Woman About Sex

Some men say “smile is the second best thing women can do with their lips”. Okey, they’re silly animals who do think this way, but giving head indeed plays a great part in the life of both penis-carrying and non-penis-carrying members of the universe, because a good done blowjob is one of the real paths to a man’s heart! Many say it’s stomach. Dear ladies who think its stomach that leads to a man’s heart, please offer your sweetheart to choose between a good dinner and a good suck-off… Let me foretell: all the same you’d not avoid both, but first you’d definitely suck him dry!

Well, as many men like porn-way-things, so why not to bring new dimensions to your blowjob sessions? I want to share the blowjob techniques in the porn star way that I’ve learned from different sources (vids, porn, adult male and female friends) + my own experience and skills (nobody has ever complained ;)

(I’m sure it’s needless to mention hygiene and the indisputable rule of blowjob that I personally abbreviate “S&S&S”. I mean Saliva, Suction and Swallowing)

Don’t play the piano – PLAY THE FLUTE

In ancient Greece, fellatio was known as “playing the flute”. You know ladies that playing the real flute involves your mouth positioned to one end while twiddling your fingers up and down the shaft. Do the same to play the “skin flute” till you’ll have him squirming with desire!

The Butterfly Flick

Involves your tongue flicking lightly along the ridge of the cock. My advice is to hold the penis at the base while performing this very technique. “Flick his mind away”!

The Butterfly Wings

Oh, it’s a very very sensual trick. Believe me, it adds the specific sensations to his ecstasy. Of course don’t think he’ll cum while undergo this, but if he’s a sensitive man he’ll definitely go mad of your EYELASHES touching that cute “pee-place” on his dick. Ladies, “flap the wings” quickly having his frenulum of prepuce (sorry, I’ve always wanted to say that) just under the ridge. Flap’im!

The Silk Swirl

Okey, the Silk Swirl isn’t for the novice sucker. It’s licking the shaft clockwise and counterclockwise moving your tongue up-down. This is something exclusive, so it’s worth to try it out. Swirl’im!

Play the Hoover

Try to suck the dick halfway into the mouth and then creating the pressure of a vacuum cleaner slowly slide it out. Suck him! Suck him dry!

Ava Maria

Well, a funny one yet it works if done right. Includes the “vibrating” tongue, throat and tonsils. Suck your man’s penis into your throat and while it is deep in – start to hummmm… Yeah! I usually hum Ava Maria ;)) The idea is moving those throat muscles while having the dick in your mouth the way it flicks the veins of the shaft! Hum’im!

BBJ by BJB (Body BlowJob by BlowJob Bitches)

I abbreviate it like this because it involves not just my mouth but my body as well. I mean caressing his dick with nipples, and other body parts, moving his tool across your face, belly, etc. In my experiments the most thrilling (both for me and my partner) is touching my NECK with his wet dick, making my skin shine with his juices. And then… then comes the hottest thing, ladies. Touch your wet neck and deliciously suck off your man’s juices of your fingers. BBJ’im, dear BJBs!

Aqua-a-a-a-ah

Performed in water or with water in your mouth. “Exotic Aqua” is done with cold or hot water. Dip’im into wet “ecstasy”!

Tooth-Job

The technique is adapted from the Kama Sutra and named “Biting the sides”. Don’t worry guys, nobody is going to eat your “fellow”. Don’t worry ladies, you are not to eat it. Just cover the end of the penis with your finger tips then gently (!) nibble the sides! Nibble’im!

Tip-Lip Service

While performing a blowjob on your partner just add to it a magnificent gesture – play with finger - put a f
inger tip into his mouth, caress his lips and wet them with his saliva. Then use this hot finger across the dick head and balls (ohh, my dear porn stars, and don’t forget to file your long, manicured “kitty” nails…) My exes and my current find this very erotic. Tip-lip’im!

Whew, I’m done.

Now it’s time for you to give me feedback. Men all over the net please sound off the best ways to suck you off; what are those things you wish women knew about to send you in the 7-th Heaven? Ladies, any exotic lick-suck-ways, porn techs, secrets?


