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Cunnilingus and men: “When I go down I get on top”
Below is what I got on my email as a suggestion for a new post.
“…I love women and I love their bodies, soft skin, scent, taste, nails digging into my back… So, unlike most men, I truly adore making them feel pleased orally… I don’t find it unworthy of a man since women are so sexy creatures who should be caressed, licked, sucked, kissed… I know how to satisfy her flesh. But wanting to please her is not enough in successful pussy licking. You should really enjoy putting your lips on her lips, resting your tongue on her clitty, sipping her salty, succulent secretion. Sometimes I catch my wife when she comes from work and don’t let her take the shower, because licking her pussy even when it’s not squeaky clean is nothing about disgust for me. Giving head to a woman is all about my domination, not submission, as most suppose. Leave it to boys to think “real men don’t go down on women”.
When I go down I get on top.”
Cunnilingus and men: friends or enemies? That’s the question. I know there are few men who really enjoy performing oral sex on a woman. Most are squeamish and consider they are getting under the thumb when giving head. Personally, I am aware at least of two reasons why men don’t like giving cunnilingus: psychological or “ego” reason and physical or “body” reason, since it’s true that female secretion and scents are more intense than male.
Can I say it all sounds somewhat offensive? Although many things depend on some particular circumstances (we all know them), my answer is “yes”. Again there are at least two main reasons why women may get offensive if men don’t take care of their pussies: psychological or “he treats me like a doll with hole with no care at all” and physical or “her only way to orgasm”.
Let me explain. Of course, I have never got a blowjob, and correct me if I’m wrong, but as far as I know, primarily, blowjob is mostly about the release than some deep feelings.
Back to cunnilingus, I want to stress that since female world is based on emotions, primarily, for plenty of women cunnilingus is not about release and arousal itself, it’s mostly about other feelings as respect, appreciation, care, making her believe you like all about her. The physical idea is that for some of us cunnilingus is the only way to orgasm, because intercourse is rarely enough to cum.
Answering my own question in the beginning, I say men and cunnilingus should be friends simply because cunnilingus is the most intimate kiss making woman keep coming back for more and return the favor tenfold; simply because men who perform great cunnilingus are considered great lovers; simply because woman is an emotional creature and having her pussy against his tongue excites her both psychologically and psychically. And… to let you know, the initial excitement we get from your only attempting to lick us there.
Do most of men love receiving fellatio? Yes, they do. Do most of women like receiving cunnilingus? Not every woman loves it, but you won’t have to search too long to find one who does. Most of us do love receiving cunnilingus, even if we don’t admit it and ask for it.
Actually, I can’t get it how come that a man can have no thrill of licking pussy of a beautiful, clean, sexy woman, especially, if he wants and loves her.
Are there men like that then? lol. I love giving cunnilingus. My biggest turnon is to please the woman. I admit I love getting fellatio too but….I think you need to know your partner well enough to know what they like and what they don’t. I e.g. don’t like fellatio just to pump the penis in and out the mouth. 50% of the joy I get is from the tender stroking that goes with it. The legs, the testicles etc, together with very gentle sucking, licking. I think everyone had different likings.
Hey Rudi :)
Frankly, cunnilingus is one of my big turn-ons, so I have a lot of respect for guys who like to eat pussy and try to master the techniques. Of course, fellatio is not only “in-out” act. This is much more, I know.
Thank you so much for being honest.
Rudi, do you know any special cunnilingus techniques?
Well…there are quite some lol. One my girlfriend really likes is when i close my lips around the clit (kinda in a wide circle) softly suck the air out and meanwhile gently lick the clit.
What I also found most ladies find a big turn-on is…Slip one finger inside to stimulate the g-spot while licking the clit. Or a finger in the anus does it usualy too ;-).
There are so many, I can’t put them all in here lol.
(they are quite hard to explain too).
Best is to put them to the test ;-)
Cunnilingus sure is a treat. It should be done often and without rushing.
There is too much to do there that it deserves our every attention and detail.
I’m no expert, but I love to practice to perfection.
Rudi…
Oh, I think you are a sweet lover. Thanks for sharing. I’ll soon share the ways I was licked by my lovers.
Rolando…
I’m so glad to hear men really enjoy pleasing their women orally, because many want nothing to do with cunni and think it’s gross.
