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Fake Orgasm vs Real Orgasm
Apparently, it’s not big news that sometimes some women fake orgasms for some reasons. It’s also not a big surprise that many fake on a regular basis! It has been estimated by an Orgasm Survey that 72 percent of women were “orgasm liars” at least once in their current or most recent relationship, and 55 percent of men say they cannot distinguish “orgasm presentation” from a real orgasm.
Actually, statistics is quite impressive and suggesting me some thoughts.
When I was younger, faking orgasms was my sex daily routine, because I didn’t get them at all, both from intercourse and clitoral stimulation. It took a long time to understand myself and what I really need for my orgasm. But years later when my body became more sensitive and responsive with the help of lovers coming into my life and my self-discoveries – I got it, the real female orgasm. Since then I just don’t want to fake sexual happiness, I don’t want to fool a man I am with and I don’t want to cheat myself, because I’ve learned a fantastic side of not faking my orgasms. Yes, in a blue moon under a particular circumstance, I remember I faked it in my adult life, too. What were the reasons? Actually, a well-known joke fits well as a serious answer here: Q. Why do women fake orgasms? A. Because they think men care. So the reason was: I thought he cared, seriously, and as a careful woman I wanted to save his feelings.
Female orgasm: fake or not to fake? Now my experience and knowledge tell you NO, for sure. There are no good reasons for faking it. Fake orgasm gives a man the false impression that he’s pushing the right buttons and makes him keep pushing them. Orgasm faking is not about saving the feelings; it is simply a deadlock promising ultimately ruin the relationship because of sexual dissatisfaction. All in all, why to fake an orgasm? With a little figuring out and time you can really get one, rocking your entire world.
How to know you’re duped? Hah, well. I will hardly satisfy your catlike curiosity by saying: there are no rules and special signs she’s faking, because every woman is artistic enough to fake it VERY WELL. Some signs listed on the web are disputable and not accurate, since female real orgasms are different from woman to woman. I can orgasm wet, I can orgasm dry, sometimes I cry out, sometimes I’m quiet, sometimes I get multiple contractions, sometimes it’s a fast release. Thus, there is nothing complicated to fake orgasms but it’s very tricky to tell them.
Suspected her in outrageous “orgasmic lie”? Men should understand that even when a woman is truly enjoying the intimacy with you – it doesn’t necessarily mean she will climax. By the way, 25 percent of women are able to get real orgasm through intercourse and the majority of women don’t manage to orgasm every time they have sex, even with a skillful partner. It depends on many things: on the quality of foreplay, timing, techniques, emotional state of a woman in this very day. So to improve the situation and reach mutual understanding you need to COMMUNICATE. It will help to become more emotionally intimate and open to each other about delicate things. In case communication is not about your relationship. Do you really need that relationship? Lack of communication results in faking both “bedroom” and “out of bedroom” happiness. There is no doubt.
See ya soon!
Oh, wait… I feel like you want to ask me one more thing ;)
Are there women who never fake orgasm, you ask? Perhaps. Those that squirt.
Anyway, I’d love men to respond honestly. Do you want us fake orgasms, *under particular circumstances*? Honest answer will help us to be more honest back…
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Pretty good advice and she’s pretty hot too. I never understood why women feel that they have to fake it all the time. I do think that when they go too over the top it’s not real and have had that happen a few times. The thing about that is, for me, it’s a turn off. I want to stop what I’m doing and say, “Are you fucking serious?” I think as women get older maybe they get around the faking thing and just straight up tell the guy if he’s getting it done. There’s a good way and bad way to do this but if brought up in the right way, it can makes things MUCH better in the long run.
Thanks Ricardo for the serious and honest answer. You’re cool, indeed.
Well, actually, women don’t feel like they have to fake it all the time. But most women feel shame and guilt about their sexuality when they can’t orgasm. Some simply don’t have orgasms. They think they become less attractive, that’s the point.
Why else women frightened to tell their men what they need to orgasm? It’s because man rarely think they can be the reason of her faking, they most likely think she’s just frigid. Finally they both start thinking she is frigid and sex is bad because of her – that’s a real turn off. However, to avoid such things, they simply need to talk and figure out what works for her what doesn’t work at all.
So, I think keeping your man in the dark is wrong. This is the way to the gap. Communication is highly important, since it will relieve her of this pressure and be more relaxed, thus putting her way to real orgasms.
In my opinion, sex is much better when everyone gets a happy ending.
In my last serious relationship, I asked my girlfriend to promise me she would never fake it. I know she kept the promise because she was always very hard to get off. Some times she would come, some times she wouldn’t and would be alright with it, and some times we’d get out the toys and I’d help her masturbate. It was rarely perfect, but I’m still glad she never faked it.
Hello Anonymous Hottie :)
Thanks for sharing.
You are one of those men who act wise with their women.
Hope to see you around.
I’d really hate to find out that my lover was faking orgasms. One of the main pleasures of sex for me is experiencing her orgasm. I love how she looks, sounds, feels, etc. If I find out that she’s faked it once, I’ll always wonder whether she’s faking it again, and it will get in the way of my enjoyment. A fake orgasm is a turn-off, and even the possibility of her climax being fake is enough to kill my interest. So once I find out that she’s faked an orgasm, I wouldn’t enjoy sex with her anymore. Possibly, if she confessed and promised that she would never do it again, and I believed her, we might be able to salvage a sexual relationship. But remember that you’re deceiving him at his most vulnerable moment. If he finds out, don’t expect to continue having sex with him. It’s better to just be honest. That’s something I can understand and work with.
Welcome to me, Exigeus :)
Thank you so much for sharing your attitude. I’m sure most women should pay special attention on it and don’t fool their men. I love your well-defined, honest response on my post. Helpful.
Hope to hear from you…
Nelly
Do I mind if she fakes it?
Well…does faking it affect her ability to make me a sandwich when I’m done? If it does then, Hell yes, it bothers me.
If it doesn’t, then I’m good.
What’s the point in faking it? Fake boobs fake orgasms fake ‘I love you’, naw take your fake and fake off somewhere else with it :-) If you don’t cum we can spend time learning how to make you cum. If you can’t cum enjoy the ride anyway..but don’t ever fake……please.
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