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“inspired” isn’t enough…

even “happy” isn’t enough…

All day yesterday was marked by the red color and the luxurious fragrance of roses. In the morning I got flowers with a card where was neatly written by my sweetheart “to begin with…”

Of course I felt intrigued impatiently looking forward to what’s to come.

But after a hard day at work, I arrived home tired and exhausted. All I wanted was just to relax…

When I entered the room another amazing surprise was awaiting me there: rose petals and chocolate candies spread all over the bed and… a lovely fancy box in the middle!

“Come on, baby, open it,” he said.

So a red-colored teddy with a spicy bow in the backside joined my lingerie.

Turned out we were thinking almost the same way when picking out the gifts. So a stretchy black thong joined his underwear and a smart clip-on tie was added to his business suit.

Inside the tie I put a little note saying ten things why I do love him.

We exchanged gifts, and before I could tell him how happy I feel right now, he again took me in the arms and carried to the bathroom…

Where I held my breath in a third time!

Our bathroom, our familiar bath, looked the most beautiful I had ever seen it before. The candlelit, the champagne with ice… balloons and… the bathtub full of petals!

Oh my, it was unbelievably wonderful…

I felt giddy with happiness, and just purred, “Thank you”

“All for you,” he said and went to put on soft music.

We slipped out of the clothes and stepped “into petals”. We lay back in the warm water so the petals covered our nipples keeping from eyes those interesting places… already “wetter” than the water itself.

He took pheromone bubble bath and added a few drops to the water.

Unbelievably thrilling, comfortable, warm, touching…

Then he handed me a balloon and a pin. “Pop it”, he said with a playful wink.

I did… and rose petals filled the air and surrounded me in the tub!.. They covered my shoulders, my hair, taking my breath away, making two tears stream down my cheeks!.. This was the sweetest thing anyone has ever done for me.

He poured glasses with champagne. “To a third Valentine’s Day together, My Love!” We lightly touched the glasses and our lips met in a promising kiss, hotter than the fires of hell…

“Let me to end it with…” I whispered while my fingers found their way to his erected length under the petals…

We smiled… archly, for we both knew what’s ahead… ;)

St. Valentine’s Day is almost here! So yesterday I invited my female friends over to my place and we had a nice evening together chatting on gifts, sharing plans and ideas on how to celebrate the most romantic holiday of the year. When we were talking about sex gifts, of course, I got to show them some of my sex toys. Here Ann, a 25 years old lady (the cousin of a friend of mine), blurted out the thing that has inspired me to post today, “Thanks God, I don’t need any sex toys in my life, my bf is my favorite sex toy. Besides, only pervs and losers are into them!”

This suggests that sex toys myths and prejudices still exist.

I know everyone judges from his perspective. Anyway, I want briefly to express my views.

I think this is fear that leads to sex toy’s myths. I browsed through the web and found the most common fears about sex toys.
Have a look.

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Sex toys are only for perverts and sluts
Sex toys can be dangerous for health
If you have a partner you don’t need a sex toy
Some people feel insecure about their partner using a toy
Sex toys are for masturbation only
Feeling of shame and guilt buying sex toys
Only gays are into sex with anal toy
If a man uses anal toy he is gay
The more you pay for a sex toy, the better it is
Sex toys are only for people who have a bad sex life
~ * ~

I’m not an expert, but I think, fear is a question of someone’s likes and dislikes. Find useless to advocate sex toys and point out the benefits, because I’m totally sure that: you’ll never know if you don’t try. My own way to overcome fear– is to deal with it. Now I know that normal, healthy people use sex toys. I am normal and healthy woman, my man and my friends are normal and healthy people. Using sex toys doesn’t make us losers, not a bit.
We’re the sure winners, because we’re open-minded and “fear-free”!

The reality about men and adult toys is that many men play with them (both when they’re in relationships and single). Besides, the best way for a man to become a better lover is to learn more about his own sexuality. Does it mean he’s sick? It means he’s smart.

Some people feel insecure about their partner using a toy. I believe communication is a true way to “break” your concerns and keep trust in relationships. On the other hand, if your partner uses a toy and feels pleasure – why it’s so bad? We all live for pleasure. I don’t mean the situation when a sex toy becomes a substitute for a person, but as a spicy addition to the sexual activity, adult toys are cool!

