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Female Masturbation: Proved Techniques

Posted by Nellioness on Aug-29-2007
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Female masturbation is an awesome creation for self-exploration. In other words, in my opinion, masturbation is the best, the quickest, the easiest way for a woman to make friends with her pussy and please her wildest appetites. Now, the best, the quickest, the easiest female masturbation tips and techniques are described below by a female masturbation-expert, by me.

Hey, men, sit yourself down and get ready to learn more about women. It would be interesting for you to learn female masturbation techniques too, since almost all of the things listed below can be perfectly done by YOU on your women. C’mon, don’t you wanna orgasm her at the drop of her hat?

Women-proved, hand-proved, time-proved, finger-proved, and, at last, proved by pussy, these marvelous keys to the doors of female masturbation and, eventually, to better sex life – are up.

First of off, there are many female masturbation techniques and they all are intended to stimulate magic g-spot area and, of course, the King of female orgasms, the clit. Generally, female masturbation techniques fall into two types of g-spot and clitoral stimulation as: direct and indirect masturbation.

Direct female masturbation type covers finger masturbation technique, water masturbation technique, sex toy masturbation.

Indirect female masturbation type covers mind-body or fantasy masturbation technique, thing between the legs (pillow, stuffed toy) masturbation, squeezing hips masturbation.

Now close the doors, get comfortable, read it carefully and have your pants and panties ready for juice waterfall in anticipation of the coming night and day when you test out things which you’ve not tried before.

Female finger masturbation technique includes delicious gentle and moderately rough finger rubbing, slow finger rolling, playful finger “typing” or tapping, and, of course, ardently desirable finger penetration… Although each one is influenced by variety of personal preferences, but it is better to start with tapping masturbation, then rolling, then rubbing, then… penetrating. Pull your beautiful pussy lips apart to get your clit shamelessly “naked”. Once the clitoris is exposed gently tap it with your index finger and try to “beat out” some rhythm that feels good for you. Then place your thumb and your index finger on the clitoris and roll the clitoris between your fingers squeezing it now and then. When things go hard… Wet your fingers and go on with rubbing and pressing your clit, while keep on doing this, use the other hand to mercilessly stroke and penetrate your hotness! I guarantee you a real orgasm.

Female water masturbation technique. Umm, believe me that shower masturbation is not a myth. Water stream can work wonders with you. Direct the water straight to your pretty clit, and use head quite closer to it. What also feels crazy is when you position yourself under the running faucet with your legs spread wide. Get lost in pleasure and don’t forget about changing water force and waterproof sex toys.

Sex toy masturbation. Women sex toys are fantastic by their vibrating, rotating and multispeed functions. Three types of female sex toys provide me with amazing quality masturbation service: famous rabbit vibrators, g-spot vibrators, and clitoral stimulators. Clitoral massagers also work great and lead to the point of orgasm. My personal suggestion here is vibrating lipstick massager. This sex toy was momentarily proved by my womanhood.

Mind-body or fantasy female masturbation. This is a technique when orgasm is achieved with fantasizing only. It comes from Tantric sex, as I know, and to develop this orgasm skill a woman should learn how to control her body by her mind. Well, yes, I personally once managed to orgasm without touching myself and being touched. My man was away for some days and I was using his car. Sitting there I got his smell and music, so it all triggered my imagination and built up a sweet orgasm.

A thing between the legs masturbation. The things that really work are pillows and stuffed toys. Pillow masturbation goes affective for those women who have a highly sensitive clit, so that it responses to pillow pressure. Make a hard knot and enjoy the ride.

Squeezing thighs masturbation. Some women can achieve orgasm by simply squeezing hips tight against each other making by that an indirect stimulation of the clit. In the gripe of the hips clit’s the only salvation is orgasm. I personally can’t cum this way. But it was once when having no panties under my long silk dress I got the thrill just from feeling my naked legs and provocatively “free” pussy. I was hardly eating my meal squeezing my thighs to death, trying to press my clit by inner thigh muscles. So it all ended in the bathroom of a restaurant and a little spot on the dress.

That’s all from me. As with anything else, some things go for some people and don’t go for others, whatever the case, any of the above masturbation techniques feel great if your pussy and clit are perfectly lubricated with your own juices or special lubricants. Don’t forget about your nipples and pretty ass to add an extra buzz to your masturbation..!

Female masturbation is an awesome creation for body celebration.

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Everyone has a secret

Posted by Nellioness on Aug-27-2007

The past holds many secrets for everyone,
Some secrets are harmless, some secrets are threatening and some secrets are just life changing,
Secrets that many would die before ever revealing.

In our lives we do not realize when a sentence, a thought, a doing or ever a whisper shall become a secret,
Precious little things turn out to be an adventure and a change of events turn out to become deep dark secrets.

