genital neighbors, and there is nothing especially immoral about exploring it for your sexual fun.

As with other form of sex, anal sex is the activity that both people should be comfortable with. If one of the lovers is not in the mood, there’s no way it’s going to work right… If the activity is not approached in the positive, safe and proper way, again it’s not going to work right. For many couples, anal play opens up the allure of unique sensations and makes the partners feel a lot closer to each other. I myself never liked the idea of anal before, but I’ve met a man who made me feel like I want to try everything with him and let him do whatever he wants to me. In other words, both partners have to really want it, not just do it for his or her pleasure.

What exactly to expect? Based on research, for men, this erotic activity is the best way to stimulate his prostate, and it feels like the g-spot stimulation for a woman. For women, anal sex can be very pleasurable because the rectum shares a wall with the vagina, and all the sensitive nerves are closer on that side, which makes the sensation stronger.

Of course, anal sex is sex with its rules. Here are some essential and simple rules to follow for successful and safe experience.

1. You’ve got to want it and trust your partner.
2. It’s vital for both partners to be scrupulously clean.
3. You’ve got to use lots of lubricant and condom protection, and never go on to vaginal intercourse without careful washing first.
4. You’ve got to take it as slowly as possible, as gently as possible.
5. And relax, since relaxation is the key to anal satisfaction.

Sometimes it’s fun to quit being so nice and just engage in something new and naughtier. If practiced properly and with caution, anal sex turns out as simple as it sounds and as deliciously naughty as it seems!


Just my humble opinion. I’d love to hear your experiences and thoughts on this relatively taboo topic.

Wish you to have a marvelous week ahead: sensual Tuesday, romantic Wednesday, sexplosive Thursday, sexceptional Friday and deliciously naughty Saturday and Sunday!

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Books I highly recommend to check out and keep in your nightstand drawer:
If you want more information about anal play, see Jack Morin’s book Anal Pleasure & Health. Trust me, it’s worth every penny.
The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women by Tristan Taormino
Sex Toys 101 by Rachel Venning and Claire Cavanah. This is my favourite book about sex toys. Chapter 5 is great for everyone wanting to experiment with anal sex toys!
Sexopedia by Anne Hooper. This encyclopedic book is so impressive! It’s packed with excellent ideas, scenarios, techniques, sensual pictures of real couples, and expert advice.

I’d also suggest you take a look at the finest collection of anal toys in online sex toys store, for anal toys help you learn how to have bum-love. Every toy in this section is specifically designed for the safest and pleasurable anal play. Here you will find high-quality butt plugs, anal beads, anal vibrators, and beginner anal kits. And read anal toys reviews by real people!

Little Known and Fun Sex Facts About Women

Posted by Nellioness on Aug-18-2008

The weekend flew by and Monday came around so quickly, as usual. I guess, most of you consider Monday the worst day of the week and if you are feeling a bit glum, I am here to cheer you up and give you some food for thought. Let’s brighten up our Monday and boost our sex energy for the sex-filled week ahead! Today we are going to enjoy some little-known and entertaining sex facts about women that I found at a variety of credible public sources and sexuality websites. Most of these sex facts amused me and I just want to amuse you and give you the “ammunition” for a fun party conversation or sex talk with your lover! Make sure to share this information with your blog readers too, and I hope you will surprise them.

The Nature’s Best “Invention”

Average depth of a vagina: between 3 to 6 inches
Largest vagina belonged to a woman who was 7′8″ tall
Smallest vagina 2 or 3 centimeters
Just wow: the vagina is a self-cleaning organ

The clit contains 8,000 nerve fibres and it is the only organ in the human species designed purely for sexual pleasure!

Female Breasts: Every One Is Unique

Largest breasts: 44-pounds breasts measuring 33 inches in circumference

It’s perfectly normal for a woman’s breasts to differ in size and shape (the left is usually larger)

About one per cent of women can orgasm solely through breast stimulation

When a woman is aroused, her breasts can increase by up to 25%

Big nipples are often hypersensitive because they have more nerve endings than small nipples

The areola (the dark-colored circle that surrounds the nipple) is more sensitive than the nipple itself

One Orgasm A Day Keeps Doctor Away

Women were discouraged from having orgasms during the Middle Ages because it was thought that orgasms made women less capable of getting pregnant.

Having an orgasm relieves menstrual cramps because the vigorous muscle action moves blood and other fluids away from congested organs.

Some women ejaculate through the urethra during sexual arousal. One to two ounces of clear, odorless fluid is expelled.

A female orgasm is a powerful painkiller (because of the release of endorphins), so headaches are in fact a bad excuse not to have sex.

One More Reason To Own A Sex Toy

In a recent survey of women who use vibrators for sexual relief, 8 out 10 stated they do not insert the vibrator inside them, they use it on the outside of the clitoris to achieve orgasm.