Feelings of shame and guilt? Do you feel these, buying sexy lingerie or some other things that are considered intimate, “secret”? I guess no.

Sex toys were designed to make people feel good.

It’s all up to you to be involved in this play or avoid it. But life is too short to waste it on unnecessary fears. Sex is supposed to be joyful, right? Sex toys are, just as the name suggests, TOYS, things to play with for many JOYS!

Have a nice day, have a nice night, have a nice gift, have hard-to-forget sex!

My friend Sophia is a 29-year-old woman, who has been happily married for three years. Recently she gave birth to a lovely baby girl! But the joy after the birth of her daughter was overshadowed by anxiety. She is now depressed about her marriage. The problem is that she cannot give her hubby as much pleasure as she used to give before. She feels like he’s about to lose all sexual interest in her as a woman. He gets no pleasure anymore and says her pussy has become “empty”…

I’m not a mother so far. But I know that having a strong vagina is extremely necessary for any woman. I remember one of my exes murmuring me while lovemaking to “squeeze it to death” around his penis. I know that the ability of a woman to rhythmically contract and release the vaginal muscles, dramatically helps to magnify orgasms and give her sexual partners out-of-the-world sensations (to many men it’s more important that his woman has a strong “gina” than a perfect body). It might become a spicy “pussy-trick”. Besides, it’s very important in giving birth.

As to me, to have my own “vaginal secret” I’ve strengthened the pelvic muscles by doing some Kegel exercises (about 100-200 squeezing and releasing actions per day). The exercises work but they’re hard and time consuming. I need to find the easier solution of the problem.

As usual, I turn to careful sex shops…

I’ve heard about vaginal exercisers that help to make your vagina stronger. I started to search good pelvic exercisers until something caught my eyes – a very nice thing shaped like a bowtie! It’s Iris vaginal exerciser by California Exotic. It looks like the smooth glass toy but it is made from sex toy material named lucite . What especially had caught my attention was “for beginners”. I guess the Iris is a nice one to start with.
Well, the vagina owners, just tighten and release your pelvic muscle around the Iris; 5-10 min is all we need (by the way, there are women who keep this exerciser inside during a day).

Another one to try next is Juno pelvic exerciser, with increasing weights.
Do you know something about Ben Wa Balls? I’m going to try them in the future and post the results. If somebody has the experience, please, share!

Today I’ve received an mms message from my man. It was marked “tattoo”. Guess what I’ve seen on the screen? A picture with the black letters down the shaft of his erected penis… NELLY 4EVER. I first thought he really tattooed his perfect dick! I was shocked. Later I’ve got that it was written in black marker. He did the “tattoo” to prove his love and just to cheer me up (we had a quarrel the day before). For me a man’s sense of humour is one of the sexiest things about him… So I feel like I’m going to “clean” his dick with my pussy’s nectar and cum on his fake tatty.

As to the real tattoos. The idea of getting one is consuming my mind for about a year. Formely, tattoos were taboos for me, because I used to associate them with two meters tall bikers and criminals. Now I consider a tattoo like a work of art, let say. I’ve changed my mind after my man got his real upper arm one last summer. He had it because of the big scar. It looked like a scorpion or something abstract. My first thought was “what the hell?!” (it looked terrific, must say). The first thing he said was, “Now I’m a piece of world art!”
Indeed now it’s fantastic, appealing, cool!

I could not even imagine that a tattoo could have a sexual power!

Talking on female’s tattoos, perhaps, the real smaller ones I find sexually attractive. Although, this is a question that will vary for different people, their style, body and so on.

A tattoo is not just a decoration for me, it’s me, it’s the symbol that would tell a short story of my personality. I would get something really personal, stylish, something that is just between the two of you, enticing my lover to cum on my tattoo.

So being new to tattoo life I have many questions on my mind. The most crucial are: tattoo on a woman – a turn-on or a turn-down, what are the influencing factors?

Could somebody help me to decide on my design? I just feel lost.

PS. By the way, those who don’t want to feel the pain, could feel the pleasure and try a good alternative to the real ones, tastee tattoos, a fun sweet stuff with cool flavours!