Woman About Sex

I’ve heard a whole lot of misconceptions about sex toys, and the most common one is that sex toys are for singles only. Nothing could be further from the truth, since there are many fantastic sex toys especially designed with couples in mind.

So, if you’re looking for a sexy thing to share with your partner, be sure, there is no other sex gear as couple-friendly as the sex toys and enhancers I want you to take a look at.

For intercourse. We all know that it’s so easy for a couple’s sex life to get into a sexual rut and predictability. So if you are looking for something to add to your intercourse and spice up the things, vibrating cock rings and dildo harnesses will guarantee you a bit of zest. Cock rings are fun because many of them are designed to stimulate the wearer himself and his female partner. As well as cock rings, harnesses become more popular sex toys for couples. Of course, they are still met with a “no way” gasp. Anyway, harnesses are great tools too, especially for the couples which prefer to play with gender roles.

For foreplay. Many of us do like mood setting and foreplay before sex. Although there are many types of foreplay, from my experience, a good foreplay becomes even better with some good accessories. And I insist that fingertip vibrators do rock. These mini sex toys are small and cute additions to oral foreplay, anal foreplay and mutual masturbation. I simply adore these small toy massagers and foreplay ticklers. Another way to play before sex is painting your lover’s body with edible and flavoring body paints! To get all in one, a couple may choose a nice lover’s kit, since these kits often contain different toys and items to enjoy.

For sensual prelude. Slow, sensual, all-over body erotic massage. It’s about emotional connection through a sensual touch, so the erotic massage is one of my favorite foreplays ever. I’ve been giving my man a sensual massage for four years and every time it all ends up with “massaging” my pussy in and out. As for me, it’s so arousing when he is rubbing my shoulders, neck, sliding up-down my curves and breasts. Massaging my lower back and upper thighs just brings me to the edge of orgasm. No doubt, to give a really good massage you should use some all-natural massage oils and lotions. Most of them carry erotic fruity fragrances and warming effects to heat up the erogenous spots and relieve stiffness. By the way, massage therapists say that warming massage oils are fantastic for massaging concentrated areas as breasts, buttocks, thighs.

For adopting new positions. Now you don’t want a massage, you don’t need something to add to your intercourse and foreplay, but you just want to get off and feel comfortable and safe when trying new positions? Have a look at great tools for lovemaking – sex swings. Sex swings (or love swings) are designed specifically for the purpose of sexual intercourse in which one partner is suspended (I’m sure you are smiling now) while the other moves freely. Sex swing is a “sex in the air” device that hangs from the ceiling or its own stand. The most common sex swings have supports for the back, another for the buttocks and stirrups for each leg! What is absolutely fantastic about sex swings (besides loads of fun) is that a sex swing allows a couple try unbelievable and unforgettable sexual positions by reducing the limitations of weight and gravity. I think any kind of sex support and sex furniture as Liberator shapes, body pillows, etc, are great things since they help a couple achieve positions they have only fantasized about and feel absolutely comfortable.

For oral sex. Oral sex, most of us love it and nothing could be more enjoyable than a mix of oral sex techniques with some edible oral sex lubricants. Oral sex lubricants are great if they are made from good quality ingredients. Flavored lubricants are perfect for masking some unpleasant smells and tastes if there are such. And if there is not enough self-lubrication, oral sex lubricants again come to the rescue. Some couples consider lubricants as an interruption, because it takes time to squeeze a lubricant and then apply it, however, even the very act of lubricating your lover’s private part may be so intimate and sexy. We all know, sex is better when wetter.

For anal sex. As with harnesses, anal sex and anal sex toys remain taboo. Of course, anal sex is not for every couple, but the thing is that anal sex and anal sex toys can be very enjoyable too, since there are many nerves and erogenous zones in our anus. That’s why many heterosexual couples engage in anal plays and use anal sex toys for additional stimulation and massage. Both men and women may enjoy anal stimulation, and what is more, many heterosexual men are especially aroused by getting their anus licked, fingered and filled with an anal sex toy! Sex toys like different butt plugs and anal beads, are great for adventurous couples who have a deeper bond and intimacy, and explore all the sides of their sexuality. Butt plugs and beads are fantastic for men and women who want to get extra buzz during sex, masturbation and foreplay. Many men wear butt plugs for stimulating the prostate, it leads to increasing sensations during sex. For a woman, wearing butt plugs during intercourse brings not only powerful orgasms to her, but also to her lover, because butt plug decreases the interior vaginal size allowing a man feel intense sensations while inside her.

All things sexual help to enjoy each other’s body to the fullest. They make you become more sensitive and discover each other’s sexual energy, needs, responses. Thumbs-up from me to sex toys designed for couple use! If you haven’t tried a couple sex toy yet, my guess is that one day you’ll catch yourself wanting to test one from above.

** humming “… all you need is love… love is all you need” **

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