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Sex Toy Joys Without Boys
Yesterday world sex news. com linked to an interesting article about mechanical masturbation and its spread among modern women. Some extracts:
~In northern Europe, one out of two women uses a mechanical sex toy and ‘Tupper-dildo’ parties are increasingly popular.
~‘Can the use of sex toys desensitise women to real penises?’ This metaphysical question was posted on the website of American magazine Esquire by a worried male reader and is worth asking – especially since we know that European women are becoming more and more fond of erotic gadgets.
~According to a recent survey, more than half of Irish, Swedish and British women own an electronic boyfriend; the south remains more prudish and pleases itself with sombre rosary beads. But the barbaric invasion of the Dildo knight and his squires is well underway.
~The shady sex shops of Pigalle in Paris are finished. For example, aficionados can purchase their beloved vibrator or dildo at Ann Summers at London Luton airport, before taking off for real.
~Another little revolution is the increasing success of ‘Tupper-dildo’ parties, based on the model of innocent get-togethers for 1950s housewives, where a resourceful hostess would show the other guests the latest household commodities (and let them try them out); a sociable concept, and a rather profitable one for the organisers.
Well, yes, today we pay proper attention to our sex lives, because we are well-informed of sex importance, curious about sexuality issues and open-minded about novelties that definitely spice up things. It’s true that sex toys are becoming more popular and for me personally it’s also true that if used without perversion and addiction, they don’t lead to desensitization to real penises and pussies.
My attitude to adult toys is absolutely positive. For me, a sex toy is not a replacement for the real penis. Not for the world! It’s an ADDITION to my sex life. And this addition is not a bad one, because if a woman isn’t obsessed with sex toy use, she can get a lot of benefits for her health and sexual experiences.
The same is true for men who aren’t frightened by sex toys and, otherwise, add them from time to time to their solo and partner plays. I don’t mind when my man uses nice cock rings, for instance, because these adult toys please both my spots and his shaft. If he is getting his pleasures alone – surely, I’m ready to shower him with a lot of masturbation sex toys and artificial pussies, if only he doesn’t enjoy somebody’s real pussy. Ok, of course, if a man wants to cheat on his woman – he’ll do it. But, nevertheless, a masturbation sex toy put with care on his favorite pillow will reduce the chances.
Another point stressed in the article is ‘Tupper-dildo’ parties. Hah, well, I personally find sex toy parties and ‘Tupper-dildo’s good and informative for many people whether they are married or single, adventurous or cautious, fans or haters. Parties like these present samples of the most popular products, provide some educational information, and just let you gather with your friends for fun, jokes and drinks.
As to purchasing of sex toys beyond the specialized shops, it’s quite another matter. And I’m against.
Finally, the thing that have always interested me as a woman. For example, imagine the situation when the merciless circumstances (business, trip, health problems) force you be away from your partner. What would you choose: to bring your sweetheart a vibrating “rescuer” or let him/her decide on his own? I guess the factor of desensitization won’t be an issue.
Therefore, in my opinion, getting sex toy joys without boys (girls) isn’t always a wrong way of sexual satisfaction.
Do you agree with me?
Beautiful pics huh? :)
An excellent selection of pics for this one. I think it’s great when women are comfortable enough to have sex toys but I didn’t know there were any good ones for men outside of using porn. Even if there were it’s not something that men seem to have embraced including myself as our peers could view it as a sign of weakness and source of embarrassment. Perhaps we have it all wrong.
I like my partner to use sex toys. I am not afraid to be replaced by a ultra modern dildo since a man is more than that. Passion, desire, pheromones, kisses, etc are things that cannot be replaced by a dildo. If some women prefer toys to men, I think they’ve made their choices about men: men are only pricks!.lol.
What is quite unfair is that there are plenty of toys for women and very few for men. Women can get lots of options, for us we have the dolls, the rings, the artificial vaginas, some vibes…
Now, a doll or artificial fanny can never replace a real woman, indeed. To make love is more than just pump or get inserted, there are plenty of things going on.
About the shops, there’s something we should consider: in Europe, sex shops are more spread than in the States, and the sexuality is far freer than in the States. So, there’s nothing wrong to get a toy in the airport, it’s something natural. In Europe sex, sexuality, erotica is something so natural and normal…
Lovely post Nelly!
:)
Forgot to add, it’s very very hot to receive a ring from my partner telling that she’s using her dildo while thinking of me!…
That’s good ally when using well, lol…
and the photos are great!
:)
Ricardo and Edgar –
First of all, I’d like to stress that I totally agree with you that sex toys are created for fun, variety, health, and imitation of the real parts, but not for their replacement. What can be best than the real touchings, kisses, soft skin, dear fingers of your sweetheart…
However, some women say that real cock can’t vibrate and rotate, so a vibrator sex toy is more exciting than real penis. Yes, but let me repeat myself – the rotation and vibration are fantastic ADDITIONS to sexual experiences. Nothing bad and diminishing our breathing hot partners. But if some heterosexual women seriously and obsessively prefer toys to men – that’s a bad sign. If some women and men prefer to ENRICH their solo or partner plays – that’s a good sign.
And, yes, it’s true and quite unfair that women have more choices about sex toys than men. However, in my opinion, outside the porn stuff mentioned, there are a lot of fantastic gags to test out. For instance, (from my perspective and experience) one of the great choices for men are cock rings, swings and submission (or bdsm) kits that can be used to make a woman pleasantly submissive, helpless. Just take time and choose something for you and your girlfriend. Do browse through the toys I select for my presentations on the blog left side. Don’t think I pick out at random ;)
Surely, it’s hot and pleasant to receive a ring from your partner telling that she/he is using a sex toy while thinking of YOU. It’s no doubt to “fill” your underbelly with wetness…
Thank you guys for visiting me and sharing!!!
Oh yes, submission kits are great!! but I consider them more like part of exploration of a couple’s sexual life.
Some women don’t fancy that, some other LOVE that. Depends, anything that can add something new is great such eating from body (some food taste delicious with your partner’s juices! mmmhh!) , role playing, blindfolding, sexual dancing, etc. A submission kit and a nice toy you can get great results, I can tell ;)
Mmm, yeah, eating from body, role playing, blindfolding, sexual dancing, toying…. You listed almost all I really like. Intuitive man :)
Blindfolding… it forces you to focus on senses. It heightens touch, sounds, tastes, smell. The very fact that you can’t see what your partner is going to do next – makes anticipation blow your mind.
Amazing experience.
mmm, yes, I figured that you fancied those explorations…
Yes, blindfolding is amazing,indeed. I LOVE it, as well.
As you well say, it really makes you focus in the senses. You can play with the senses using something cold, hot, wet, etc… And also is great way to know your partner when both are blindfolded. :)
I second you both Edgar and Nellioness on the blindfolding. Something is very arousing about the vulnerability of it all. the trust and so on.
Nice post.
Self stimulation is a very healthy exercise in a world where relationships can get complicated and difficult.
A person free of relationships has a lot of free energy and time to focus on his/her career.
Self stimulation definitely helps both males and females stay healthy mentally.
Beautiful photos. The one with the blue toy would be most men’s favourite ;-) heh.
Hey Vikram
Thanks for the response… I’m glad you’ve found this post nice and visually beautiful.
:)
Artificial substitutes of something such as a food, a pleasure or sex is a sign of the technologically advanced society. At the same time, the use of substitutes is out for those who can not afford a natural product.
Lower levels of society using surrogates, they do not have the resources (time or money) on to the natural sex. They have to earn a living and happy for them unaffordable luxury.
Thank you for such interesting pictures…..
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