Thank you guys so much on behalf of many women :)
Everything for natures most wonderful creation…..women ;-).
Looking fwd to that nellioness xx
Hi Nelli,
Yummy topic! I’m with you on cunnilingus being a huge turn-on. I know I’m a lucky girl in that department compared to others. I think a good tip for men would be to make sure the girl is very comfortable with him first before trying anything. Even I need to be “relaxed” first – otherwise the intensity of feeling is often too much to just start off with. What do you think?
Now this is a subject I can get into… This is something that I have always loved to do, why I’m not sure, I think it’s because I love giving pleasure and watching a woman in pleasure and enjoying herself because of something I did. I’ve known a few women in my time and one of their biggest complaints was that most men don’t or just don’t know how to do this… I on the other do and I enjoy it immensely!
Hi Nelli!
I turn into mush when it comes to cunnilingus. My hubby can’t get enough. He’s an absolute maniac about it.
Definitely a huge turn-on!!
Hey, nice photo in this post! You always select such great photos!
Provided they are “groomed” and clean down there…..I LOVE IT!!! Especially if they get on top and smother me. Ahhhhh……
Long time no see Nelly! I’m back from my extended vacation and wanted to say hi!Didn’t mean to be a stranger but had a hospital stay and then had a few weeks of nonstop work. Anyhow, I’m back now and I love to eat pussy if it’s shaved or well manicured and kept clean. A clean pussy doesn’t have much of a smell. Please keep yourselves clean, ladies, because a skunk can’t smell it’s own hole!!!
Wow!
I love eating Sweet Pussy*
;PPP
Love to hear ya Moan + Whimper*
I want to thank all of you for visiting me guys!
Missed blogging badly. I was absorbed by my work and daily issues past week; also visited Bulgaria.
Glad I’m back and hope to hear from you soon…
Muuuaaahhh :)
love eating and licking cunny adore it, but to be honest it has to be clean…I can’t think of a guy who if a woman said, ‘hey would you go down on me?’ that he would say no! What world are you living in ?;-) just call over I will go on you and expect nothing back!
My first real sexual experience was when I was 16 years old (I’m 18 now) and my boyfriend asked if I wanted to try it. I remember we had the lights turned out in his room, which I think made the experience more intimate and sacred. It was definately the best thing I’d ever felt down there, but there was a real emotional connection also, just like what you were saying; it definately made me feel appreciated, cherished, and like he sincerely loved making me happy. I was really lucky at the time to find a mature 16-year-old whose main goal was to make me feel happy (whether sexual or otherwise).
As a highschool student, I am surrounded by 18-year-old guys who loved getting blowjobs but think it would be disgusting to return the favor. Also, there are a lot of guys who have rigid views about women’s weight–not liking women with meat on them and stuff. I’m assuming it’s just the highschool age group ’cause most of the mature guys I know and older guys don’t really put that much concern on a woman’s weight & apparently are much more willing to go down on a woman.
I’m glad I found this & all the comments attached. It really boosts my faith in men. Thanks everybody.
~Bri
Unfortunately Bri, that’s how a lot of guys are. Of all my friends, I’m the only one who really enjoys cunnilingus. I do it for the joy of giving pleasure, making it all about her even if she doesn’t want to reciprocate. As for weight, I won’t look twice at a stick-chick. Women are supposed to be soft and curvy. Don’t know if y’all can tell but I LOVE women. One thing I will say is that if the lights are off and you’re on your period, a heads up would be nice.
I have a for all men who enjoy pleasing a woman. Let me expand a little so you know what I’m talking about. I’ve been seeing this man who, no matter what I say or do, won’t go down on me. In 2 months, he’s only gone down 2X and for only about 1 minute. All he wants is to penetrate. Finally, I told him to be honest with me and tell me why he doesn’t want to please me. He said that there are 3 types of pussies: 1-the one he just wants to eat all the time, 2-the one he will never eat, and 3-the one where it doesn’t matter whether he eats or not. He told me mine was #3 and that it was average in appearance. He said some woman have a pussy that is higher and open. Mine is low and inverted (according to him). He said mine smells very good, just like the ones he likes to eat. The funny thing is that he has a small penis and he knows it. But I enjoy going down on him and found the position that will give us both the best sensation. My principal sexual organ is the mind, not the body. Question: Do men normally categorize a woman’s pussy?
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