Comments on: Fake Orgasm vs Real Orgasm

By: Warrior

Warrior — Wed, 20 Feb 2008 08:15:00 +0000

What’s the point in faking it? Fake boobs fake orgasms fake ‘I love you’, naw take your fake and fake off somewhere else with it :-) If you don’t cum we can spend time learning how to make you cum. If you can’t cum enjoy the ride anyway..but don’t ever fake……please.

By: moooooog35

moooooog35 — Thu, 15 Nov 2007 17:24:00 +0000

Do I mind if she fakes it?

Well...does faking it affect her ability to make me a sandwich when I'm done? If it does then, Hell yes, it bothers me.

If it doesn't, then I'm good.

By: Nellioness

Nellioness — Mon, 24 Sep 2007 12:27:00 +0000

Welcome to me, Exigeus :)

Thank you so much for sharing your attitude. I'm sure most women should pay special attention on it and don't fool their men. I love your well-defined, honest response on my post. Helpful.

Hope to hear from you...

Nelly

By: Exigeus

Exigeus — Fri, 21 Sep 2007 18:22:00 +0000

I’d really hate to find out that my lover was faking orgasms. One of the main pleasures of sex for me is experiencing her orgasm. I love how she looks, sounds, feels, etc. If I find out that she’s faked it once, I’ll always wonder whether she’s faking it again, and it will get in the way of my enjoyment. A fake orgasm is a turn-off, and even the possibility of her climax being fake is enough to kill my interest. So once I find out that she’s faked an orgasm, I wouldn’t enjoy sex with her anymore. Possibly, if she confessed and promised that she would never do it again, and I believed her, we might be able to salvage a sexual relationship. But remember that you’re deceiving him at his most vulnerable moment. If he finds out, don’t expect to continue having sex with him. It’s better to just be honest. That’s something I can understand and work with.

By: Nellioness

Nellioness — Wed, 29 Aug 2007 07:58:00 +0000

Hello Anonymous Hottie :)

Thanks for sharing.

You are one of those men who act wise with their women.

Hope to see you around.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Wed, 29 Aug 2007 07:00:00 +0000

In my last serious relationship, I asked my girlfriend to promise me she would never fake it. I know she kept the promise because she was always very hard to get off. Some times she would come, some times she wouldn’t and would be alright with it, and some times we’d get out the toys and I’d help her masturbate. It was rarely perfect, but I’m still glad she never faked it.

By: Nellioness

Nellioness — Thu, 23 Aug 2007 07:40:00 +0000

Thanks Ricardo for the serious and honest answer. You're cool, indeed.

Well, actually, women don't feel like they have to fake it all the time. But most women feel shame and guilt about their sexuality when they can't orgasm. Some simply don’t have orgasms. They think they become less attractive, that's the point.

Why else women frightened to tell their men what they need to orgasm? It's because man rarely think they can be the reason of her faking, they most likely think she's just frigid. Finally they both start thinking she is frigid and sex is bad because of her - that's a real turn off. However, to avoid such things, they simply need to talk and figure out what works for her what doesn't work at all.

So, I think keeping your man in the dark is wrong. This is the way to the gap. Communication is highly important, since it will relieve her of this pressure and be more relaxed, thus putting her way to real orgasms.
In my opinion, sex is much better when everyone gets a happy ending.

By: Ricardo

Ricardo — Wed, 22 Aug 2007 19:01:00 +0000

Pretty good advice and she’s pretty hot too. I never understood why women feel that they have to fake it all the time. I do think that when they go too over the top it’s not real and have had that happen a few times. The thing about that is, for me, it’s a turn off. I want to stop what I’m doing and say, “Are you fucking serious?” I think as women get older maybe they get around the faking thing and just straight up tell the guy if he’s getting it done. There’s a good way and bad way to do this but if brought up in the right way, it can makes things MUCH better in the long run.