According to a U.S. survey of 2,000 women, those who masturbated with vibrator sex toys were more interested in sex, had an easier time reaching orgasm and experienced less pain during and after sex compared to those who didn’t use one and those who didn’t masturbate at all.

Originally, the Ben Wa balls were a single ball used to increase men’s pleasure during intercourse. Some were solid, others hollow with clappers that made a ringing sound as they rolled around in the vagina. Eventually, they were paired and used by women to increase the strength of their pelvic floor muscles, much like Kegel exercises are used today.

Tell Your Woman She’s Always Sexy And Attractive

Only 9% of women around the globe consider themselves “attractive”. 43% of women use the term “natural”, 24% say they have “average” looks, 8% prefer the term “feminine”, 7% say they are “good looking”, and 7% say they are “cute”, and finally only 2% of women say they are “sexy”.

Who Knew

Sex is a beauty treatment. Scientific tests find that when women make love they produce amounts of the hormone estrogen, which makes hair shine and skin smooth.

Wishing you deliciously naughty sex, always!

Till next time!

Hello my lovely readers! Today we are going to discuss one of my favorite subjects – sex positions. In continuation of my previous post on morning sex, we’ll look at some sex positions that are ideal and very comfortable for a good morning lovemaking.

Personally, I think I would love to have morning sex more often if I didn’t have to do so much work. Since I’m not a morning person at all, I feel too lazy to get on top of him and move, move, move. Wanting it but a way sooooo lazy. If you feel the same, take some time to read the useful article that I found for all of us. The author of the article is an experienced male writer with over a 1,000 articles covering a wide range of subjects on the net. His sexuality articles include the series of articles focused on the best sex positions for all situations and circumstances that can arise. The article presented below gives the absolutely best sex position for those couples who prefer sex with sunrises. So let’s get started!

Best Sex Positions – The Morning Star Position

This is a sexual position that is ideal in the morning when you have just woken up. It’s a gradual sexual position that takes account of the fact that you want a relaxing position and a great start to the day.

Lets look at this sexual position.

Waking

The process of waking should be gradual to be enjoyable. Opening one’s eyes and jumping out of bed causes a great deal of physical and mental stress, which in turn has negative consequences.

Also, waking from sleep and continuing in one’s sexual activities done the night before is often undesirable and practically impossible for some people.

The Morning Star

The morning star or simply the star position is elegant, simple, and effective.

The couple is not face to face, for even too much disturbed from their sleeping position.

The movements are mutual and stimulation to both the clitoris and g-spot are effective and pleasurable for both partners.

How to Assume the Morning Star

The woman will lie on her back, and lean slightly away from the man.
The man lies on his back as well, and leans towards the woman.

He then slides underneath her, with her raising her left leg to accommodate him. The man enters from underneath, and the woman adjusts herself to accept the man’s member deeply.

The thrusting can be mutual, in a see-saw manner, rather coordinated, and the couple neither faces each other, but are side to side, forming a six-pointed star.

The stimulation on the clitoris can be varied from light to intense, and the pleasure delivered to both parties, as an end to an evening or the start of the day, is inestimable.

Variation on the Star Position

While in the star position, it is very easy and quite enjoyable to switch to the two spoons.

The two spoons position can be achieved from the star position, without the man withdrawing.

While in the two spoons, the couple can easily re-assume the star position and this switching technique tends to extend naturally the lovemaking act.

The man can thrust, and then stop. The woman can reverse thrust, and then stop and the couple can move in tandem, thrusting and counter-thrusting.

Coming Down

After the orgasm and climax, the couple can lay in mutual embrace, in the two spoon position. This will evoke a sense of extreme closeness and sensitivity.

Light conversation with expressions of affection will tend also to bring the couple closer together, but on a mental and even spiritual level.

After some minutes in mutual embrace, the couple can either re-sleep, or rise and begin their day.

By: Sacha Tarkovsky
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These sexy-as-hell positions doesn’t take much effort to get into, and I guess that both the positions might sound familiar for most of you. Nevertheless, do you know the orgasmic advantages of these poses ? For us, ladies: with these sex positions, a woman is really able to achieve a g-spot orgasm, due to the firm pressure. What else? Both his hands are free, so he can caress your curves and stimulate your pulsating clit, and you may use your free hand to stimulate your clit yourself. That’s a real sexplosion, isn’t it? For you, guys: both your hands are free what gives you the perfect chance to control all the action, fondle her all over the world and clench her tight… tighter, and tighter. Moreover, the thrusting in these positions is slow. So what? Orgasms that result from a deliciously long and slow sessions are often much intense than those achieved with stormy stimulation.

I hope all is well with you and I also hope there’s always sex on your mind, my sexy friends. See yaa…..ahhhh ;)

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