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Female orgasm, how does it happen? What is it? Why does it take longer for women to achieve orgasm? This may sound surprising, but not only men, but also many women don’t fully understand what orgasm is and what actually happens with them during this process. To give sexual pleasure to a woman, it’s important to understand the stages of the female orgasm and what these stages mean to give your partner.

Below is an explanation of female orgasm that might be helpful for some readers. What is really surprising and encouraging to me, is that the author is a man. I’m talking about Sacha Tarkovsky, Ezine expert author of many super-interesting articles on different subjects and all aspects of male and female sexuality. Enjoy!

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Most men who are not aware of the 9 stages of female orgasm often stop at stage 4, thus depriving the woman of the ultimate pleasure available to her.

The 9 stages of female orgasm and signs showing she’s receiving the best quality orgasm.

One. The “lung” stage, where the woman “sighs”, breathes very heavily and salivates.

Two. The “heart” stage where the woman is kissing her man often extending her tongue out to him.

Three. The “spleen, pancreas, and stomach” stage where the woman’s muscles become tense, and she grasps her man tightly.

Four. The “kidney and bladder” stage where the woman experiences a series of vaginal spasms, and she will have much vaginal secretion simultaneously. The untrained man believes this is the climax.

Five. The “bone” stage, where the woman’s joints loosen and she will bite her partner.

Six. The “liver and nerve” stage, where the woman moves like a snake under or over her man, and she will wrap her arms and legs around him.

Seven! The “blood” stage, where the woman’s blood feels like it is boiling and she is grasping her man everywhere.

Eight!! The “muscle” stage, where the woman’s muscles totally relax, but she is known to grasp even more and bite the man’s nipples.

The female orgasm is preceded by moistening of the vaginal walls, and an enlargement of the clitoris due to increased blood flow trapped in the clitoris’s spongy tissue. Many women exhibit a sex flush, a reddening of the skin over much of the body due to increased blood flow to the skin. As a woman approaches her orgasm, her clitoris retracts under the clitoral hood, and the labia minora (minor lips) becomes darker (due to blood swell).

As her orgasm becomes imminent, the vagina decreases in size from 25% to 40% and also becomes congested from engorged soft tissue. A mild female orgasm may have 3 -6 contractions, an intense orgasm 9 -16. Muscles throughout the body may contract during orgasm, not just those in the pelvic area. Some women emit or spray some fluid from their urethra during orgasm (female ejaculation). When she is feeling a pleasurable orgasm, her facial expression may look like she’s in pain.

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…believe me though, this is not pain, this is an “earth moving” sexual satisfaction! ;)

Finally, I want to end my post with the well-known quote – “An orgasm a day keeps the doctor away”. So, happy orgasms to each and everyone of us :)

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