Woman About Sex

I’ve heard a whole lot of misconceptions about sex toys, and the most common one is that sex toys are for singles only. Nothing could be further from the truth, since there are many fantastic sex toys especially designed with couples in mind.

So, if you’re looking for a sexy thing to share with your partner, be sure, there is no other sex gear as couple-friendly as the sex toys and enhancers I want you to take a look at.

For intercourse. We all know that it’s so easy for a couple’s sex life to get into a sexual rut and predictability. So if you are looking for something to add to your intercourse and spice up the things, vibrating cock rings and dildo harnesses will guarantee you a bit of zest. Cock rings are fun because many of them are designed to stimulate the wearer himself and his female partner. As well as cock rings, harnesses become more popular sex toys for couples. Of course, they are still met with a “no way” gasp. Anyway, harnesses are great tools too, especially for the couples which prefer to play with gender roles.

For foreplay. Many of us do like mood setting and foreplay before sex. Although there are many types of foreplay, from my experience, a good foreplay becomes even better with some good accessories. And I insist that fingertip vibrators do rock. These mini sex toys are small and cute additions to oral foreplay, anal foreplay and mutual masturbation. I simply adore these small toy massagers and foreplay ticklers. Another way to play before sex is painting your lover’s body with edible and flavoring body paints! To get all in one, a couple may choose a nice lover’s kit, since these kits often contain different toys and items to enjoy.

For sensual prelude. Slow, sensual, all-over body erotic massage. It’s about emotional connection through a sensual touch, so the erotic massage is one of my favorite foreplays ever. I’ve been giving my man a sensual massage for four years and every time it all ends up with “massaging” my pussy in and out. As for me, it’s so arousing when he is rubbing my shoulders, neck, sliding up-down my curves and breasts. Massaging my lower back and upper thighs just brings me to the edge of orgasm. No doubt, to give a really good massage you should use some all-natural massage oils and lotions. Most of them carry erotic fruity fragrances and warming effects to heat up the erogenous spots and relieve stiffness. By the way, massage therapists say that warming massage oils are fantastic for massaging concentrated areas as breasts, buttocks, thighs.

For adopting new positions. Now you don’t want a massage, you don’t need something to add to your intercourse and foreplay, but you just want to get off and feel comfortable and safe when trying new positions? Have a look at great tools for lovemaking – sex swings. Sex swings (or love swings) are designed specifically for the purpose of sexual intercourse in which one partner is suspended (I’m sure you are smiling now) while the other moves freely. Sex swing is a “sex in the air” device that hangs from the ceiling or its own stand. The most common sex swings have supports for the back, another for the buttocks and stirrups for each leg! What is absolutely fantastic about sex swings (besides loads of fun) is that a sex swing allows a couple try unbelievable and unforgettable sexual positions by reducing the limitations of weight and gravity. I think any kind of sex support and sex furniture as Liberator shapes, body pillows, etc, are great things since they help a couple achieve positions they have only fantasized about and feel absolutely comfortable.

For oral sex. Oral sex, most of us love it and nothing could be more enjoyable than a mix of oral sex techniques with some edible oral sex lubricants. Oral sex lubricants are great if they are made from good quality ingredients. Flavored lubricants are perfect for masking some unpleasant smells and tastes if there are such. And if there is not enough self-lubrication, oral sex lubricants again come to the rescue. Some couples consider lubricants as an interruption, because it takes time to squeeze a lubricant and then apply it, however, even the very act of lubricating your lover’s private part may be so intimate and sexy. We all know, sex is better when wetter.

For anal sex. As with harnesses, anal sex and anal sex toys remain taboo. Of course, anal sex is not for every couple, but the thing is that anal sex and anal sex toys can be very enjoyable too, since there are many nerves and erogenous zones in our anus. That’s why many heterosexual couples engage in anal plays and use anal sex toys for additional stimulation and massage. Both men and women may enjoy anal stimulation, and what is more, many heterosexual men are especially aroused by getting their anus licked, fingered and filled with an anal sex toy! Sex toys like different butt plugs and anal beads, are great for adventurous couples who have a deeper bond and intimacy, and explore all the sides of their sexuality. Butt plugs and beads are fantastic for men and women who want to get extra buzz during sex, masturbation and foreplay. Many men wear butt plugs for stimulating the prostate, it leads to increasing sensations during sex. For a woman, wearing butt plugs during intercourse brings not only powerful orgasms to her, but also to her lover, because butt plug decreases the interior vaginal size allowing a man feel intense sensations while inside her.

All things sexual help to enjoy each other’s body to the fullest. They make you become more sensitive and discover each other’s sexual energy, needs, responses. Thumbs-up from me to sex toys designed for couple use! If you haven’t tried a couple sex toy yet, my guess is that one day you’ll catch yourself wanting to test one from above.

** humming “… all you need is love… love is all you need” **

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Cock rings: how to choose and use not too-tight, not too-loose

The use of cock rings began many centuries ago, so it’s really no wonder that today cock rings come in a wide variety of sizes, colors, designs, styles, types and materials. However, it’s really a wonder how to choose a cock ring exactly for you and how to wear it the proper way. Well…

Cock ring materials, styles and types

Non-adjustable cock rings are O-shaped rings usually made from sex toy materials as rubber, latex rubber, metal. Silicone, rubber and latex rubber cock rings are relatively flexible and can be put on easy and removed quickly. Metal cock rings are tricky to put on and sometimes are trickier to remove (don’t ask me how I know that). Non-adjustable rings come in single-ring design and double-ring design with one ring to be placed around the shaft, and the second ring that wraps around the balls. Most of non-adjustable cock rings are extravagantly designed and contribute to visual stimulus! They also come with vibrating options and stimulating teasers for your partner.

