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LONG-LASTING SEX: Best Sexual Position to Delay Early Emission
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Coming too quickly during sex or premature ejaculation is one of the most common of all sexual concerns. “I want my hubby last longer. How to help him with it?” or “I want to last longer in bed?? Is this possible?” Questions flow wild.
Earlier definition of premature ejaculation included a specific time limit (3 minutes), but today premature ejaculation it is ejaculation that occurs when a man doesn’t last as long as he or his partner would like. The good news is that coming too quickly is not a disease or illness. However, the bad news is that early ejaculation does exist and washes away a man’s self confidence.
Don’t be confused. Don’t be ashamed and do not put up with the situation. Simply learn how to control your body and give a try to some “slow it down” positions and techniques. Ahh, and please, practice and patience are required. Ahh, and the truth is that this post is not only for those guys who feel they cum too early. It may be very informative for every man out there, since the sexual positions I want to discuss today do work for every man who wants to become a better lover and improve his overall health. Besides, these positions offer enjoyable bonuses for women.
What about becoming better in bed? I know you want it. And we women want it from you too. Moreover, this is possible and easy.
Sexual positions delaying that “point of no return”
Woman on top sex position
To control your ejaculation you need to know this: ejaculation is provoked by the speed and force of your thrusting, so the main idea is to decrease the speed and force of your sexual thrusts. When a woman is on top, there is minimal sexual stimulation of your penis. You don’t thrust, but your woman does and she should do it SLOWLY. Besides, in this position the woman is getting g-spot stimulation. And if you pull her down on your chest she will get an amazing clit stimulation. This sex position is perfect for both lovers and leaves plenty of time to enjoy each other before orgasm. Isn’t this cool to be in total control?
Sitting
The positions involving sitting are great too. A good one for a man is sitting on the edge of the bed with his feet on the floor. In such a way, you will have her wrapping your neck and her legs around your waist. The result is face-to-face intimacy, simultaneous pleasure and long-lasting sex, because in this sex position you also avoid the intense penis stimulation.
Sexual positions bringing that “point of no return”
The sexual positions where all the “work” is done by a man should be avoided. These are all the variations of missionary and “doggy style” positions. However, if you and your woman really adore these, no problem, get some tips on how to perform: thrust DEEPLY and SLOWLY. When you get deeper in her your penis enters a wider area of her pussy and the stimulation of your sensitive penis head is not enough to ejaculate. By the way, did I say that women go nuts when they are done deeply and slowly?
And one more tip is rotation, pressing your pubic zone against her, and slight wiggling every time when you feel the urgency to ejaculate. The level of your excitement will be decreased after some seconds with this technique, and it will be enough to restart thrusting. Her bonus is clit stimulation and loads of satisfaction.
In addition to sexual positions, there are more good tips and simple techniques. For example, as you know, using a condom really decreases the penis stimulation. Cock ring sex toys work wonders and help to prolong sex by comfortable tightening the shaft and adding at least ten happy minutes to your performance. Besides, most of cock rings are designed to stimulate a woman. Breathing is another method of arousal control; to calm arousal, take a few deep and slow breaths and keep going between the sheets. One more thing is performing Kegel exercises, because the pelvic muscles form the base for the male reproductive system. If PC muscles are strong, they help to achieve complete control over ejaculation. You can exercise in any place and anytime, but my guess is that you are not going to.
However, imagine how pleased your woman will be, enjoying multiple orgasms with you! Imagine how proud you’ll be, being able to satisfy your woman every time you have sex. Imagine she is moaning, “Now cum, cum, cum, cum with me!” , and you proudly cum with her. This scenario is much better than something like “Please don’t cum, don’t cum, not now, oh no, no, no-o-o-o!”, and you guiltily explode without her. Yes, your orgasm will feel so good, but you both will feel so bad. Believe me, for us it is really important when a man is able to maximize his sexual performance.
Perhaps, you’re not going to let me know how long you perform and what do you do for it. A few guys talk on such delicate subject. Leave anonymous comments, why not?
