Woman About Sex

Today is the third Thursday in November, and it means 31st Great American Smokeout Day is here. This is an annual event in the US that occurs every November for the past 30 years, and encourages smokers to snuff out their cigarettes for at least one day, in hope they will quit forever.

As for me, yes, I didn’t puff that much but indulged occasionally. Being simply curious and young, I didn’t say “no” when was offered a try. Did I like it? Well, I should say “I didn’t”, but honestly, yep, I liked it. Smoking became something like a ritual for me and I learned to smoke through a stylish cigarette holder, so it looked really feminine and even attractive. But I decided that all those health and sexual problems smoking can cause wouldn’t be attractive and managed not to get dependent. At first, I had a ciggy once a week, then once a month, once/twice a year and then I got absolutely free from it.

Six months later, I met one of my men who turned out a real chimney. He couldn’t get through a day without two packs, increasing his daily intake of cigarettes and lowering our daily intake of intimate pleasures. He smoked before breakfast, after breakfast, before lunch, after lunch, before dinner, after dinner, before kiss, after kiss, before sex, after sex… everywhere and almost every time. Since then, my attitude to sex and kissing with a smoker got “eew”. Really, it was unpleasant. The smell coming up from his lungs into his mouth and making it’s way to my mouth or to my pussy – made me, at first, quit getting and giving oral, then quit kissing him as often as I wanted to, then I said “you have a cigarette in your pants – not penis”, and, finally, our “smoking” conflicts and misunderstanding forced me to quit the relationship. Only when I broke up, it was enough to make him snuff out his last cigarette and realize some things. But it was too late, babe, too late.

Now when I enjoy the benefits of “no smokers in” relationship and sex without nicotine in my pussy I say – there’s nothing like it.

I knew all the effects of smoking on the body, but I didn’t think that it affects SEX LIFE. Now, from a personal experience I can tell you that smoking is intertwined with the intimacy of a relationship. Of course, there are lots of factors influencing one’s sex life; smoking is one of them anyway. Some obvious and common affects of smoking on sex life of both men and women I personally noticed are less energy, getting out of breath easily, smelly breath, smelly semen, excessive salivation, and less physical attractiveness, although I can’t deny that sometimes sucking down and expelling smoke “clouds” is sexy. As to the things I’ve heard and read, since nicotine is vasoconstrictor, it tightens blood vessels and restricts blood flow. It means, in the long term, men who are heavy smokers just have one more reason to contribute to the future problems with their erections. But what is the most appealing about men, with sex in one’s mind, of course? Yeees, erections. And what is the most appealing about women, with oral sex in men’s mind? Pleasant smells and attractive… mouth.

Finally, we all are mature here and aware of everything what is bad for our health, attractiveness and SEX. So, I posted today not to urge to quit smoking, because this is one habit that will never truly go away, but to share my personal experience, in hope you share yours.

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