Adjustable cock rings are usually made of leather or rawhide, some of them feature leather with Velcro or snaps, some combine leather and metal. Of course, these cock rings are the safest and easy to remove.

How to put on a cock ring

How to wear an adjustable cock ring. Put it around the base of your soft or semi-erect cock, fasten it so that you can feel comfortable pressure. Oh, and don’t forget to shave your pubic hair, cause you don’t want to get trapped when things get wild.

How to put on a non-adjustable cock ring. These cock rings are usually worn at the base of your shaft, behind the balls. Place the first boy through the ring; follow by placing the second one. Then bend the penis down and pull it through the cock ring. Some men prefer to wear a cock ring around the shaft only. Anyway, be aware that non-adjustable cock rings are put on and removed from your “soft” dick. To take it off, use a good lubricant or all the slippery after-sex juices.

How to choose the cock ring size

The cock ring size is very important, since using a too-loose cock ring you may lose all the advantages of this nice sex toy, as well as using too-tight cock ring you may feel all the disadvantages of wearing this sex toy. Fortunately, most cock rings are really super-stretchy, so they accommodate most sizes letting you feel a comfortable grip. Other cock rings are made from less stretchy material and you need a cock ring to fit exactly for you. To get the ring, you need to assume the circumference of your cock and balls behind your scrotum and divide by 3.1. Thus, you better not play with a cock ring with a diameter of less than the number you get. By the way, let your lover measure your circumference for you, it may be so erotic.

Finally, a word of caution is always appropriate. So be warned that although most cock rings are designed to be safe and fun, those who have any vascular disorder, diabetes, nerve disorder or take any blood thinning medication, are advisable not to use these sex toys or consult a doctor before using a cock ring.

If applied for partner sex, my favorite cock rings are non-adjustable ones, since they often offer an extra buzz to both lovers. Considering cock ring materials, my man prefers purchasing silicone, jelly, cyberskin cock rings, because of their stretchy style. Metal ones are fun too, some look like a piece of jewelry, and in a certain way, they are even safer to the skin than silicone ones.

I’m sure that it’s better to try a cock ring sex toy once than to hear about it a hundred times.

Muuu-ahh!

You may say there are so many sex toys out there, why exactly cock rings to talk about? Simply because I consider cock rings to be the best men’s sex toys ever. All experiences I’ve had with men who wear cock rings can be described in one word: exceptional. So if you haven’t tried a cock ring yet, you missed a lot. And I’m telling this both men and women, since those cock rings that are designed to stimulate female clit, or clit and anus together… bring unforgettable, mind-blowing, amazing, “screaming” pleasure…

Today is the third Thursday in November, and it means 31st Great American Smokeout Day is here. This is an annual event in the US that occurs every November for the past 30 years, and encourages smokers to snuff out their cigarettes for at least one day, in hope they will quit forever.

One of the best ways for a woman to say “I love you” to her man is to not say it, but express it through the act of swallowing his creamy semen. Swallowing the fruits of my labor is always pleasurable, even if semen tastes not so yummy. However, unpleasant semen taste makes some women run to the bathroom and spit it out. That’s why it’s really important for a man to make his semen taste and smell better, so his woman could savour it inside her mouth before swallowing.

Of course, your body’s duty is not producing tasteful ejaculate, but fertile and healthy. Therefore, your body produces healthy semen when you consume good and healthy food. In other words: you cum what you eat and imbibe. Foods, drinks and smoking can influence the taste, smell, volume and consistency of your semen. Likewise, a woman’s diet influences her pussy secretions.

Although every man has unique semen, still, there are some general and simple diet tips that can make semen taste and smell g-o-o-o-o-d. It doesn’t mean you have totally restrict foods you prefer to eat, but you just should know some things.

What makes your semen taste unappetizing?
Believe me, garlic and onion are not the best friends of your semen. Have you ever noticed that after eating strongly spiced dish (curries) or a meal full of onions and garlic, your pores deliver unpleasant smell the next day? It happens with your sperm as well. So, if you plan to get a blowjob – limit your intake of these foods 24 hours prior to blowjob. Avoid asparagus that contains lots of strong tasting and smelling chemicals. Brussels sprouts, broccoli, collards tend to make semen taste bitter. Skip foods with lots of preservatives. Foods based on alkaline, as meat and fish, make semen taste fish like. Thus, eat less meat and less junk. By the way, vegetarians have better tasting semen. And for the fans of liquors – chemically processed liquors may create an acidic taste of semen.

What makes your semen taste palatable?
Parsley and pineapple juice – these are the best friends of your semen. Pineapple and parsley make your body secretions and fluids sweeter. Other foods improving your semen taste are cinnamon, peppermint, celery and honey. As to the volume of cum, many suggest eating egg whites. To get less stingy semen it’s helpful to drink about eight glasses of WATER daily, because water is a good cleaner for our bowels and ducts.

Whatever semen taste is – saline, bitter, acid, or sweet, anyway, semen is good, because it is your lover’s load. However, keeping in mind that you may bring more pleasures to your lovely cock sucker by making your semen taste and smell like the best cream – is also good. Isn’t it?

*hungrily licking my lips*

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One more way to add deliciousness to blowjob sessions:
Good Head edible lubricant by Doc Johnson (cinnamon is great)
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