From a tender age to an adult life, we gather secrets…

Amorita Maharaj

I guess many of us have made mistakes. Many of us have deep inner thoughts that consume our mind, soul and body. And almost everyone has secrets.

With these secrets and thoughts we seek for someone to whom we can confide. So my darling friend Paisley gave birth to a new blog where everyone can expose his dark thoughts and reveal the greatest secrets, of course, anonymously. You could say – secret, as the name suggests, should be secret. Yes, of course, but if a secret damages you inside – it is better to be expressed.

Personally, I get a relief when those thoughts that torment my mind at last are out. Sometimes it’s easier to bare your soul to a complete stranger and, probably, to find that someone has the same secrets and desires. Why not to try?

The doors are open and Paisley invites you to get to know someone’s secrets and share yours.

Have a sexy Monday and dont work too hard :)

How come men are faking cum, too?

Posted by Nellioness on Aug-23-2007


We all know that the brightest stars of faking orgasms are women, but I personally was unaware that men sometimes perform Oscar-worthy orgasms, too. According to sex therapists and Orgasm Survey 24 percent of men fake orgasm, occasionally.

“Did you ever?” “Yep, I once was tired, got some whisky that night. You were so hot, but I couldn’t cum, so for you not to take it personally, I faked. Big deal” That’s what I was answered. Did I take it personally? Yes, but ssshhh. I took it personally for a moment, and then a wise thought soon “sobered me up” as a cold shower.

For fair, men are not “energizers”. They can’t be always “ready” and that could make them fake orgasm. Actually, for the same reasons as we women fake orgasm. It could be due to different physical and emotional factors as, say, stress, tiredness, distraction, influence of alcoholic drinks, simple “not today” reason. Of course, if things like “she’s not desirable for me anymore” are not involved.

Moreover, we women used to think that men should always have orgasms as a result of sex – this wrong believe is the second thing that leads some men fake orgasm in order to save their reputation and, perhaps, our feelings, too.

Thirdly, we think (at least, I thought) that ejaculation and orgasm are one and the same thing for men. Surprising as it may sound to many dick-owners themselves, but male orgasm and ejaculation are two separate processes, although more often they happen together. Thus, a man can ejaculate without having the sensations of orgasm, and get real orgasm without having ejaculation!

In other words, male real orgasm is the rhythmic contraction at the peak of sexual arousal that usually occurs around the time of ejaculation. But it can also happen before or after. Ejaculation is the lower spinal reflex that often follows real orgasm and results in the expulsion of many girls favorite cream.

Some men can have multiple orgasms without losing their erection and ejaculation. This “trick” can be developed by training of interrupting sexual intercourse before that “Oh my god, I cum” feeling. And, by the way, they don’t experience “blue balls” if they orgasm like that. But in case they don’t orgasm and don’t ejaculate – this bad thing really promising “blue balls”.

Did you know that?

You probably could have lived all your life without knowing this facts, but knowing could shed some light on things and resolve problems, probably.

Summing up, my idea is that men’s orgasms are different as well as ours. As I said in my previous post about women this goes for men too: even when a man is truly enjoying the intimacy with you – it doesn’t necessarily mean he will ejaculate. Occasional lack of ejaculation is nothing to worry about if there are no hidden problems between partners, like, I repeat, feeling distant and no longer wanting and loving her. This is not a reason to blame him and lead him fake it next time. I guess this is all about feeling aroused but not enough to cum. We women often experience the same.

But honestly, although I know that men are less likely to admit a sexual problem or “I’m not in the mood” thing, I want them not keeping us in the dark and just say it. I know it’s somewhat wrong, but I still want to end sex BOTH getting explosive real orgasms.

Why we think it’s our duty to get the guy to cum, indeed? But ssshhh…. This very point makes men fake orgasms.

Is that so, hah?

Fake Orgasm vs Real Orgasm

Posted by Nellioness on Aug-21-2007

Apparently, it’s not big news that sometimes some women fake orgasms for some reasons. It’s also not a big surprise that many fake on a regular basis! It has been estimated by an Orgasm Survey that 72 percent of women were “orgasm liars” at least once in their current or most recent relationship, and 55 percent of men say they cannot distinguish “orgasm presentation” from a real orgasm.

Actually, statistics is quite impressive and suggesting me some thoughts.

When I was younger, faking orgasms was my sex daily routine, because I didn’t get them at all, both from intercourse and clitoral stimulation. It took a long time to understand myself and what I really need for my orgasm. But years later when my body became more sensitive and responsive with the help of lovers coming into my life and my self-discoveries – I got it, the real female orgasm. Since then I just don’t want to fake sexual happiness, I don’t want to fool a man I am with and I don’t want to cheat myself, because I’ve learned a fantastic side of not faking my orgasms. Yes, in a blue moon under a particular circumstance, I remember I faked it in my adult life, too. What were the reasons? Actually, a well-known joke fits well as a serious answer here: Q. Why do women fake orgasms? A. Because they think men care. So the reason was: I thought he cared, seriously, and as a careful woman I wanted to save his feelings.

