Woman About Sex

Do I think she’ll shock him? It seems to me he’ll get surprised, puzzled and tongue-tied.

Indeed, now the world is upside down. The traditional gender roles have mixed and some new approaches are widely spread in everything. Women became more attentive to their future, they are no more waiting for Prince Charming, and they get free from stereotypes, learn creative and surprising ways. With this idea in mind, I find proposing marriage – a woman’s very romantic gesture worthy of his “yesss”. And so, in some relationships, I’m sure it is great for her to take the initiative in asking him the age old question.

Being an unconventional kind of woman I can ask him marry me. I can do it regardless the matter of whether I should do it or not, whether it’s normal or not. I can do it in a special way, uniquely, with the greatest pleasure and love. Yes, I can. But… still, I would prefer a man to propose me.

The role of a man in a relationship is control and leadership. Instead of waiting for her “I can do it myself” urge, he should take the lead and make a creative marriage proposal for both to remember. Therefore, in the case of who’s proposing marriage, the tradition and the “down on one knee” happy moment are important to me all the same. I guess it is not even the tradition, but the idea of that a man proposing you marriage feels himself totally ready to become a husband of his wife, protector of his family and leader. When he feels like not confident about your relationship or simply “not now” – a woman’s unexpected proposal makes him powerless to say “no” and forces to blurt out “yes”, since he’s a gentleman who wants to save her feelings and attempts.

All in all, no matter who does the asking, guy or girl, it is normal for a person receiving a marriage proposal feel somehow threatened, right? And I doubt whether there is something in the world that can make me change my mind: I’m sure a man asked by a woman gets much more threatened.

However, maybe I’m wrong, and it is better to get to know from men themselves how they feel about being proposed…

Sweethearts, shed light on this, it would be a good thing!

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Soft, moist, strong, powerful… a man’s tongue. Your tongue, guys, turns into the magic wand of pleasure when it comes to giving face to a woman. Believe me, this feels really magic when your masterful mouth tool is spreading our intimate lips and runs up-down between the layers of pussy flesh. And nothing is more fantastic when the tip of your tongue starts its careful dance on the clit. Oh my God… Yes, men who perform good oral sex on a woman are pleasure gods, because cunnilingus is paying special attention to a woman, telling she is totally attractive.

How to perform good oral sex on a woman? It’s so simple. Look at babes, do what comes naturally, and to add an extra pleasure master two-three spicy cunnilingus techniques which promise lots of “wow”s to rock her entire body and mind.

Of course, every woman has different “buttons” hidden in her womanhood, so it’s hardly possible to find the best cunnilingus technique for each of us. However, as I said, the basics of cunnilingus can be learned from babes and nicely “re-created” when giving oral sex. Babes lick their mommy’s titties with delicate pressure, speed and rhythm. They gently stroke the nipples, lick, suck. For me it feels amazing when my lover does the same with my pussy and, moreover, it all brings out my maternal instincts. In return I always want to “feed” him with “thankful” pleasure.

As I said, cunnilingus is not always about special techniques, but, still, there are two cunnilingus techniques especially preferable making me worship a man who does them to me. Since pussy is a delicate “lady” – it wants delicate ways, so, as almost all things about sex, these techniques require a lover’s patience, desire, delicacy, gentleness and “don’t over do with the clit” warnings, because the clit is sensitive as the uncircumcised penis head. Mmm, yummy…

Well, I think many have heard about the following cunnilingus technique since it’s one of the most commonly used by “skilled” oral sex performers – it’s known as Cunnilingus Alphabet.

“What on earth are you doing Honey?” I moaned full of pure ecstasy and surprise when the technique was kindly introduced to my pussy by my ex’s tongue. I got he was doing something unusual with my flesh and asked him later. It turned out he was licking the alphabet letters, my name like NELI and “I WANT YOU” phrase, embracing the whole pussy area and the clit. Needless to say it was very arousing, fun and playful because his tongue was moving in lots of directions. He said the letters I, W, S, Z, O, M and N drive me crazzzzy… Besides, quick licking IMNOI feels totally mind-blowing. Now every time I hear the famous alphabet song my clit starts sending me naughty signals…

Another cunnilingus technique that got me “wow” is not a widely used one. This is talking while giving and receiving cunnilingus. Most of women respond to “verbal love”, since we are a good deal more verbal than men (especially during sex) and, personally, I love guys who own a deep voice and talk sexy in love-making. So the technique is somewhat like “talk dirty to… my pussy”. Being once licked there, I asked something and my man, alternately with licks and strokes, was responding keeping his lips and tongue very close to pussy. Believe it or not, all together that was fantastically shaking and unexpected. The voice vibrations can can cause amazing clitoral pulsation.

Below is what I got on my email as a suggestion for a new post.

“…I love women and I love their bodies, soft skin, scent, taste, nails digging into my back… So, unlike most men, I truly adore making them feel pleased orally… I don’t find it unworthy of a man since women are so sexy creatures who should be caressed, licked, sucked, kissed… I know how to satisfy her flesh. But wanting to please her is not enough in successful pussy licking. You should really enjoy putting your lips on her lips, resting your tongue on her clitty, sipping her salty, succulent secretion. Sometimes I catch my wife when she comes from work and don’t let her take the shower, because licking her pussy even when it’s not squeaky clean is nothing about disgust for me. Giving head to a woman is all about my domination, not submission, as most suppose. Leave it to boys to think “real men don’t go down on women”.
When I go down I get on top.”

Cunnilingus and men: friends or enemies? That’s the question. I know there are few men who really enjoy performing oral sex on a woman. Most are squeamish and consider they are getting under the thumb when giving head. Personally, I am aware at least of two reasons why men don’t like giving cunnilingus: psychological or “ego” reason and physical or “body” reason, since it’s true that female secretion and scents are more intense than male.

Can I say it all sounds somewhat offensive? Although many things depend on some particular circumstances (we all know them), my answer is “yes”. Again there are at least two main reasons why women may get offensive if men don’t take care of their pussies: psychological or “he treats me like a doll with hole with no care at all” and physical or “her only way to orgasm”.

Let me explain. Of course, I have never got a blowjob, and correct me if I’m wrong, but as far as I know, primarily, blowjob is mostly about the release than some deep feelings.

Back to cunnilingus, I want to stress that since female world is based on emotions, primarily, for plenty of women cunnilingus is not about release and arousal itself, it’s mostly about other feelings as respect, appreciation, care, making her believe you like all about her. The physical idea is that for some of us cunnilingus is the only way to orgasm, because intercourse is rarely enough to cum.

Answering my own question in the beginning, I say men and cunnilingus should be friends simply because cunnilingus is the most intimate kiss making woman keep coming back for more and return the favor tenfold; simply because men who perform great cunnilingus are considered great lovers; simply because woman is an emotional creature and having her pussy against his tongue excites her both psychologically and psychically. And… to let you know, the initial excitement we get from your only attempting to lick us there.

Do most of men love receiving fellatio? Yes, they do. Do most of women like receiving cunnilingus? Not every woman loves it, but you won’t have to search too long to find one who does. Most of us do love receiving cunnilingus, even if we don’t admit it and ask for it.

Actually, I can’t get it how come that a man can have no thrill of licking pussy of a beautiful, clean, sexy woman, especially, if he wants and loves her.