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guys think premature ejaculation is like the worst thing that can happen. i totally disagree… take a couple deep breaths, make a sandwich, and then go at it again! you’ll usually last longer, and that is always a good thing.
Nice article Nelli! I agree the “Cum with me!” scenario is always much better than the “Don’t cum” mantra. lol
And Tequila M. is right about lasting longer the second time around. If you’re a guy who always cums too quickly and you know you’re probably going to have sex later that day – Masturbate a few hours before the big event. It WILL help!
As always, a pleasure stopping by. :)
I’ve tried all of these things and none of them work…
..my dog just won’t cooperate on the position thing…
..and at 5′2″ tall and a size 7 shoe…I think it’s pretty safe to say that “DEEPLY” is completely out of the question.
I just have to say…great picture! You always have the best visuals on your blog! :)
oh, and good advice too!
Hi Nelli :) Great post and I love the pic. My hubby has always had great difficulty. We often use a topical that includes 20% benzocaine. Unfortuneately it has a nasty taste and he must wear a condom since I certainly don’t want to lose sensation!
As always great advice! Keep em cummin girl.
Thanks for the tips Nelli. I’m glad they are not a big surprise for me in that department, lol.
But I’ll definitely keep my day job. :)
Tequila mockingbird -
Well, yeah, early ejaculation is not a pleasant thing for both lovers (for women, especially), but it’s wrong to make it into tragedy, because there are many ways out. Indeed, a sandwich and deep breaths are one of them :)
Speak Sexy -
Helpful advice Rose, I forgot to mention masturbation as one of the ways to last longer! Thanks!
Moooog35 –
Try it again Moooog. Practice makes perfect. I’m sure you’ll succeed. Seriously.
Kitty –
Well, needless to say I got so excited while searching for the appropriate pic, and I got even more excited when I found it. So sexy and beautiful. Ah, I love sex… Warmest thank you for the compliment! :)
Midnight Muse –
You know, although things vary from person to person, personally, I don’t recommend to use benzocaine-based lubes and other prolonging ones, since most of them really “kill” the sensations of both partners. However, of course, there are some very good lubes as, for example, Not Yet Gel. BTW, some men use prolonging lubes in combination with cock rings. Keep experimenting sexy Muse!! :)
Rolando –
Let me know if you have some other tips and secrets on men’s issues. I need to know them ;))
Thank you friends for the open-minded talk!!! Always a pleasure to read through your experiences!
I love the blog! Thanks for stopping by mine too…I’ll be back to peruse even more once my finals are over. :-)
Welcome Rae! Of course, be back after finals! :)
Very wise post, this.
Have to disagree with the idea that a man will last longer the second time around (but that, alas, may just be me). My endurance was affected by what particular acts we were engaged in (ie. how active I was).
The Significant Other and I found an interesting circumstance: sex really is all in the mind! After ten years, we pretty much have that much foreplay involved in our encounters now. We both “know” how good the other is already, so we’re ready to pop before we even start: she usually has three or four orgasms by the time I release, and that may only be four or five minutes! The biggest problem is that the most exciting thing to me is a woman reaching orgasm. Great for quickies, but for a night of it we’ve got to change the game plan… Not that that’s a bad thing. 8)
Yet when I have sex with someone else, I can last just fine. The condoms help, of course; but not having the built-up sexual history seems to make the most difference.
My biggest thing is I really try to please my partner but sometimes I just want to pop right away. Sometimes I just want to give in and let go.
But this article was very well written and I hope to keep reading good stuff in your blog.
Thursday -
I totally agree on that sex is all in the mind! Thanks for mentioning that…
A Corrupt Mind –
Thanks for sharing! I’ll try to keep providing good stuff to read…
All good tips. I too agree with tequila mockingbird. Sometimes you have to get the quick one out of the way to purge out the “nerves”. Best to look at sex as a few rounds instead of rolling over and going to sleep. And each round gets better and better.
There are some variations of the woman being on top that can drive a guy nuts and result in a fast….release.
You can also have great quickies and great marathons. It’s a frame of mind thing too.
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