Female orgasm: fake or not to fake? Now my experience and knowledge tell you NO, for sure. There are no good reasons for faking it. Fake orgasm gives a man the false impression that he’s pushing the right buttons and makes him keep pushing them. Orgasm faking is not about saving the feelings; it is simply a deadlock promising ultimately ruin the relationship because of sexual dissatisfaction. All in all, why to fake an orgasm? With a little figuring out and time you can really get one, rocking your entire world.

How to know you’re duped? Hah, well. I will hardly satisfy your catlike curiosity by saying: there are no rules and special signs she’s faking, because every woman is artistic enough to fake it VERY WELL. Some signs listed on the web are disputable and not accurate, since female real orgasms are different from woman to woman. I can orgasm wet, I can orgasm dry, sometimes I cry out, sometimes I’m quiet, sometimes I get multiple contractions, sometimes it’s a fast release. Thus, there is nothing complicated to fake orgasms but it’s very tricky to tell them.

Suspected her in outrageous “orgasmic lie”? Men should understand that even when a woman is truly enjoying the intimacy with you – it doesn’t necessarily mean she will climax. By the way, 25 percent of women are able to get real orgasm through intercourse and the majority of women don’t manage to orgasm every time they have sex, even with a skillful partner. It depends on many things: on the quality of foreplay, timing, techniques, emotional state of a woman in this very day. So to improve the situation and reach mutual understanding you need to COMMUNICATE. It will help to become more emotionally intimate and open to each other about delicate things. In case communication is not about your relationship. Do you really need that relationship? Lack of communication results in faking both “bedroom” and “out of bedroom” happiness. There is no doubt.

See ya soon!

Oh, wait… I feel like you want to ask me one more thing ;)

Are there women who never fake orgasm, you ask? Perhaps. Those that squirt.

Anyway, I’d love men to respond honestly. Do you want us fake orgasms, *under particular circumstances*? Honest answer will help us to be more honest back…

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Today is an official International Orgasm Day. It means the whole world joining together to celebrate ORGASM

View how they think it all works, from global orgasm.

They hope that a huge influx of physical, mental and spiritual energy with conscious peaceful intent will help to change the violent state of the human world and reduce aggression. They proclaim this day as celebration of intimate pleasure and energy. They call people all over the world (“especially in countries with weapons and mass destruction”) to have an orgasm on the same day and “at the time of your choosing, in the place of your choosing and with as much privacy as you choose”.

Well. Possibly, perhaps, maybe this “synchronized orgasm” idea could work. Imagine what could happen if the majority of the world’s adults were to do this. Global bed creaking and squeaking, millions ah’s and oh’s – it would be a huge flow of human energy! Don’t you think that would count as having improved world a little bit, just for a day? Possibly, perhaps, maybe. But as for the countries with weapons and choosing the place you want with as much privacy as you want… I personally think this all sounds like global bunk and international mess, being always for orgasm and pleasure though.

Overall, the idea of celebrating your sexuality and body delight has indeed positive input. And, possibly, perhaps, maybe it may bring more fun and smiles all around the world. Anyway, orgasm is a pleasurable feeling of…

BY THE WAY… There are lots of talks on orgasm. They discuss, discuss, discuss… research, analyze, argue… But no one actually can find words to clearly describe his own orgasm and WHAT IT ACTUALLY FEELS LIKE. This is a pleasurable feeling of what?

Every person’s orgasm is unique, depending on individual perceptions. And how come it’s so hard to define them so that one could understand what you feel? I have always been curious about what men feel when they cum. I asked my male friends and lovers and brothers and uncles and others to somehow describe, compare with something, or show, after all (wink-wink). But… no one did answer so that I can understand. I asked my female friends to explain what a female orgasm feels like. None did answer besides “er…”, well”, “hmm”, “you know when you have it”. Yes, I know when I have it but how to describe??

Can you describe yours?

Can I describe mine you ask?

Well, er… you know when you have it ;P

Seriously, my orgasm… What can I say besides “muscle contractions”, “panting for air”, “spasm”, “dizziness through the whole body”, “like earth move”, “tingling” and many other obscure descriptions. My orgasm… it feels like… like you and your pussy both start panting as if you were holding your breath under the water. It can also be in colors. It seems like colorful circles start to appear before my eyes making me giddy and drunk. It’s like spreading and pulsation inside your underbelly. It’s like pain, amazingly pleasurable pain in my pussy.

Oh, for example, you can clench fingers in fist, tightly, than put some oil on your “bad” finger and insert it into your fist with back and forth motions. Did you get what I’m saying? Probably not. It makes me laughing and a bit turned on as I picture men fulfilling this procedure with their sexy oiled fingers. Yummy…

Anyway, let’s orgasm *every day* to make a great input into the energy field of the Earth ;)